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      The Single Scene Column                                           ©

      By Kelly Leary , Founder of Revolution Dating      believable. They will try to continue a “fake” relationship     Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a
                                                         for months--always avoiding a face-to-face meeting.   master’s degree in psychology and 27 successful years
      Decoding the New Dating                              Ghosting:  When  someone  you’ve  been  seeing   in the dating industry. A top matchmaker, now known as
      Language                                           vanishes without a trace. You could have been dating a   THE Florida Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC
                                                                                                           News, The  Palm  Beach  Post,  PalmBeacher  Magazine,
                                                         few days, or months, but one day they simply disappear.
                                                         They don’t return your texts, and may even block you   The  South  Florida  Business  Journal, and numerous
        The  Love  Business  is                          to avoid having the break-up conversation with you. It’s   other media outlets. Please call our hotlines seven days
      booming with new couples                           cowardly, but sadly common, especially with a vast array   a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696) in the Palm Beaches
      and  engagements.  I  can’t                        of dating apps at our fingertips.                 and South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
      count how many dynamic                               Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may   Treasure  Coast. You  may  also  visit  our  informational
      duos  are  enjoying  the                           resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they   only website at All inquiries
      fireworks  together  all                           disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened,   are confidential. Background checks are required. All
      summer long because of us.                         like a revived corpse.                            applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
      Summertime is the kick-off                           Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles   practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
      of Cuffing Season, the time                        finding  it  so  easy  to  communicate via  a  smart  phone,
      when  finding  a  girlfriend                       anyone  can  be  anyone.  False  confidence  abounds  and   Around Town TAKEN
      or boyfriend becomes even                          many just feel they can jump to the next in an instant...
      more  appealing  as  the                           and guess what? They can. This is a weak testimony to   Couples & More...
      countdown to the big holidays                      a real man or woman who is looking to date sincerely as
      is officially in motion.                           a romantic goal. If you feel you are in this trap, get out     This club has found that connecting to the right people
        As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you   quickly.                                     at the right places for the right causes, attracts even more
      up to date on some new “terms” being used by singles     Stashing: When  the  person  you’re  dating  doesn’t   dynamic and successful singles as a bonus! Not only is this
      today. The old-fashioned meeting through introduction by   introduce  you  to  their  friends  or  family,  and  doesn’t   award winning dating and events club growing by leaps and
      a friend is the best way to go...and that is what we recreate   post  anything  about  you  on  social  media.  Basically,   bounds, they are also rising in the ranks of the eyes and hearts
      at my club. So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next   you’re  their  secret  boyfriend  or  girlfriend,  while  they   of the public. All eyes on Revolution Dating, and Kelly and
      chapter of your life. Knowledge is power. The power of   feel justified in “stashing” you on the shelf, pretending   her team of real life Earth angels. There is simply no reason
      love knows no boundaries but first we must know who   nothing is going on to the outside world, and keeping   to spend the summer alone with this club in town...just look
      we are dating and what goes on “Behind the Screens!”   their options open. If they proclaim you as their romantic   at these photos! Revolution Dating would like to thank all
      (Yikes). Online daters beware...and social media lovers...  interest, they will have to give up their search.   who have supported and promoted their club for so many
      heed my advice! It’s just too easy to get into trouble if     Benching:  Before  you  have  “the  talk”  with  your   years. America, especially Florida, will be seeing much more
      you are dating via the internet in any way. In this day   new  partner  about  whether  you  are  in  an  exclusive   growth from this successful
      and age, dating begins and ends with our smart phones…  relationship,  you  are  at risk of  being  “benched.”  Like   dating club in the years to
      Time To Get Smarter.                               the sports term, where players are left on the bench as   come. At least someone is
      Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:           reserves, you might find yourself being someone’s back-  doing  it  right!  Say  no  to
        Micro-Cheating:  Inappropriate  flirting  or  contact   up  option  as  they  continue  to  look  around. They  may   online dating and make your
      with another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond   come back to you if nobody better comes along, but that   appointment  to  meet  with
      emotional  infidelity,  in  that  this  usually  occurs  on  an   doesn’t give one high hopes for the relationship, does it?  Kelly and her team, as she
      electronic device in one way or another. How do you know     Today,  more  than  ever,  I  realize  why  this  club  has   is in very high demand this
      if you have crossed the line? If you are doing anything   become so popular among our members who are too smart   summer!  Their  schedules
      you would not want your partner knowing about (when it   for the shark tank. If you are someone who has resisted   are filling up quickly! Call
      comes to dating or flirting) like texting inappropriately,   dating because of all of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT   the main hotline now at 561-
      sending photos or sharing intimate feelings with anyone   you do have to stand up for what you want at some point   630-XOXO  (9696)!  If not
      other than your “exclusive” partner, then you are micro-  and take a strong calculated risk. Not everyone is obsessed   now then when? Enjoy these
      cheating.                                          with his or her screens! Not everyone would risk his or her   photos  below  and  know... Theresa (now an honorary
        Love  Bombing: The  flame  that  burns  too  fast  dies   safety, money or sanity on internet dating or blind flirting.   you could be next! Have no  Cupid too) & Frank, est.
      quickly. You feel someone fell madly in love with you   You don’t have to either. Don’t think of what you have to   fear! Your summer is LOVE  2017,  will be boating all
      but they have never met you or you met briefly. In this   lose today, think of what you have to gain. Be confident,   here!  summer long thanks to RD!
      case you definitely should think twice. Why is he or she   smart, and carry on my friend! It’s time you start dating
      falling  so  fast  and  they  barely  know  you?  How  many   smart too. You got this--and so do we!
      times have they done this before?                    Let’s claim some internet-independence!
        Catfishing:  When  a  person  lures  someone  into  a                                     XOXO,
      relationship  by  pretending  to  be  someone  else  online                                  Kelly
      or has greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often
      steal  photos  from  strangers’  profiles,  and  sometimes
      even create multiple personas to make their stories more

                                                                                                           Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will  Barbara & Gordon, est.
                                                                                                           be watching fireworks again  2016, will be paired off again
                                                                                                           this summer thanks to RD!  this summer thanks to RD!

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