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       Four Steps To Stop Mail Addressed To A Deceased Person




       Submitted by Anné                                 closing the estate and dismissing you as the personal   charities to which the deceased person made donations while
       Desormier-Cartwright, Esq.                        representative to the deceased person’s local post office,   they were living), contact the organization directly to inform
         One  of  the first  things                      and request that all mail service be stopped immediately. If   them of the death. Note that most publishers will issue a
       you should do as a newly                          you don’t take this step and find that some mail continues   refund for any unused subscription.
       appointed personal                                to trickle through two or more years after the death, this is     4. If you shared the mailing address with the deceased
       representative (known as                          because the U.S. post office only honors forwarding orders   person or if you are the new owner of the deceased person’s
       executor in other states) of                      for one year. The only way to completely stop delivery is to   home, write “Deceased, Return to Sender” on any mail
       a deceased person’s probate                       request that all mail service be discontinued.    addressed to the deceased person and leave it in your mailbox
       estate or successor trustee                         2. To stop mail received as the result of commercial   for pickup.
       of a deceased trust maker’s                       marketing lists (in other words, junk mail), log on to the     Remember it is a federal offense to open and read someone
       trust is ask the post office                      Deceased Do Not Contact Registration page (https://www.  else’s mail, so if you’re not a legal representative of the
       to forward the deceased                           ims-dm.com/cgi/ddnc.php) of the DMAchoice.org website   deceased person, don’t open their mail!
       person’s mail to your address. Unfortunately, along with   and enter the deceased person’s information. According to     If you have questions about this or your estate plan and
       important pieces of mail – statements, bills, and refunds –   the website, “DMAchoice  is an online tool developed by the   what documents are necessary, schedule a consultation today
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       many not-so-important pieces – catalogs, solicitations, and   Direct Marketing Association to help you manage your mail.   by calling our office at (561) 694-7827, Anné Desormier-
       plain old junk mail – will end up in your mailbox.   This site is part of a larger program designed to respond to   Cartwright, Esq., Elder & Estate Planning Attorneys PA,
         On the other hand, you may have purchased a home from   consumers’ concerns over the amount of mail they receive,   480 Maplewood Drive, Suite 3, Jupiter, FL 33458.
       a deceased person’s estate or trust and have received some   and it is the evolution of the DMA’s Mail Preference Service     The content of this article is general and should not be
       of their mail at your new address.                created in 1971.” After registering the deceased person on   relied upon without review of your specific circumstances
         What can you do to stop the post office from delivering   the website, the organization claims that the amount of mail   by competent legal counsel. Reliance on the information
       mail addressed to a deceased person? Follow these four steps:  received as the result of commercial marketing lists should   herein is at your own risk, as it expresses no opinion by
         1. If you are the personal representative of an estate that   decrease within three months.       the firm on your specific circumstances or legal needs.
       has been through probate court and the estate is officially     3. For magazines and other subscriptions and mail that is   An attorney client relationship is not created through the
       closed, hand-deliver or send a copy of the probate order   technically not “junk” mail (for example, solicitations from   information provided herein.
      Helping Unmotivated Teens




      By Jim Forgan, Ph.D.,                              how much it will come back to haunt him later.” We decided     Counselors offer support to teens willing to participate
      Licensed School                                    to test him to help give her direction and determine if his   in the process. A type of effective counseling is cognitive
      Psychologist                                       struggles were due to an underlying disorder or something   behavioral therapy. This goal oriented counseling helps
        Unmotivated, lazy, not                           else. Testing revealed no learning disabilities, but the teen   your teen reframe negative thinking and change thought
      applying himself, and not                          was depressed which was causing him not to care about now   processes which, in turn, change behavior. Counselors are
      working to his potential                           or later. Based on this information, mom obtained the right   available at psychologytoday.com or sfacc.net. If your teen
      were words a mom used to                           help for her son.                                 is open to reading a self-help type of book check out the
      describe her 16-year-old                             Depression in teens is real and anxiety and depression   book, Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your
      son as we discussed her                            often co-occur. These are mental health issues that do not   Life…And Maybe The World or Anxiety Relief for Teens
      concerns. This 11th grade                          go away on their own and can appear as your teen being   by Regine Galanti.
      adolescent seemed to be a                          agitated, unmotivated, disinterested, flippant, argumentative,     If you have an unmotivated teen, call our office as we
      lost soul since he did not care                    withdrawn, and experimenting to fill an unmet void. If you   test children ages 5.5 through college for dyslexia, ADHD/
      about school grades, was defiant at home, and was pushing   suspect your teen has depression or anxiety, seek treatment.   ADD, depression, anxiety, and other processing disorders.
      others away. Mom was concerned about him and as she put it,   We offer testing to rule out other problems and determine the   Visit JimForgan.com or call (561) 625-4125.
      “He doesn’t even realize how much he’s messing up now and   true issue. Alternatively, you can talk to your medical provider.

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