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      The Singles Scene Column                             Statistic: 40 million Americans have tried online   or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking
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                                                        dating and the majority report negative experiences   services that make singles “UN-single” through their
      FOUR MONTHS TO 2020~~Time to Change               ESPECIALLY in Florida.                             exclusive club membership, Kelly also holds private singles
      Your Status!                                         My team and I are wired to help but we can’t do it alone.   events. For information on how you can reset your love life
      By Kelly Leary, M.S.,                             You need to join us and live a real-life off-line as well. Data   please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373)
      Founder of Revolution                             shows that the positive effects of the “next chance” in 2020   or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com. All inquiries are
      Dating                                            will be felt most strongly in the next four months; however it   confidential.
         In four months, we will                        will continue to work its magic into our future if we cut back
      all experience a once in a                        on our “social” screen life now. Why wait?         Around Town September 2019
      lifetime evening and I am                            This all points back to the saying “timing is everything!”
      glad we will enjoy it together.                   Strike while the iron is hot. Our phones have been ringing off the      The following photos
      The world has been getting                        hook this year and your connection awaits. Don’t be the last in   reveal a sneak-peek into
      increasingly disconnected                         line to make a positive change. Connecting with others spiritually,   the notorious “Fall In
      for many people (especially                       emotionally, and in-person is, in fact, the beauty of life at any   Love Season” hosted by
      single people stuck in a rut)                     age. I’m happy to be in the center of so much love. This is what   Revolution Dating. As you
      while hope and love are long                      the world needs--more love--true love--authentic love.  can see, the RD Cupids have
      overdue. The signs have been                         If you are on the fence about making a change, and I think   been working overtime
      everywhere--nationally and internationally. Even on a local   you are, then isn’t the last quarter of 2019 a perfect time to start?   preparing for some fantastic
      level, I was noticing how caught up and confused people have   How do you want to spend the holidays? Who do you want   one-on-one matches and
      been behaving and it really bothered me. Many have been   by your side? If you have been unsuccessful online dating and   mixers. You can’t go wrong
      literally trapped in their own world, often behind screens,   spending more than 10 hours per week online dating meeting   when you follow  THE
      isolated, and it has been sad to observe as a woman, mother,   flat tires (which is the national average), then take a step away   Florida Matchmakers. Join
      and matchmaker who is connected to love and positivity. How   and ask yourself: “How’s it working?”  the crowd and kickstart your
      could a New Year marked 2020 not bring glorious energy and      Our parents and their parents did NOT have this many   own season of love too.
      excitement to all of us? Let’s think about this now--in advance.   options. This is why people stayed together longer. They   Leave your comfort zone--
      You have time now. A lot can happen in FOUR months.   endured. They tried. They found the best in their partner and did   just like these people of all  Congratulations to Marney &
         There are multiple reasons for this disconnection within   not disengage just because someone “better” was messaging   ages below! The hotlines are  Justin on your engagement!
      ourselves and as a group in general. I believe, along with   them or because their mate checklist wasn’t complete. This   open seven days a week and  #ItsAMatch
      many Evolutionary Psychologists, that too much time on   wasn’t possible back in their day. Sociologists claim that in the   a LIVE matchmaker will be
      screens is leading to an increased feeling of desperation and   past, people encountered only two to three potential mates in   happy to assist you. All calls
      often hopelessness. People are hiding behind their computers   a lifetime. Can you imagine how the thousands of options at   are confidential. We offer
      and smartphones. Look around you. This phenomenon is   once is eroding the very foundation of love and connection?   options from parties to one-
      everywhere from the ball field to a popular restaurant. Do   Too much. Too soon. Too easy. Too fast. Too sad. Realize it   on-one setups and dating
      people know how to communicate in person anymore? These   once and for all and know there is a way to fix this dilemma.   advice/feedback! For more
      days, if you make a phone call, instead of texting, you may be      Shut down your screen after work hours and return to love   information on how you can
      deemed a nuisance or worse--strange!              off-line. I’ve been writing this column for 10 years now and   find REAL love with REAL
         People hiding behind social media and dating apps “think”   matchmaking for over 28 years. Some of you are reading this   people, call 561-630-9696
      they have very little risk of getting hurt and more options, but   for the first time and some of you have read my column for   (XOXO).
      over the course of time they are actually hurting their self-  YEARS and thank you! Either way, waste no more time and
      worth. This is convoluted logic. Single people (half of the   energy (and money). Let’s get it right together. Happy last
      adult population) are afraid to risk rejection and ask someone   quarter of 2019! Happy September! I can’t wait to meet you
      out in person. What they don’t realize is that they are actually   in my office (finally).
            Life
      destroying their self-esteem by comparing themselves to                                      XOXO
      ostensibly “perfect” people online. The focus is on looks,                               Love, Kelly                       This epic kiss says it all! This
      selfies, and swiping left. There is intense competition to be                THE Florida Matchmaker                        couple is still together--and
                                                                  Are you
      intimate too soon (for women) and there are too many options   #FallInLove #PlayItForward #RevolutionDating                now--she  has  a  ring  on  it!
            happens.
      (for men) which trigger short term commitment and even   #OneTwoThree #CallStartLove #TellYourFriends                      #HalloweenGalaComingSoon
                                                                  covered?
      divorce. It’s like the online wild west--total chaos and VERY
      dangerous emotionally and physically. Ask anyone recently      Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and a
      divorced at any age--I bet there was an extra-marital online   Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
      affair involved. The odds reveal the phone was involved too.   News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
      It may have been a full-blown affair in-person or it may have   Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-
      been a micro-affair (not in-person via video or texting). All   screened including background checks. Professional photos
      signs scream: counterproductive!                  are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating

               Life


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                                                                                                           Kelly and her team pose for a special photo on her milestone
                                                                                                           birthday this year! #MilestoneEvening
            Job change?                       Moving?                   Just married?




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