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The Singles Scene Column ©

LOVE AFTER LOCKDOWN pre-screening of members, relationships move along quicker equally. If someone is doing 90% of the talking, there is a

SPECIAL EDITION and tend to be a better investment of TME at Revolution problem.

Dating.
♥ When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break up
♥ Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day of through an email or text. Be forthright but humble.
Pearls of Wisdom from THE Florida the week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to success ♥ Grieving is tough, and everyone has their own
Matchmaker in date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the door, but timeline. You will know when you are ready to get back in
By Kelly Leary, M.S., can you get a second date? Inner beauty rules. the game. In this day and age, seniors are dating after the
Founder of Revolution ♥ Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will… loss of a spouse, and they are finding love again. But always
Dating including your date! avoid comparisons. You are looking for someone new who
♥ Practice kindness. ♥ If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul will be a good companion in the here and now.
There is nothing that’s a search. Are you doing everything you can to find love? Or ♥ Cowards never start, winners never quit, and
bigger turnoff than when a are you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your quitters never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember,
person comes into the gate doorstep like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration. fear is the opposite of love.
– or a date, or a room, or a Connect, bond, show your good side, listen to feedback, give ♥ Join a love movement just for YOU. Stand up for
party – with a bad attitude. If feedback, cooperate and be open to advice. If you go to your something that you want in your life moving forward. Be
you don’t practice kindness doctor and don’t listen to one word of his advice, fail to take part of your own solution, not your own problem. Get out of
in life, love, work and play, your medicine, and remain sick, is it your doctor’s fault? No. your own way, in other words, when it comes to romance.
you will reap what you sow. ♥ Don’t be too picky. I have a female client who won’t ♥ You catch more flies with honey than you do with
♥ First impressions matter. I’ve learned that your date a man under 6’4”, literally. He has to be a tri-athlete, vinegar. This rings true in and out of my club.
impression of a person is usually formed in the first 60 has a high net worth, and must have blue eyes! If your ♥ CONNECT. CONNECT. CONNECT. People who
seconds! So make sure that your “hello” is a good one. criteria are this strict, be prepared to wait quite a bit longer have good relationships and friendships of any form are the
♥ Love over 65 is easier than you think! I am not even than someone who is more open-minded. High standards are happiest people alive. Togetherness is happiness.
intimidated by aging anymore, as I watch my clients have fine, as long as you know that the other person has to like ♥ Dating is a journey. This rings true even after we find
fun well into their 80s. Age is just a number and romance YOU back! Be realistic and self-aware. (Example: avoid you the right one. There will be highs and there will be lows.
happens at all ages. I see it every day. requesting a Blake Shelton look alike if you are not a Gwen Learn from these experiences. Grow with your partner.
♥ Don’t delay real romance in your 30s. Don’t wait Stefani look-alike--this has actually happened to me.) Thank you so much for “Following the Matchmaker” for
until you’re 37 or 38 to get serious about your search for ♥ Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t abuse three decades! WOW! We are celebrating 30 years in the biz
a life-long partner. Women shouldn’t do this for obvious this and use them for a free meal! Always be courteous and and hope to meet you soon too! Our schedule is filling up
reasons, but men shouldn’t either. When men wait too long say thank you! quickly so don’t hesitate to take the plunge. Your timing is
to start the process, I have noticed they become too picky, ♥ Online dating is a risky roll of the dice. You could PERFECT!
jaded, and can be labeled negatively. lose your time, money, and soul (T.M.E.) in the same way I hope you join us on our mission to LOVE AFTER
♥ Love begets love. We have a rule in our office: “Only people lose themselves in Las Vegas! Stay too long, and you LOCKDOWN. There is no better time in history to begin.
Love is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind and I may never come back. Celebrations abound and we are expanding by leaps and
guarantee you will probably get a second one! ♥ Always maintain an attitude of gratitude. This bounds in the coming months! Beat the rush and register
♥ You can buy love (sort of). Dates, dinners, gifts, cards, applies to your love life and far beyond. today!
flowers, vacations, rings, weddings…there is no avoiding the ♥ 80/20. If your relationship/date is 80% good and 20% Much Love & Gratitude,
“cost” of dating. A man may splurge for the first few dates, questionable, give it the green light and continue. Otherwise, Kelly
and a woman may get her hair done and buy a few new outfits it’s time to do some serious soul searching. Is this the right Kelly Leary has 30 years in the dating industry and a
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and a new shade of lipstick. If you don’t invest, you won’t fit for you? Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
progress. ♥ 50:50. This is about talking, not paying the tab! While News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
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