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LOVE AFTER LOCKDOWN ♥ First impressions matter. I’ve learned that your impression “cost” of dating. A man may splurge for the first few dates, and

SPECIAL EDITION of a person is usually formed in the first 60 seconds! So make a woman may get her hair done and buy a few new outfits and
sure that your “hello” is a good one.
a new shade of lipstick. If you don’t invest, you won’t progress.
♥ Love over 65 is easier than you think! I am not even ♥ T.M.E. Facts: Dating is an investment of Time, Money,
Pearls of Wisdom from THE Florida intimidated by aging anymore, as I watch my clients have fun and Emotion. Any date is an investment of all three. With our
Matchmaker well into their 80s. Age is just a number and romance happens pre-screening of members, relationships move along quicker and
By Kelly Leary, M.S., at all ages. I see it every day. tend to be a better investment of TME at Revolution Dating.
Founder of Revolution ♥ Don’t delay real romance in your 30s. Don’t wait until ♥ Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day of the
Dating you’re 37 or 38 to get serious about your search for a life-long week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to success in
♥ Practice kindness. partner. Women shouldn’t do this for obvious reasons, but men date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the door, but can you
There is nothing that’s a bigger shouldn’t either. When men wait too long to start the process, I get a second date? Inner beauty rules.
turnoff than when a person have noticed they become too picky, jaded, and can be labeled ♥ Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will…
comes into the gate – or a date, negatively. including your date!
or a room, or a party – with ♥ Love begets love. We have a rule in our office: “Only Love ♥ If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul
a bad attitude. If you don’t is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind and I guarantee search. Are you doing everything you can to find love? Or are
practice kindness in life, love, you will probably get a second one! you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your doorstep
work and play, you will reap ♥ You can buy love (sort of). Dates, dinners, gifts, cards, like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration. Connect, bond,
what you sow. flowers, vacations, rings, weddings…there is no avoiding the show your good side, listen to feedback, give feedback, cooperate
and be open to advice. If you go to your doctor and don’t listen
to one word of his advice, fail to take your medicine, and remain
sick, is it your doctor’s fault? No.
♥ Don’t be too picky. I have a female client who won’t date
a man under 6’4”, literally. He has to be a tri-athlete, has a high
net worth, and must have blue eyes! If your criteria are this
strict, be prepared to wait quite a bit longer than someone who
NoN-Toxic cancer immunotherapy is more open-minded. High standards are fine, as long as you
know that the other person has to like YOU back! Be realistic
and self-aware. (Example: avoid requesting a Blake Shelton look
Available NoW alike if you are not a Gwen Stefani look-alike--this has actually
happened to me.)
♥ Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t abuse this
Safe and Effective! and use them for a free meal! Always be courteous and say thank
you!
♥ Online dating is a risky roll of the dice. You could lose
This is the Original Immunotherapy that your time, money, and soul (T.M.E.) in the same way people
balances and optimizes your immune system to lose themselves in Las Vegas! Stay too long, and you may never
come back.
fight almost any type of cancer. ♥ Always maintain an attitude of gratitude. This applies
to your love life and far beyond.
♥ 80/20. If your relationship/date is 80% good and 20%
Hundreds of successes over the years. questionable, give it the green light and continue. Otherwise,
it’s time to do some serious soul searching. Is this the right fit
Continuously available since 1977 for you?
♥ 50:50. This is about talking, not paying the tab! While
in Freeport, Grand Bahama Island dating, keep an eye on your conversation and your listening
skills. Take turns. Your conversation should be shared equally.
If someone is doing 90% of the talking, there is a problem.
See our website for more info: ♥ When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break up
www.Quantumimmunotherapy.net through an email or text. Be forthright but humble.
♥ Grieving is tough, and everyone has their own timeline.
You will know when you are ready to get back in the game. In
or call for more information: Toll-free number (561) 766-0878 this day and age, seniors are dating after the loss of a spouse, and
they are finding love again. But always avoid comparisons. You
Email: Quantimmuno@gmail.com are looking for someone new who will be a good companion in
the here and now.
♥ Cowards never start, winners never quit, and quitters
never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember, fear is the
opposite of love.
♥ Join a love movement just for YOU. Stand up for
something that you want in your life moving forward. Be part
of your own solution, not your own problem. Get out of your
own way, in other words, when it comes to romance.
♥ You catch more flies with honey than you do with
vinegar. This rings true in and out of my club.
♥ CONNECT. CONNECT. CONNECT. People who have
good relationships and friendships of any form are the happiest
people alive. Togetherness is happiness.
♥ Dating is a journey. This rings true even after we find you
the right one. There will be highs and there will be lows. Learn
from these experiences. Grow with your partner.
Thank you so much for “Following the Matchmaker” for
three decades! WOW! We are celebrating 30 years in the biz and
hope to meet you soon too! Our schedule is filling up quickly so
don’t hesitate to take the plunge. Your timing is PERFECT!
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LOCKDOWN. There is no better time in history to begin.
The answer, freeing. Celebrations abound and we are expanding by leaps and bounds
in the coming months! Beat the rush and register today!
There’s an answer that fits, and we’ll help you find Our commitment to you: Much Love & Gratitude,
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it, with resources and insights that illuminate your The Cedarhurst Promise We promise. If Kelly
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senior living search. Ready to listen, we’ll meet your you’re not satisfied and decide to move out within Kelly Leary has 30 years in the dating industry and a
sense of urgency with calm clarity. your first 60 days, we’ll give you a complete refund.* Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, and
Sharpen your planning. Safety. We follow strict COVID protocols other nationwide publications. All Revolution Dating clients are
Download 5 Steps for Evaluating & Choosing the Right (cedarhurstliving.com/coronavirusresponse) prescreened in person in their private offices. Professional photos
Senior Care Community at CedarhurstGuide.com. and o‡er vaccine information when requested. are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that
Help begins now. CALL (561) 220-7083 to schedule an in-person or Zoom conversation. make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive membership.
Each membership is custom made to suit you and your needs.
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