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      The Single Scene Column                                           ©

      By Kelly Leary , Founder of Revolution Dating      You feel someone fell madly in love with you but they have     Today, more than ever, I realize why this club has become
                                                         never met you or you met briefly. In this case you definitely   so popular among our members who are too smart for the shark
      Decoding the New Dating                            should think twice. Why is he or she falling so fast and they   tank. If you are someone who has resisted dating because of all
      Language                                           barely know you? How many times have they done this before?   of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT you do have to stand up
                                                                                                           for what you want at some point and take a strong calculated
                                                           Catfishing:  When a person lures someone into a
                                                         relationship by pretending to be someone else online or has   risk. Not everyone is obsessed with his or her screens! Not
        The Love Business is                             greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often steal photos   everyone would risk his or her safety, money or sanity on
      booming with new couples                           from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes even create multiple   internet dating or blind flirting. You don’t have to either. Don’t
      and engagements. I can’t                           personas to make their stories more believable. They will try   think of what you have to lose today, think of what you have
      count how many dynamic                             to continue a “fake” relationship for months--always avoiding   to gain. Be confident, smart, and carry on my friend! It’s time
      duos are enjoying the                              a face-to-face meeting.                           you start dating smart too. You got this--and so do we!
      fireworks together all                               Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing vanishes     Let’s claim some internet-independence!
      summer long because of us.                         without a trace. You could have been dating a few days, or                                 XOXO,
      Summertime is the kick-off                         months, but one day they simply disappear. They don’t return                                 Kelly
      of Cuffing Season, the time                        your texts, and may even block you to avoid having the break-
      when finding a girlfriend or                       up conversation with you. It’s cowardly, but sadly common,     Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a master’s
      boyfriend becomes even more                        especially with a vast array of dating apps at our fingertips.   degree in psychology and 27 successful years in the dating
      appealing as the countdown to                        Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may   industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE Florida
      the big holidays is officially in                  resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they   Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News, The Palm
      motion.                                            disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened, like a   Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South Florida
        As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you up to   revived corpse.                        Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets. Please
      date on some new “terms” being used by singles today. The     Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles   call our hotlines seven days a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696)
      old-fashioned meeting through introduction by a friend is   finding it so easy to communicate via a smart phone, anyone   in the Palm Beaches and South Florida area or 772-932-
      the best way to go...and that is what we recreate at my club.   can be anyone. False confidence abounds and many just feel   HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast. You may also visit our
      So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next chapter of   they can jump to the next in an instant...and guess what? They   informational only website at All
      your life. Knowledge is power. The power of love knows no   can. This is a weak testimony to a real man or woman who is   inquiries are confidential. Background checks are required.
      boundaries but first we must know who we are dating and   looking to date sincerely as a romantic goal. If you feel you   All applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
      what goes on “Behind the Screens!” (Yikes). Online daters   are in this trap, get out quickly.       practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
      beware...and social media lovers...heed my advice! It’s just     Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t introduce
      too easy to get into trouble if you are dating via the internet   you to their friends or family, and doesn’t post anything about   Around Town TAKEN
      in any way. In this day and age, dating begins and ends with   you on social media. Basically, you’re their secret boyfriend
      our smart phones…Time To Get Smarter.              or girlfriend, while they feel justified in “stashing” you on   Couples & More...
      Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:           the shelf, pretending nothing is going on to the outside world,
        Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact with   and keeping their options open. If they proclaim you as their     This club has found that connecting to the right people at the
      another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond emotional   romantic interest, they will have to give up their search.   right places for the right causes, attracts even more dynamic and
      infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an electronic device     Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your new   successful singles as a bonus! Not only is this award winning
      in one way or another. How do you know if you have crossed   partner about whether you are in an exclusive relationship,   dating and events club growing by leaps and bounds, they are
      the line? If you are doing anything you would not want your   you are at risk of being “benched.” Like the sports term,   also rising in the ranks of the eyes and hearts of the public.
      partner knowing about (when it comes to dating or flirting)   where players are left on the bench as reserves, you might find   All eyes on Revolution Dating, and Kelly and her team of
      like texting inappropriately, sending photos or sharing intimate   yourself being someone’s back-up option as they continue to   real life Earth angels. There is simply no reason to spend the
      feelings with anyone other than your “exclusive” partner, then   look around. They may come back to you if nobody better   summer alone with this club in town...just look at these photos!
      you are micro-cheating.                            comes along, but that doesn’t give one high hopes for the   Revolution Dating would like to thank all who have supported
        Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies quickly.   relationship, does it?                 and promoted their club for
                                                                                                           so many years. America,
                                                                                                           especially Florida, will be
                                                                                                           seeing much more growth
                                                                                                           from this successful dating
                                                                                                           club in the years to come.
                                                                                                           At least someone is doing it
                                                                                                           right! Say no to online dating
                                                                                                           and make your appointment to
                                                                                                           meet with Kelly and her team,
                                                                                                           as she is in very high demand
                                                                                                           this summer! Their schedules
         561-743-0070                                           “Service is our number                     are filling up quickly! Call the
                                                                                                           main hotline now at 561-630-
                                                                       one priority”                       XOXO (9696)! If not now
                                                                                                           then when? Enjoy these photos
                                                                                                           below and could  Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will
                                                                                                           be next! Have no fear! Your  be watching fireworks again
                                                                                                           summer is LOVE here!    this summer thanks to RD!

                                                                                                           Theresa (now an honorary
                                                                                                           Cupid  too)  &  Frank,  est.  Barbara & Gordon, est.
                                                                                                           2017, will be boating all  2016, will be paired off again
                                                                                                           summer long thanks to RD!  this summer thanks to RD!
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