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      The Singles Scene Column                              Statistic: 40 million Americans have tried online dating   by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind
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                                                         and the majority report negative experiences ESPECIALLY   dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that
      FOUR MONTHS TO 2020~~Time to Change                in Florida.                                       make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
      Your Status!                                          My team and I are wired to help but we can’t do it alone.   membership, Kelly also holds private singles events. For
      By Kelly Leary, M.S.,                              You need to join us and live a real-life off-line as well. Data   information on how you can reset your love life please call
      Founder of Revolution                              shows that the positive effects of the “next chance” in 2020 will   561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit us
      Dating                                             be felt most strongly in the next four months; however it will   at www.revolutiondating.com. All inquiries are confidential.
         In four months, we will                         continue to work its magic into our future if we cut back on our
      all experience a once in a                         “social” screen life now. Why wait?               Around Town September 2019
      lifetime evening and I am                             This all points back to the saying “timing is everything!”
      glad we will enjoy it together.                    Strike while the iron is hot. Our phones have been ringing off      The following photos
      The world has been getting                         the hook this year and your connection awaits. Don’t be the   reveal a sneak-peek into
      increasingly disconnected                          last in line to make a positive change. Connecting with others   the notorious “Fall In
      for many people (especially                        spiritually, emotionally, and in-person is, in fact, the beauty of   Love Season” hosted
      single people stuck in a rut)                      life at any age. I’m happy to be in the center of so much love.   by Revolution Dating.
      while hope and love are long                       This is what the world needs--more love--true love--authentic   As you can see, the RD
      overdue. The signs have been                       love.                                             Cupids have been working
      everywhere--nationally and internationally. Even on a local      If you are on the fence about making a change, and I think   overtime preparing for
      level, I was noticing how caught up and confused people have   you are, then isn’t the last quarter of 2019 a perfect time to start?   some fantastic one-on-
      been behaving and it really bothered me. Many have been   How do you want to spend the holidays? Who do you want by   one matches and mixers.
      literally trapped in their own world, often behind screens,   your side? If you have been unsuccessful online dating and   You can’t go wrong when
      isolated, and it has been sad to observe as a woman, mother,   spending more than 10 hours per week online dating meeting   you follow THE Florida
      and matchmaker who is connected to love and positivity. How   flat tires (which is the national average), then take a step away   Matchmakers.  Join  the
      could a New Year marked 2020 not bring glorious energy and   and ask yourself: “How’s it working?”   crowd and kickstart your
      excitement to all of us? Let’s think about this now--in advance.      Our parents and their parents did NOT have this many   own season of love too.
      You have time now. A lot can happen in FOUR months.   options. This is why people stayed together longer. They   Leave your comfort zone-- Congratulations to Marney &
         There are multiple reasons for this disconnection within   endured. They tried. They found the best in their partner and   just like these people of all  Justin on your engagement!
      ourselves and as a group in general. I believe, along with   did not disengage just because someone “better” was messaging   ages below! The hotlines  #ItsAMatch
      many Evolutionary Psychologists, that too much time on   them or because their mate checklist wasn’t complete. This   are open seven days a
      screens is leading to an increased feeling of desperation and   wasn’t possible back in their day. Sociologists claim that in the   week and a LIVE matchmaker will be happy to assist you. All
      often hopelessness. People are hiding behind their computers   past, people encountered only two to three potential mates in   calls are confidential. We offer options from parties to one-on-
      and smartphones. Look around you. This phenomenon is   a lifetime. Can you imagine how the thousands of options at   one setups and dating advice/feedback! For more information
      everywhere from the ball field to a popular restaurant. Do people   once is eroding the very foundation of love and connection? Too   on how you can find REAL love with REAL people, call 561-
      know how to communicate in person anymore? These days, if   much. Too soon. Too easy. Too fast. Too sad. Realize it once   630-9696 (XOXO).
      you make a phone call, instead of texting, you may be deemed   and for all and know there is a way to fix this dilemma.
      a nuisance or worse--strange!                         Shut down your screen after work hours and return to love
         People hiding behind social media and dating apps “think”   off-line. I’ve been writing this column for 10 years now and
      they have very little risk of getting hurt and more options, but   matchmaking for over 28 years. Some of you are reading this
      over the course of time they are actually hurting their self-  for the first time and some of you have read my column for
      worth. This is convoluted logic. Single people (half of the   YEARS and thank you! Either way, waste no more time and
      adult population) are afraid to risk rejection and ask someone   energy (and money). Let’s get it right together. Happy last
      out in person. What they don’t realize is that they are actually   quarter of 2019! Happy September! I can’t wait to meet you in
      destroying their self-esteem by comparing themselves to   my office (finally).
      ostensibly “perfect” people online. The focus is on looks, selfies,                          XOXO
      and swiping left. There is intense competition to be intimate too                        Love, Kelly
      soon (for women) and there are too many options (for men)                     THE Florida Matchmaker
      which trigger short term commitment and even divorce. It’s   #FallInLove #PlayItForward #RevolutionDating #OneTwoThree
      like the online wild west--total chaos and VERY dangerous   #CallStartLove #TellYourFriends          Kelly and her team pose for a special photo on her milestone
      emotionally and physically. Ask anyone recently divorced at                                          birthday this year! #MilestoneEvening
      any age--I bet there was an extra-marital online affair involved.      Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and a
      The odds reveal the phone was involved too. It may have been   Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
      a full-blown affair in-person or it may have been a micro-  News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart
      affair (not in-person via video or texting). All signs scream:   News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened
      counterproductive!                                 including background checks. Professional photos are taken











                                                                                                           Get ready for your 2020 New Year’s Kiss by beginning your
                                                                                                           search for your partner now! You will be happy to have him/
                                                                                                           her through the holiday season and won’t feel rushed to kiss
                                                                                                           a frog at midnight! #KISS

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