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      The Singles Scene Column                 ©         right? When people ask “why are you still single?” simply   doing the same old same old that got you here. THIS is
                                                         respond “not for long” (because you have the pros in your   the moment to spread your wild wings and connect with
      Holiday Dating Hacks                               back pocket). Your smile will be bigger all month long   another human that loves and appreciates you. Look for
                                                         simply because you took action.                   someone who knows how to love and is not fatally broken
      By: Kelly Leary, M.S.,                               Truth be told, singles have FIVE things on their   like so many may be these days. Create your idea of what
      The Florida Matchmaker                             mind  right  now: WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE,         love could look like during the holiday season. Don’t give
        Have you noticed the                             and HOW because no one wants to be single this time   in to the social pressure and clichéd picture of holiday
      holiday sizzle has started                         of year. This is our early gift to you. We thank you for   couples. It’s only November and you could pair off too.
      early this year? We have                           reading our column for so many years! For our new   Recently, I had a couple become engaged after just four
      here and it is very exciting.                      readers, we thank you for sharing your time with us today.   weeks of dating.
      So, if you are single, know                        We look forward to meeting you soon in our office for     WHAT: Accept the inevitable facts of what is about to
      that you have options AND                          your private dating consultation. You will learn a lot about   happen. The holiday season can be very demanding and
      if you are taken do tell your                      yourself in the first hour with us. It will all be our secret   challenging when it comes to the stigma of being single.
      friends! This would be the                         too :). Tired of online dating shenanigans or being “out   Thanksgiving, for example, is typically portrayed as an
      coolest topic to share with                        there” for all to see? Read on for the answers.   artificially picturesque image of hugs and laughter and
      your single friends and                              WHO: Focus on you! You do have a good life--there   “perfect couples” cozying up on the couch. Yet, for the
      family who are feeling a little lonely this time of year.   is just one thing missing. Self-love is key. You have so   majority of Americans, that is not the case whatsoever.
      It’s always nice to have something to look forward to,   much to offer. You are a catch...but you can’t be caught   Interestingly, stats point to around 30% of the population
                                                                                                           likely spending Thanksgiving completely alone this year.
                                                                                                           This is why you need to take action sooner than later.
                                                                                                           What is the order of the day: Change.
                                                                                                             WHERE:  Where will  you  be?  Remember,  single
                                                                                                           people were kind of “stuck” this time last year and for
                                                                                                           much longer than the holidays. We know divorces and
                                                                                                           break-ups soared in the last 22 months. Thousands of
                                                                                                           single adults moved to Florida in the last year from all
                                                                                                           around the country. This means MORE AVAILABLE
                                                                                                           QUALITY MEN and WOMEN. Many of our new clients
                                                                                                           are new to the area entirely and they know no one. Caveat:
                                                                                                           If you are traveling, it is a good idea to meet us for your
                                                                                                           first appointment BEFORE you go. This will give us a
                                                                                                           head start.
                                                                                                             WHEN: Make that one decision now and start today.
                                                                                                           At the end of the day, enjoying the holidays comes down
                                                                                                           to your mindset and attitude. If you are single right now,
                                                                                                           just knowing you are doing something about it (as in
                                                                                                           following our guide) will raise your energy and mood
                                                                                                           immensely. You will have HOPE. You will be ditching
                                                                                                           the dating apps and upgrading your odds of romance
                                                                                                           this season. Take this as a unique chance to revisit and
                                                                                                           reframe your expectations. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
                                                                                                           This is the one decision that could and will change your
                                                                                                           trajectory (in love) forever. That’s the goal. If you don’t
                                                                                                           have a FOREVER PARTNER at this very moment, taking
                                                                                                           action will give you peace and faith for the weeks to come.
                                                                                                             HOW: Hit your DELETE button. Let go of your
                                                                                                           fears. The past is officially over and behind you now.
                                                                                                           Get moving in the here and now. Leave your comfort
                                                                                                           zone. Some have risen to the occasion and seized the day
                                                                                                           and likely this describes you (since you are reading this
                                                                                                           column). One thing is for certain: Pandemic Era Love
                                                                                                           is on the rise right now--so don’t miss the good positive
                                                                                                           energy around you. Commit now while the market is hot.
                                                                                                           Timing is everything and “couples season” has begun!
                                                                                                           The odds of pairing off in November and December are
                                                                                                           in your favor.
                                                                                                             The bottom line is: You have been thinking about
                                                                                                           this for a while. You don’t want to be single. It’s been
                                                                                                           too long solo or in the wrong relationship. Do something
                                                                                                           different for you and find out what’s happening HERE
                                                                                                           too. Discover what’s new at Revolution Dating.
                                                                                                             Can’t wait to bring you up to date and to get you dating
                                                                                                           before the ball drops!
                                                                                                             Carpe Diem and Happy Thanksgiving!
                                                                                                                     XoXo, Kelly & The Revolution Dating Team
                                                                                                           #L ove Of fl i ne  #L ove L oc a l  #R e st a rt Sm a rt
                                                                                                           #FirstResponderSpecialsAllMonth #TellYourFriends
                                                                                                             Kelly Leary  has 30 years in the dating industry and
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                                                                                                           a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
                                                                                                           by  ABC News, The Palm  Beach Post, PalmBeacher
                                                                                                           Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating
                                                                                                           members are pre-screened including background
                                                                                                           checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff.
                                                                                                           Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating.
                                                                                                           In  addition to  providing  matchmaking  services that
                                                                                                           make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
                                                                                                           membership, Kelly and her team also provide feedback
                                                                                                           from your dates when appropriate. Call 561-630-XOXO
                                                                                                           (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) for a LIVE interview
                                                                                                           with a matchmaker for the quickest service. You may
                                                                                                           also visit us at www.revolutiondating.com. *All inquiries
                                                                                                           are confidential.










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