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By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating This could be either a dead-end relationship or a sideways If you identify with one or more of these principles, don’t
relationship (meaning going nowhere). Let’s not forget: none be afraid to confront your person and/or end the relationship
Bring On The Boundaries! of us are getting any younger. Time to GO! boldly and quickly. Captain your ship or be captained (by the
3. His or her attitude frequently turns on a dime. Does wrong one). Choosing the right partner in life is everything...it
Love is blind, especially your boyfriend or girlfriend vacillate from being happy-go- can make or break you and your future. Change is a good thing
during the honeymoon phase lucky to the Incredible Hulk, then back to a fuzzy teddy bear and the universe will reward you for taking care of yourself.
of dating when all seems with no apology or explanation? This type of personality is not Freeing yourself from a doomed relationship will only allow a
miraculous. You feel like good. Stability is important in any relationship and you don’t better love to enter your life. Just think, when one door closes,
you have won the jackpot want to feel like you’re walking on eggshells because you another door will open. It always does...and I have THREE red
of love--but have you? It is are unsure about how your partner will react from moment to doors for you to walk through in my office on PGA Boulevard
important to keep your eyes moment. This will create a constant state of insecurity. THIS where we have happily been for close to ten years now. Clearly,
wide open in the early stages will only get worse. we are doing some fabulous work and we can’t wait to meet
of courtship to save time and 4. He or she refuses to make your relationship “public.” you too! You are now one step closer to getting it right!
heartache in the long run. Some people like to take their time and get to know their new I know I helped you today, and I can’t wait to continue
Have a blast and enjoy your beau before introducing them to their parents, kids, etc., but this journey with you! If you are paired off, do continue to
budding romance but don’t be after a reasonable amount of time, if you have not met his or her share this column with your single-family and friends like
fooled by flying red flags. As a relationship grows (somewhere friends and family that is a red flag. If this person will not post you have for so many years. Thank you for following the
between months three and six), the “true self” begins to emerge. photos of you as a couple on social media...be SURE there is matchmaker as always.
If the love was overwhelming and exciting, it could be easy to a problem...especially if you are posting photos on your social Spread the love--the world needs more--right?
deny BIG warning signs. Let your guard down but be FULLY media. This is grounds for a “we need to have a talk” session. Talk Soon!
AWARE of your worth and your boundaries. This may include 5. He or she has little to no work ethic. Everyone has a XoXo, Kelly
accepting that your chosen person is not “relationship ready” different level of ambition, but when you notice your date has P.S. Friendly reminder to get a head start on the up and
and no amount of “work” can make it better. This person could not hit life milestones (owning a house or having a long-term coming Holiday Season 2022 and play it forward! Starting
be fresh out of a breakup, secretly in love with someone else, or job) ask yourself if this person is a good catch. He or she could this process in September will increase your odds of finding
financially challenged (looking for a sugar mommy or daddy). be using you too! Realize: 75% of the people online or in bars the right one in time for the most social party season of the
In my 31 years of experience in this magical love biz, I have are dating for financial gains. If this person doesn’t have their year. #FallInLove #WhyWaitJustDate #TellYourFriends
mastered the art of screening our applicants. Thankfully, by life together by a certain age and you do, you should walk away! #MenMagnets
the end of the first meeting, I know in my heart and head that You have too much to lose. Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and
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a client is either date-worthy or not. Unfortunately, I can’t be 6. He or she refers to all of their exes as “crazy.” Some a master’s degree in psychology. She’s been profiled by
a little bird on your shoulder when you are out on the town relationships do end badly and it is easy to say that it was always The Palm Beach Post, Jupiter Magazine, Stuart News
doing this all by yourself or at home alone, so here are seven the other person’s fault, however it takes two to tango. When and has been a Cover Girl for Florida Woman Magazine
relationship hacks to help guide you in the meantime. someone proclaims that ALL of the exes are “crazy” it is a sign among many other publications. All Revolution Dating
1. He or she rushes the relationship. If your romantic that they are the problem. On the other hand, if your new girl clients are prescreened in person in their private offices.
interest is too busy to take the time to get to know you and or guy speaks highly of their exes, and has good things to say Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution
develop a friendship first this is a sign of relational immaturity about them...consider that a good sign (as long as they don’t Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to
and possibly insincerity. Rushing you into the bedroom when talk about their ex too much). providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-
you are not ready is a bright red flag. 7. He or she drives a wedge between you and your single” through their exclusive membership, Kelly and her
2. He or she intentionally avoids “big picture” questions. family or friends. This person is most likely a control freak or incredible team also provide date coaching and feedback.
It is easy to be in a relationship that moves forward comfortably, a narcissist or both. This person can’t stand it when you are not They will even style you by request! Each membership
but do you ask your partner about making plans or other paying attention to them...and they often will bash your friends is custom-made to suit you and your needs. For more
commitments in advance? Does he or she quickly change the and family to isolate you. Your friends will notice this quickly... information, please call (561) 630-XOXO (9696) or (772)
subject and avoid answering? If so, this is a clear sign that listen to them. This person is trying to control your life. Don’t 932-HERE (4373) or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com.
he or she probably does not see you as an item in the future. let it happen! This is all CONFIDENTIAL and OFFLINE.

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