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      The Singles Scene Column                                            ©




      It’s Valen-TIME for Florida                        Television, magazines, and people are overflowing with wild   the famous Broadway musical/movie Fiddler on the Roof:
                                                                                                           “Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match, find me a find,
                                                         and often scary stories of what can happen when you date
      Singles!                                           online. If you enjoy a good series on T.V., catch Dirty John   catch me a catch” appears to be another big quote in 2019.
                                                         (aired in January 2019 and is now trending). You can look     Hence, like Santa and his elves in December, my Cupids
      By Kelly Leary, M.S.,                              for it “On Demand” on the Bravo network. It is a horrific   and I won’t be getting much rest this February, but we are
      Founder of Revolution                              story about a couple who met online on the site Our Time. It   happy to say, it’s for a good cause! Count on us to renew your
      Dating                                             is a real-life story and it epitomizes what can happen when   lease on love and introduce you to your person in honor of
        Happy Valentine’s Day                            you meet people via online dating. It is something to watch   Valentine’s Day. The time is now. All the stars are lining up
      in advance to our readers,                         and it is real. Our phones ring off the hook with stories about   and guiding you to the next level. So do level up and rub
      clients, and couples.                              the pitfalls of online dating. People of all ages are shying   elbows with the best in the business. We are here for you--but
      Valentine’s Day is a day to                        away from living a life (or lie) online and they are opting for   we can’t do it alone. You need to do your part also and get
      look forward to for many                           dating the old-fashioned way -- by meeting via introduction   started. Our clients are treated like gold from the moment
      people but for some, it is an                      through a friend. The problem here is always the same: “my   they walk through our doors. This is an exciting time of the
      opportunity to reflect, reset,                     friends don’t know anyone,” or “they are too busy with their   year to begin your own love revolution.
      and resume your romantic                           own lives,” or “my friends are not experts.” This is why     Representing LOVE is an honor that my team and I do
      dreams. I am happy to                              people are embracing the thought of a matchmaker now   not take lightly. Even if you feel you are “tough to match,”
      announce that for the first                        more than ever before in my 28 years of practice. The word   we can help. No challenge is too big or too small when you
      year in history, relationship and dating goals equaled weight-  “matchmaker” is now a household term -- like doctor or   collaborate with the pros. Last year, we celebrated more
      loss and health goals as a top New Year’s Resolution for 2019.   dentist. What is old is new again and as the saying goes in   marriages and engagements than I can count and this year
                                                                                                           the predictions look even higher. People are weary of being
                                                                                                           disconnected in an over techy world. Social skills are on
                                                                                                           the decline and heartache is on the rise. People are tired of
                                                                                                           online dating, swiping, and lost time, not to mention the
                                                                                                           Dirty John phenomenon.
                                                                                                             These key points will be sure to tip the scales of love in
                                                                                                           your favor. Read on and make your move.
                                                                                                             ♥~No  matter  what  your  age,  there  are  incredible
                                                                                                           individuals who are seeking someone just like YOU.
                                                                                                           Whether, he or she is single, divorced, or widowed (like half
                                                                                                           the adult population), “All of the good ones are not taken!”
                                                                                                           Look in the mirror! You are available, right?
                                                                                                             ♥~Dating is NOT a numbers game. There are powerful
                                                                                                           forces that influence dating success or failure. In a nutshell,
                                                                                                           TIMING IS EVERYTHING. If the timing is not right, it will
                                                                                                           never work. Have you heard the saying: “Right man, wrong
                                                                                                           time?” For example, a person that has just gone through a
                                                                                                           break-up and/or is in the throes of financial stress is not ready
                                                                                                           for love. Do you have any idea how many people are online
                                                                                                           dating or in bars looking for financial gains or to just simply
                                                                                                           “get over” an ex as their endgame? More and more men and
                                                                                                           women come to me to protect themselves financially and
                                                                                                           emotionally. Revolution Dating decreases the odds of such
                                                                                                           dating disasters TREMENDOUSLY!
                                                                                                             Once upon a time, people looking for love only had to
                                                                                                           worry about dating a “player.” Today, we have many more
                                                                                                           hidden agendas to worry about and this affects men just as
                                                                                                           much as women. Meeting quality single people who have
                                                                                                           “skin in the game” (like other RD clients) increase the odds
                                                                                                           of finding someone who is financially and emotionally ready
                                                                                                           for the next chapter! Sincerity is key. At Revolution Dating,
                                                                                                           the men and the women have an investment in the process
                                                                                                           and everyone is vetted.
                                                                                                             Enrolling someone who is “relationship ready” is our goal
                                                                                                           for each new member. At the end of your first interview, my
                                                                                                           hope is to like you so much that I would introduce you to my
                                                                                                           own friend (which is how we feel about our clients). I am
                                                                                                           looking for someone that has an overall happy life, who I can
                                                                                                           feel good about representing. I don’t do well with grouchy
                                                                                                           types and they don’t do well dating in general, so I advise if
                                                                                                           this is you, you may not be ready for a club like ours. You
                                                                                                           may have some work to do if you carry bitterness in your
                                                                                                           heart. We want you to do well, and happy people do better
                                                                                                           on the singles scene. It is what it is. Attitude is everything.
                                                                                                           I can’t say that enough.
                                                                                                             ♥~Bottom Line: This February, WELCOME LOVE
                                                                                                           BACK into your life. Would you lock the door if Santa was
                                                                                                           on his way to your house in December? (NO) Time to fire
                                                                                                           those dating sites and put your resources into rewarding
                                                                                                           endeavors. Let the universe know what you want -- have
                                                                                                           honest intentions -- and only then will you get what you
                                                                                                           desire. Have no fear. Fear will only stifle you. Who has
                                                                                                           time for that “F”-word? None of us are getting any younger
                                                                                                           (unfortunately).
                                                                                                             Call now to cinch your spot in the club today. One of
                                                                                                           our BEST Florida Matchmakers will be answering your
                                                                                                           confidential phone call and that’s all it takes to revive your
                                                                                                           love odds! The love in us honors the love in you today and
                                                                                                           always. The love is pouring in from our clients and couples
                                                                                                           and we are so grateful and ready to share our love with you,
                                                                                                           too. We truly are changing the way people find love one date
                                                                                                           at a time, as I set out to do 28 years ago.
                                                                                                             It’s not what you know, it’s who you know! Follow the
                                                                                                           flow of selective singles in your local area and change your
                                                                                                           luck today. I just may be the most important contact in your
                                                                                                           future. Thanks for sharing your time with me again.
                                                                                                                                               XOXO, Kelly
                                                                                                           #HappyValentinesDay #LoveOffLineInTwoZeroOneNine
                                                                                                           #MenMagnets #TellYourFriends
                                                                                                             Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and
                                                                                                           a master’s degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled

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