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Boca Pointe Advisor from page 12 6. I am very reluctant to share this problem as it is a) This is a very common practice lately. Many men
quite personal. My husband and I have always been very are looking for love in all the wrong places. Try to confirm
of $500 a person. He explained the cost of going would romantic. But recently we have had problems in the what this woman told you. It might not be true. Ask to see
far exceed that, so we are saving a lot of money by not bedroom. I do not know what to do. I imagine you have photos of his dead wife and insist on visiting the gravesite
going. He is a divorce attorney, makes plenty of money, given advice before to couples with intimacy problems. with him.
and this is his 2nd marriage while it is the 3rd marriage What can I do to get the spark back? b) Next time he comes to your place, ask him as a favor
for his new bride, who happens to be 28 years younger a) Shave any facial hairs, hair on legs, and make sure to do your laundry. If he has no clue how to turn on the
than he is. We think he is being unreasonable. What do your armpits are clean shaven. From your inquiry, your washer or dryer, he was married and assume he is grieving
you suggest? foreign background customs differ from American values. like you.
a) Switch subjects. Tell him you are getting divorced So, make these changes and we think your husband will c) Forget about this guy and start getting close to the
and ask him if he would represent you. The court date is respond. tall, long legged woman that is constantly coming on to
the same date as his wedding so you cannot make it. Also, b) Remove your burka. you.
you are not attending any social functions and saving all c) When in bed, put the TV on any R rated show d) Steal his wallet. If he only has a picture of his dog,
your money for legal costs. d) Stop going to bed in sweatpants, a sweatshirt, and you have your answer.
b) We think his request is fine. What we find disturbing knee-high socks, unless you plan on playing soccer in 8. My husband has not been able to stop smoking. He
is his request to make checks payable to his new wife. bed. has tried many times, but the addiction is just too strong.
This does not seem kosher to us. 7. I have been going to a local bereavement group as I heard about a new approach where his mouth is stapled
c) Tell them you have been to Dubai for his prior 2 I recently lost my husband. I have gotten attached to a shut and all food and water go thru a patch located on the
weddings and the 3rd time is not a charm. very nice gentleman and we have gone out a few times. top of his head. He gets all his nutrients by a movement like
d) Ask him to loan you the money for the trip and One of the other women told me he was in the group just bobbing for apples. The doctor showed us recent studies
gift and you would be very happy to attend, but only if to meet women. Should I confront him with this or just with very good results. Should he start bobbing or not.
everyone wears masks. let it go? a) Find out if your husband has ever bobbed. This could
be tricky.
b) Make sure your husband is a good swimmer and can
hold his breath for at least 2 minutes.
c) Find out who buys the staples and if you get a senior
discount.
d) Factor in the cost of a new hairpiece.
Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. 9. I live in one of the Promenade hi rise buildings. I
love it but find it very uncomfortable whenever someone
Arthur Rottenstein Charles A. Hall, III else is in the elevator with me. It always seems that unless
Registered Securities President and Founder, C3WM I say hello first, the other person will never say hello to
me. What is the correct protocol?
Principal Financial Advisor, RJFS a) Stop initiating class action suits against the complex.
561-241-6616 561-465-8902 b) Press every button and then ask them what floor they
ArthurRottenstein@ are going to.
RaymondJames.com charles.hall@raymondjames.com
c) Keep your head down, stare at the floor and remain
bocaratonfinancialplanner.com silent. If someone says hello, its ok to say hello back.
301 Yamato Road, Suite 3160 d) Stop bringing your two pit bulls with you in the
Boca Raton, FL 33431 elevator. They are very intimidating. Especially when
Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. and they show their teeth and have saliva dripping from their
mouth. This could be the reason why your neighbors are
Arthur Rottenstein are pleased afraid to even look at you, let alone say anything.
10. Many years ago my husband and I bought a time

share. With no children and recently moving into Stratford
to announce the addition of Court, we no longer can enjoy the use of it. We get a lot of
calls to buy it but have not had a serious offer. We don’t
want to give it away. Help please.
Charles A. Hall, III Share in The Bermuda Triangle will be very difficult. Sell
a) Even though real estate is booming, selling your Time

President and Founder, C3WM, Financial Advisor, RJFS if you can.

b) If not, donate it to Faith Farms. They will take
charles.hall@raymondjames.com anything.
c) Leave it in your will to someone you don’t like.
d) Put it up for sale in the next Silent Auction at
With more than 24 years of experience in financial services, Charles is dedicated Stratford Court.
to helping individuals meet their financial needs by developing investment
The author of this Advice Column, Alan Arnold lives in
plans around their long-term goals and risk tolerance. His extensive experience Southwinds, Meridiana, La Paz, and has a seasonal rental
navigating shifts in the markets enables him to help clients structure balanced in the Edgewater Estates. 
portfolios to address their specific financial goals.
He began his financial services career in 1996 with FMSbonds, Inc., then Starting A Single
moved to First Miami Securities, where he worked for 11 years. From there, he

transitioned to Wells Fargo Advisors in 2007 in the Fort Lauderdale offices. In Women’s Friend/
2020, he moved his practice to Raymond James, finding its client-first culture
aligned with his values. He earned a bachelor’s degree in economics from Florida Support Group
International University. He has served South Florida-area investors for his entire In Boca Pointe

career and looks forward to helping them meet their financial goals for many
years to come. If you are a woman living in Boca Pointe who lives
Making sure your wealth continues to work in support of the goals you have alone, as I do, perhaps you would like to join me in a
established takes careful planning. Such planning is not a single event – it is a friend/support group. We can talk, get to know each
other, and provide emotional and other types of support
process. As your life circumstances change, so must the investment strategies to each other during this difficult time. We can meet over
used to stay on course toward meeting your objectives. That is why Charles works zoom and perhaps outside in person. If interested, please
contact me at nbhboca@gmail.com and I will respond at
with you, one on one, to design investment strategies targeted to your specific my earliest convenience. 
needs and goals. Although he does not provide tax advice, he will help you stay

current with tax law changes and estate plan issues. Attention
Originally from Miami, he now lives in Boca Raton with his spouse, Rana. They
have two children, Ashleigh and Addison. In his free time, Charles enjoys golfing Boca Pointe
and fishing. Residents!

Arthur Rottenstein is a Registered Securities Principal and Branch Manager with Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. in Boca Flatten All Your Boxes!
Raton and founder of Portfoliorepair.com. He has been managing the financial affairs of a number of select families in South Florida
since 1982. Please feel free to call for an appointment at (561) 241-6616 or email him at arthur.rottenstein@raymondjames. Our recycling trucks do not pick up your cardboard boxes
com. Please feel free to visit his website at bocaratonfinancialplanner.com.Securities offered through Raymond James Financial
Services, Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC. Investment Advisory Services offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc. if they are not flattened. Instead, they go to trash and are burned
with regular refuse....lost revenue for residents of Boca Pointe. 