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The Single Scene Column©

By Kelly Leary©, Founder of Revolution Dating                    	 Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing                            Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets. Please
                                                                 vanishes without a trace. You could have been dating a                 call our hotlines seven days a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696)
Decoding the New Dating                                          few days, or months, but one day they simply disappear.                in the Palm Beaches and South Florida area or 772-932-
                                                                 They don’t return your texts, and may even block you                   HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast. You may also visit our
Language                                                         to avoid having the break-up conversation with you. It’s               informational only website at All
                                                                 cowardly, but sadly common, especially with a vast array               inquiries are confidential. Background checks are required.
	 The Love Business is                                           of dating apps at our fingertips.                                      All applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
booming with new couples                                         	 Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may                  practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
and engagements. I can’t                                         resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they
count how many dynamic                                           disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened,                 Around Town TAKEN
duos are enjoying the                                            like a revived corpse.
fireworks together all                                           	 Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles             Couples & More...
summer long because of us.                                       finding it so easy to communicate via a smart phone, anyone
Summertime is the kick-off                                       can be anyone. False confidence abounds and many just feel             	 This club has found that connecting to the right people at
of Cuffing Season, the time                                      they can jump to the next in an instant...and guess what?              the right places for the right causes, attracts even more dynamic
when finding a girlfriend                                        They can. This is a weak testimony to a real man or woman              and successful singles as a bonus! Not only is this award
or boyfriend becomes even                                        who is looking to date sincerely as a romantic goal. If you            winning dating and events club growing by leaps and bounds,
more appealing as the                                            feel you are in this trap, get out quickly.                            they are also rising in the ranks of the eyes and hearts of the
countdown to the big holidays                                    	 Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t                      public. All eyes on Revolution Dating, and Kelly and her team
is officially in motion.                                         introduce you to their friends or family, and doesn’t                  of real life Earth angels. There is simply no reason to spend
	 As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you up to      post anything about you on social media. Basically,                    the summer alone with this club in town...just look at these
date on some new “terms” being used by singles today. The        you’re their secret boyfriend or girlfriend, while they                photos! Revolution Dating would like to thank all who have
old-fashioned meeting through introduction by a friend is        feel justified in “stashing” you on the shelf, pretending              supported and promoted their club for so many years.America,
the best way to go...and that is what we recreate at my club.    nothing is going on to the outside world, and keeping                  especially Florida, will be seeing much more growth from
So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next chapter of          their options open. If they proclaim you as their romantic             this successful dating club
your life. Knowledge is power. The power of love knows           interest, they will have to give up their search.                      in the years to come. At least
no boundaries but first we must know who we are dating           	 Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your                       someone is doing it right! Say
and what goes on “Behind the Screens!” (Yikes). Online           new partner about whether you are in an exclusive                      no to online dating and make
daters beware...and social media lovers...heed my advice!        relationship, you are at risk of being “benched.” Like                 your appointment to meet
It’s just too easy to get into trouble if you are dating via     the sports term, where players are left on the bench as                with Kelly and her team, as
the internet in any way. In this day and age, dating begins      reserves, you might find yourself being someone’s back-                she is in very high demand
and ends with our smart phones…Time To Get Smarter.              up option as they continue to look around. They may                    this summer! Their schedules
Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:                         come back to you if nobody better comes along, but that                are filling up quickly! Call
	 Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact with         doesn’t give one high hopes for the relationship, does it?             the main hotline now at 561-
another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond emotional      	 Today, more than ever, I realize why this club has                   630-XOXO (9696)! If not
infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an electronic device  become so popular among our members who are too smart                  now then when? Enjoy these
in one way or another. How do you know if you have               for the shark tank. If you are someone who has resisted                photos below and Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will
crossed the line? If you are doing anything you would not        dating because of all of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT             could be next! Have no fear! be watching fireworks again
want your partner knowing about (when it comes to dating         you do have to stand up for what you want at some point                Your summer is LOVE here! this summer thanks to RD!
or flirting) like texting inappropriately, sending photos        and take a strong calculated risk. Not everyone is obsessed
or sharing intimate feelings with anyone other than your         with his or her screens! Not everyone would risk his or her                                  Theresa (now an honorary
“exclusive” partner, then you are micro-cheating.                safety, money or sanity on internet dating or blind flirting.
	 Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies               You don’t have to either. Don’t think of what you have to              Barbara & Gordon, est. 2016, Cupid too) & Frank, est.
quickly. You feel someone fell madly in love with you            lose today, think of what you have to gain. Be confident,
but they have never met you or you met briefly. In this          smart, and carry on my friend! It’s time you start dating
case you definitely should think twice. Why is he or she         smart too. You got this--and so do we!
falling so fast and they barely know you? How many               	 Let’s claim some internet-independence!
times have they done this before?
	 Catfishing: When a person lures someone into a                                                                               XOXO,
relationship by pretending to be someone else online                                                                             Kelly
or has greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often
steal photos from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes             	 Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a master’s
even create multiple personas to make their stories more         degree in psychology and 27 successful years in the dating
believable. They will try to continue a “fake” relationship      industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE Florida
for months--always avoiding a face-to-face meeting.              Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News, The Palm
                                                                 Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South Florida

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