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The Singles Scene Column ©

What Type Of Single Are You? The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in the 80s), given the right circumstances and opportunity,
bars or online dating sites and is rather desperate to find can really have a ball. I see it all the time! I am not even
By: Kelly Leary© M.S., a partner. Most divorced or never married and age 25 to afraid to age anymore! Thank you to all my seniors for
Founder of Revolution Dating 60. This single jumps from date to date rapidly. They being so cool and open minded to love/kinship after loss
Knowledge is power and confuse the physical aspects of intimacy with love and of a spouse. It can happen.
YOU hold the key to your commitment and are often left with feelings of rejection, May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give
future relationship. Only insecurity, jealousy...because she is rarely...if ever...the you exciting moments to look forward to this coming
YOU have the power to “chosen one.” She will date almost “anyone” who pays summer. Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
navigate the change needed attention to her. This person is, well, desperate. I typically Love, Kelly
on your personal road from don’t meet this type of person in my office and I would #LoveFest2022 #AimTrueIn2022 #LoveOffline
SINGLE to TAKEN. If you rather not work with this type--to be honest. It is too #WhyBeSingle #TellYourFriends #SheConnects
are in “relationship limbo” unattractive--as a character trait--and they usually scare
or “in between relationships” people off after one date. They are tough to be with on Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades
do identify what type of single you represent by choosing any level, frankly. I’m sure you know the type. In their in the love business. In her 31 years of experience, she
from the below categories. Do this today and take deliberate book of life it is never their fault. Blame games abound. has watched the dating scene morph drastically with
action toward change. Let’s figure this out, together. The Even Steven: He is a total mess. Commonly the onset of online dating and she has witnessed a huge
The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single, divorced or never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male boom in her longstanding private practice--especially
divorced or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, counterpart of Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy post pandemic. With her Master’s Degree in Clinical
grouchy and in some ways even unlovable. There may but can’t seem to shake his past failures. This man blames Psychology, with a Forensic Concentration, she has
be a sense of desire for another completely “out of their women for all his failings and suffers from great insecurity revolutionized the industry. She has been profiled by
league” which exaggerates their bad attitude as they in and out of the bedroom. He may also over-compensate PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Boca Magazine,
are never satisfied. Likelihood of resuming a (healthy) for his weakness by seeking multiple notches in his head The Palm Beach Post and other publications. Kelly
relationship is slim to none. Open to change: minimal. board...to get “EVEN” with the opposite sex...trying to was also named “Florida Woman” in recent years. Her
This male or female may have been cheated on or took a desperately make himself “whole” again. He is rarely clients are prescreened first, including background
large hit in life and never recovered. This person can be successful and noncommittal when all is said and done. checks. Professional client photos are taken in house.
helped with some therapy or a complete change of attitude. Most men like this prey in bars, online dating sites or the Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating.
However, a “revolution” becomes less likely the longer social media area. Luckily again, I don’t meet many of In addition to providing matchmaking services that
this person stays single. If this is you, get moving while these social predators in my office. They are too happy make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
you’ve still got it. As it stands, with no therapy or mindset with the dark side of keyboard dating, which is more connections, Kelly is also involved in the charity
change this person is undateworthy. Many people online ominous. Even Steven’s like to operate under the radar community sponsoring organizations like The Leukemia
fall into this category. They are just no fun to be around, of responsible authentic dating. Lymphoma Society, Furry Friends, and Chasin’ A Dream
right? You can make much better use of your time. The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age, Foundation. To get started, simply call (561) 630-XOXO
The HopeFUL Romantic: Luckily “most” of the although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female (9696) or (772) 932-HERE (4373) or register on her
people I meet are this type of person (yeah). This male had a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately website at www.revolutiondating.com.
or female has felt love in the most beautiful sense of the and are now ready to find new companionship (not
word. They have also felt heartache but they continue to marriage per se). This group does very well in my club
love more...and they almost always do! WHY? Because as long as they avoid comparing their matches to their late
they believe in love AND they know they are lovable. This husband or wife. I have seen many widows and widowers
person knows the benefits of love will ALWAYS outweigh find love again in my club--and it is SO REWARDING.
the risks. Single, divorced, or widowed of ALL AGES this My heart goes out to those who have found the key to
person has a high success rate in my club and the odds are happy marriage...and I know...as with the “HOPEFUL
in their favor. This person can be alone but their ultimate ROMANTICS” that there can be a chapter after a loss of
desire is to find their forever/grand finale love. a spouse. This generation of seniors today (from 60s to

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