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The Singles Scene Column ©
FOUR MONTHS TO within ourselves and as a group in general. I believe, Statistic: 40 million Americans have tried online
2020~~Time to Change Your along with many Evolutionary Psychologists, that too dating and the majority report negative experiences
ESPECIALLY in Florida.
much time on screens is leading to an increased feeling
Status! of desperation and often hopelessness. People are hiding My team and I are wired to help but we can’t do it
behind their computers and smartphones. Look around alone. You need to join us and live a real-life off-line as
By Kelly Leary, M.S., you. This phenomenon is everywhere from the ball well. Data shows that the positive effects of the “next
Founder of Revolution field to a popular restaurant. Do people know how to chance” in 2020 will be felt most strongly in the next
Dating communicate in person anymore? These days, if you make four months; however it will continue to work its magic
In four months, we will a phone call, instead of texting, you may be deemed a into our future if we cut back on our “social” screen life
all experience a once in nuisance or worse--strange! now. Why wait?
a lifetime evening and I People hiding behind social media and dating apps This all points back to the saying “timing is
am glad we will enjoy it “think” they have very little risk of getting hurt and more everything!” Strike while the iron is hot. Our phones have
together. The world has options, but over the course of time they are actually been ringing off the hook this year and your connection
been getting increasingly hurting their self-worth. This is convoluted logic. awaits. Don’t be the last in line to make a positive change.
disconnected for many Single people (half of the adult population) are afraid Connecting with others spiritually, emotionally, and in-
people (especially single to risk rejection and ask someone out in person. What person is, in fact, the beauty of life at any age. I’m happy
people stuck in a rut) while they don’t realize is that they are actually destroying to be in the center of so much love. This is what the world
hope and love are long their self-esteem by comparing themselves to ostensibly needs--more love--true love--authentic love.
overdue. The signs have been everywhere--nationally and “perfect” people online. The focus is on looks, selfies, If you are on the fence about making a change, and
internationally. Even on a local level, I was noticing how and swiping left. There is intense competition to be I think you are, then isn’t the last quarter of 2019 a
caught up and confused people have been behaving and it intimate too soon (for women) and there are too many perfect time to start? How do you want to spend the
really bothered me. Many have been literally trapped in options (for men) which trigger short term commitment holidays? Who do you want by your side? If you have
their own world, often behind screens, isolated, and it has and even divorce. It’s like the online wild west--total been unsuccessful online dating and spending more than
been sad to observe as a woman, mother, and matchmaker chaos and VERY dangerous emotionally and physically. 10 hours per week online dating meeting flat tires (which
who is connected to love and positivity. How could a Ask anyone recently divorced at any age--I bet there was is the national average), then take a step away and ask
New Year marked 2020 not bring glorious energy and an extra-marital online affair involved. The odds reveal yourself: “How’s it working?”
excitement to all of us? Let’s think about this now--in the phone was involved too. It may have been a full- Our parents and their parents did NOT have this many
advance. You have time now. A lot can happen in FOUR blown affair in-person or it may have been a micro-affair options. This is why people stayed together longer. They
months. (not in-person via video or texting). All signs scream: endured. They tried. They found the best in their partner
There are multiple reasons for this disconnection counterproductive! and did not disengage just because someone “better”
was messaging them or because their mate checklist
wasn’t complete. This wasn’t possible back in their day.
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