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The Singles Scene Column © of years and the decades before that too. have repeatedly said to myself and my peer group: “WOW,
The Pandemic Era did a number on all of us in more I must have done something right all these years!” It’s been
I Want More For You. ways than one. I’m not going to get political but what a full revival for me. I have never been happier all around
By: Kelly Leary, M.S., the heck just happened in the last 22 months? Businesses and I want the same for all of you.
The Florida Matchmaker have closed, even long-term anchor businesses that have Sometimes we get down ourselves, right? Why aren’t I
Happy New Year to my prevailed in our area for 40 years. Closed and gone. It’s so more perfect? Why did I make this mistake or that mistake?
loyal readers, couples and sad. Fires have started (we had one right in our building that Why did I enroll a person that I knew would be a problem?
soon-to-be couples! I am affected us greatly for months). Socialization and dating had I did it because I REALLY believe there is a pot for lid,
over the moon about the last ceased for a bit of time and life, as we knew it, no longer seriously. Anyone who knows me “well” knows that much
half of 2021. The year ended existed. It’s daunting to even wrap our heads around it all, about me and how I work. Some clients simply take longer to
on a VERY high note for still now, as the clouds begin to part. reach their goal and this often has nothing to do with me or
my clients, team, and me. At the headquarters of love, we have seen miracles my club. Patience is a virtue in any relationship, especially
A picture tells 1,000 words occur during the last 22 months. Our word-of-mouth in love.
and I can’t even begin to tell referrals and community connections powered us thru this Our 2020-21 matches have been MAGICAL. The
you how excited I am to be exceptional period in history. My mission and purpose to profile of the “typical” client who has started during this
celebrating my 31st year in the love business. I am so happy be your REAL DEAL Matchmaker was reinforced by leaps period is optimistic, proactive, successful, authentic, busy
with the new direction my firm is taking. I’m so grateful to and bounds. Our phone has been ringing off the hook for and they DO NOT want to mingle with players that seem to
the many people who rallied around me over the last couple months and we have increased our core team by demand. I flood the online dating network. My clients are also more
realistic as to who is the best match for them, recognizing
that their classic “type” may not be the best match for them
for the long haul. I’m seeing a theme of open mindedness
and willingness to get it right, this time.
Online dating has gotten WORSE (so you tell
me). Just when you thought it would get better, it has
PLUMMETED. Some sites are even trying to say they
have a new matchmaking spin. I find that FUNNY. Also,
baloney. There is only one REAL MATCHMAKER with
credentials like mine, bar none. By the way, you are lucky
I reside in your area. Hidden agendas abound online like
tawk-a-date or date-a-rama (whatever their names may be
on that day). If you value who you are and what you have
accomplished in your life then by all means, hire a real
person (IN PERSON) to do the work for you. The definition
of insanity is doing the same thing again and again expecting
different results. Give it up already and step it up. This is not
rocket science. Online dating is like Las Vegas. Period. You
could win, but the odds are you could lose. You could lose
your heart, money, soul, and time. You are opening yourself
up for failure, over and over again. You are rolling the dice
with your life physically, financially, and emotionally. Call
it quitsville, while you still can.
At the end of the day, the best way to meet someone is
through a friend, BUT since our friends are not thinking
about us 24/7, you need to connect with someone who
does this professionally. In the same way you have a CPA,
doctor, or dentist. Leave it to the pros and listen when
they speak.
That being said, show some optimistic grace as you
enter this new year. Visualize what you want in 2022. We
all have been worried for one reason or another. We didn’t
have a clue what was going on and some still don’t have a
clue. But YOU do. So, this year, SOAR. Spread your wings.
No one is going to do it for you. Don’t let another year
run away from you.
Form a strategic alliance with a woman in the know
who is very connected (yours truly). How you spend
your days and nights will define you and your future (and
your children’s if you are a single parent). So, don’t take
this all for granted anymore, please. Love your life and
Orthopaedic and sports medicine love yourself enough to find the best partner for you. Find
your person. It’s NEVER too late! I promise. You can and
care from the name you trust. will love again, regardless of your age. Time to make some
moves and give yourself permission to come join us.
I have so much more happiness to share with all of you.
I will save it for our in-person meeting!
Thank you ALL for your love for so many years! I am
They’re your joints – don’t trust them to anyone else. From bone fractures to so blessed and I love to share! I look forward to hearing
robotic assisted surgeries, the orthopaedic and sports medicine team at your story very soon.
Cleveland Clinic Martin Health provides expert care on the Treasure Coast. XOXO, Kelly
#LoveOffline #DateLocal #More4Uin2022 #SecretsSafeHere
#EventsReturning #TellYourFriends
Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and
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a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by
The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart
News, etc.. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened
including background checks. Professional photos are
taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating
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