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The Single’s Scene Column

The Summer Dating Tsunami the line? If you are doing anything you would not want your If you or someone you know has resisted dating because
partner to know about (when it comes to dating or flirting) of all or some of the above, I don’t blame you. Don’t think of
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE like texting inappropriately, sending photos or sharing what you have to lose today, think of what you have to gain
Florida Matchmaker, est. 1991 intimate feelings with anyone other than your “exclusive” and avoid anyone and any person who seems to be online
“A life without love partner, then you are micro-cheating. too much. This is where many dating problems begin and
is like a year without Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies end. I advise you to get real. Live IRL (in real life). Love
summer.”~~Anonymous quickly. You feel someone fell madly in love with you but offline FOR SURE. Be confident, smart, and carry on my
Happy 4th of July to all of they have never met you or you met out of convenience. In friend! It’s time you start dating again. You got this--and so
our clients, couples and friends. this case, you definitely should think twice. Why is he or do we! Every pot has a lid. Dating can be fun you know...
Isn’t it great to feel liberated she falling so fast? Could they be trying to get over a former let’s play and see what happens! You have nothing to lose
after 16 plus months of all heartache using you as their rebound distraction? Make sure and everything to gain. Stop overthinking and make your
an around socially restrictive their love history is CLEAN before you LEAN. move while the dating pool is HOT! This July we have some
dating dilemma? How do you Catfishing: When a person lures someone into a exclusive specials that will only be available to my loyal
distance and date at the same relationship by pretending to be someone else online readers and their friends. Share the love and pass it on!
time, right? Unlike many would think, we started seeing or has greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often Wishing you so much love and happiness this July. The
clients and matching again last summer around June of 2020. steal photos from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes clouds have parted. There is nothing but green pastures ahead
Since then, the pool of new men and women joining has been even create multiple personas to make their stories more for you.
really interesting. It’s been fun to witness. Professional men believable. They will try to continue a “fake” relationship XOXO,
and women of ALL ages (and I mean 25 to 85) have been for months--always avoiding a face-to-face meeting. This Kelly
calling us after being frozen on the fence in limbo. People happens ALL the time. #ChristmasInJulySpecials #ShareYourLove
are taking action and taking back control of their social love Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing vanishes #30YearsInTheBiz #MakeYourFreedomFun
life after it was threatened. The pandemic vibe taught us not without a trace. You could have been dating a few days, #TellYourFriends
to take anything for granted...and to set the stakes high on or months, but one day they simply disappear. They don’t Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a
living your best life. return your texts, and may even block you to avoid having master’s degree in psychology and 30 successful years in
Many couples broke up during COVID--leaving a lot of the break-up conversation with you. It’s cowardly, but sadly the dating industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE
you to fly free. So now that you are FREE (single) how do common, especially with a vast array of dating apps at our Florida Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News,
you feel about it? I would bet that being single is not your end fingertips. It’s too easy to jump ship if you are dating an The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South
game. So what do you do? You get smart for one thing. Let online addict (Facebook or any dating site). Florida Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets.
the current dating tsunami take over your heart in a good way. Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may Please call our hotlines seven days a week at 561-630-XOXO
Don’t fret about the worries of dating again. Just get smarter, resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they (9696) in the Palm Beaches and South Florida area or 772-
get up to date (no pun). Realize long term relationships are disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened, like 932-HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast. You may also visit
back in style. Old school ways of dating have re-emerged in a revived corpse. our informational only website at www.revolutiondating.
a refreshing manner. People are getting to know each other Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles com. All inquiries are confidential. All applicants must be
better before diving in feet first. This has allowed the process finding it so easy to communicate via a smartphone, anyone prescreened in person at our private practice to be eligible.
to change from falling in love to forever love. can be anyone. False confidence abounds and many just feel This is NOT online dating.
If you desire to have forever love again, you can. Period. they can jump to the next in an instant...and guess what?
You do have to put yourself out there and make yourself They can. This is a weak testimony to a real man or woman
vulnerable. There is no way around it. There are no dating who is looking to date sincerely as a romantic goal. If you
hacks (other than hiring a matchmaker). There is no insurance feel you are in this trap, get out quickly.
policy on love per se. You can, however, date smart and date Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t
local while positioning yourself to meet authentic people via introduce you to their friends or family and doesn’t post
private introduction from an educated pro. This is always anything about YOU on social media. Basically, you’re
your best bet. If you go online or use social media as your their secret boyfriend or girlfriend, while they feel justified
source, be aware of some of the bumps you could encounter in “stashing” you on the shelf, pretending nothing is going
along the way. If you get frustrated, make a change for the on to the outside world, and keeping their options open. If
better and don’t get bitter, like many people who play or stay they proclaim you as their romantic interest, they will have
online dating too long. It can affect you if you do which is to give up their search. I’ll help to make your home dreams come true
why we are giving you this Dating 101 education to avoid. Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your new
This is essentially how to stay safe emotionally, fiscally, and partner about whether you are in an exclusive relationship,
physically. Knowledge is power, friends. you are at risk of being “benched.” Like the sports term,
Common Dating Risks: where players are left on the bench as reserves, you might find Jim Buividas
Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact with yourself being someone’s back-up option as they continue to RealtoR
another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond emotional look around. They may come back to you if nobody better (C) 561-829-7722
infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an electronic device comes along, but that doesn’t give one high hopes for the (H) 561-409-2011
in one way or another. How do you know if you have crossed relationship, does it? (E) JimBuividas@yaHoo.Com

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