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The Singles Scene ©

How to CRUSH that First Date!

By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

“Do not anticipate trouble 3. Practice Kindness. The biggest turnoff is a person who However, avoid talking too much about yourself and don’t
or worry about what may walks into a date, room, or party – with a negative attitude. It bring up past relationships...for as long as humanly possible.
never happen. Keep in the is imperative that we all practice kindness in life, love, work, 10. Keep It Light and Be Positive. Also, please eliminate
sunlight.~~Benjamin Franklin and play – single or not. Speak positive words. Eliminate ALL talk of medical conditions, politics, and religious ideas.
Summer is a great season ANY preconceived notions and ideas you may have about Talk about your travels, your hobbies, your favorite books
for budding romance and your date. Be open minded. or ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS LIGHT AND FUN. Don’t
commitments that stick for 4. Play It Cool. Don’t go overboard on the compliments, be so serious; very few people want to sit through a detailed
years to come. This July, it’s hard to be attracted to a person who is practically drooling explanation of your difficulties at this stage.
we want you to leave your over you. Perhaps that seems strange, and in a way it is 11. Conduct Yourself With Dignity. When you find
comfort zone and enjoy flattering, but it makes you come across as too pushy. Don’t yourself attracted to a person, sometimes you can get carried
dating again. It is possible. overdo it and don’t under do it! away. If you want to talk for six hours, go for it. If you want
Most of all, don’t let FIRST 5. While on the date: No Texting. No exceptions. Leave to share another bottle of wine do it...but otherwise be aware
DATE PHOBIA freeze you up. We are here to help you over your phone in the car if you can. that a first date is “a thing”. It’s a time to be the best version
the hump. We want you on that first date, second date, third 6. Be Real. A first date is about being real and authentic. of you. Don’t screw it up.
date--and ultimately TAKEN. No wacky outfits. No “over the top” jewelry or makeup. 12. Watch What You Say in Cyberspace. You’d be
When you do find someone interested in you and vice No dirty jokes. Mind your manners and be nice to the wait surprised how transparent social media can be. So if you
versa, please follow these simple steps to land a second staff! Be polite to those around and speak highly on life decided to document your date on Facebook, it can be pretty
date. It’s easy to forget “first date etiquette” after a long whenever possible...especially on a first date. Don’t take over easy for your date to find that post. Most importantly, this
time-out (either due to the pandemic, a break-up or loss the conversation. There will be time to share your story but person may not want to be with someone who posts every
of spouse). It doesn’t matter what your age is--just get out wait...ok? thought on social media.
there again and enjoy the romance that is bound to follow 7. Ask Questions on your date and listen. What’s your XOXO, Kelly
with these simple steps! date’s favorite topic of conversation? We all love to feel #GetDatingAgain #LoveLocal #LoveOffline #LoveIRL
1. You like each other. So, make that date right away! important and interesting. If you can make your date feel #SummerLove22 #TellYourFriends
Don’t drag out the first date commitment with too many these things, chances are he/she will be more attracted to Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and
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phone calls and time delays. You will seem fearful or you. It’s human nature. a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by
disinterested. Once made, be on time and don’t cancel 8. Let Your Date Know You’re Having a Good Time! If The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart
or reschedule. This is not a good way to start a first date. you’re having a good time, let it show. Smile. Laugh. A well News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened
You don’t want to start your date with an apology. placed, “I’m having a great time” is good. We all want to be including background checks. Professional photos are
2. Your appearance is important. Dress to impress with people that we can make happy. Let him/her know and taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
– for your first date it’s far better to be overdressed thank them for it too. This eliminates guessing games! blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
rather than underdressed. Remember we are putting our 9. Be Passionate. When your date asks you about yourself that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
best foot forward. Moreover, make sure your inner glow be passionate about the information you choose to share. Be membership, Kelly also provides feedback from your dates
shines too! decisive in your answers, and don’t wallow back and forth. when appropriate. All inquiries are confidential.

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