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The Singles Scene Column © right? When people ask “why are you still single?” simply doing the same old same old that got you here. THIS is
respond “not for long” (because you have the pros in your the moment to spread your wild wings and connect with
Holiday Dating Hacks back pocket). Your smile will be bigger all month long another human that loves and appreciates you. Look for
simply because you took action. someone who knows how to love and is not fatally broken
By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Truth be told, singles have FIVE things on their like so many may be these days. Create your idea of what
The Florida Matchmaker mind right now: WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, love could look like during the holiday season. Don’t give
Have you noticed the and HOW because no one wants to be single this time in to the social pressure and clichéd picture of holiday
holiday sizzle has started of year. This is our early gift to you. We thank you for couples. It’s only November and you could pair off too.
early this year? We have reading our column for so many years! For our new Recently, I had a couple become engaged after just four
here and it is very exciting. readers, we thank you for sharing your time with us today. weeks of dating.
So, if you are single, know We look forward to meeting you soon in our office for WHAT: Accept the inevitable facts of what is about to
that you have options AND your private dating consultation. You will learn a lot about happen. The holiday season can be very demanding and
if you are taken do tell your yourself in the first hour with us. It will all be our secret challenging when it comes to the stigma of being single.
friends! This would be the too :). Tired of online dating shenanigans or being “out Thanksgiving, for example, is typically portrayed as an
coolest topic to share with there” for all to see? Read on for the answers. artificially picturesque image of hugs and laughter and
your single friends and WHO: Focus on you! You do have a good life--there “perfect couples” cozying up on the couch. Yet, for the
family who are feeling a little lonely this time of year. is just one thing missing. Self-love is key. You have so majority of Americans, that is not the case whatsoever.
It’s always nice to have something to look forward to, much to offer. You are a catch...but you can’t be caught Interestingly, stats point to around 30% of the population
likely spending Thanksgiving completely alone this year.
This is why you need to take action sooner than later.
What is the order of the day: Change.
WHERE: Where will you be? Remember, single
people were kind of “stuck” this time last year and for
much longer than the holidays. We know divorces and
break-ups soared in the last 22 months. Thousands of
single adults moved to Florida in the last year from all
around the country. This means MORE AVAILABLE
QUALITY MEN and WOMEN. Many of our new clients
are new to the area entirely and they know no one. Caveat:
If you are traveling, it is a good idea to meet us for your
first appointment BEFORE you go. This will give us a
head start.
WHEN: Make that one decision now and start today.
At the end of the day, enjoying the holidays comes down
to your mindset and attitude. If you are single right now,
just knowing you are doing something about it (as in
following our guide) will raise your energy and mood
immensely. You will have HOPE. You will be ditching
the dating apps and upgrading your odds of romance
this season. Take this as a unique chance to revisit and
reframe your expectations. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
This is the one decision that could and will change your
trajectory (in love) forever. That’s the goal. If you don’t
have a FOREVER PARTNER at this very moment, taking
action will give you peace and faith for the weeks to come.
HOW: Hit your DELETE button. Let go of your
fears. The past is officially over and behind you now.
Get moving in the here and now. Leave your comfort
zone. Some have risen to the occasion and seized the day
and likely this describes you (since you are reading this
column). One thing is for certain: Pandemic Era Love
is on the rise right now--so don’t miss the good positive
energy around you. Commit now while the market is hot.
Timing is everything and “couples season” has begun!
The odds of pairing off in November and December are
in your favor.
The bottom line is: You have been thinking about
this for a while. You don’t want to be single. It’s been
too long solo or in the wrong relationship. Do something
different for you and find out what’s happening HERE
too. Discover what’s new at Revolution Dating.
Can’t wait to bring you up to date and to get you dating
before the ball drops!
Carpe Diem and Happy Thanksgiving!
XoXo, Kelly & The Revolution Dating Team
#L ove Of fl i ne #L ove L oc a l #R e st a rt Sm a rt
#FirstResponderSpecialsAllMonth #TellYourFriends
Kelly Leary has 30 years in the dating industry and
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a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating
members are pre-screened including background
checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff.
Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating.
In addition to providing matchmaking services that
make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
membership, Kelly and her team also provide feedback
from your dates when appropriate. Call 561-630-XOXO
(9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) for a LIVE interview
with a matchmaker for the quickest service. You may
also visit us at www.revolutiondating.com. *All inquiries
are confidential.
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