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The Singles Scene ©

How to CRUSH that First Date!

By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

“Do not anticipate 3. Practice Kindness. The biggest turnoff is a person who However, avoid talking too much about yourself and don’t
trouble or worry about what walks into a date, room, or party – with a negative attitude. It bring up past relationships...for as long as humanly possible.
may never happen. Keep in is imperative that we all practice kindness in life, love, work, 10. Keep It Light and Be Positive. Also, please eliminate
the sunlight.~~Benjamin and play – single or not. Speak positive words. Eliminate ALL talk of medical conditions, politics, and religious ideas.
Franklin ANY preconceived notions and ideas you may have about Talk about your travels, your hobbies, your favorite books
Summer is a great season your date. Be open minded. or ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS LIGHT AND FUN. Don’t
for budding romance and 4. Play It Cool. Don’t go overboard on the compliments, be so serious; very few people want to sit through a detailed
commitments that stick for it’s hard to be attracted to a person who is practically drooling explanation of your difficulties at this stage.
years to come. This July, over you. Perhaps that seems strange, and in a way it is 11. Conduct Yourself With Dignity. When you find
we want you to leave your flattering, but it makes you come across as too pushy. Don’t yourself attracted to a person, sometimes you can get carried
comfort zone and enjoy overdo it and don’t under do it! away. If you want to talk for six hours, go for it. If you
dating again. It is possible. 5. While on the date: No Texting. No exceptions. Leave want to share another bottle of wine do it...but otherwise
Most of all, don’t let FIRST DATE PHOBIA freeze you your phone in the car if you can. be aware that a first date is “a thing”. It’s a time to be the
up. We are here to help you over the hump. We want you 6. Be Real. A first date is about being real and authentic. best version of you. Don’t screw it up.
on that first date, second date, third date--and ultimately No wacky outfits. No “over the top” jewelry or makeup. 12. Watch What You Say in Cyberspace. You’d be
TAKEN. No dirty jokes. Mind your manners and be nice to the wait surprised how transparent social media can be. So if you
When you do find someone interested in you and vice staff! Be polite to those around and speak highly on life decided to document your date on Facebook, it can be pretty
versa, please follow these simple steps to land a second whenever possible...especially on a first date. Don’t take easy for your date to find that post. Most importantly, this
date. It’s easy to forget “first date etiquette” after a long over the conversation. There will be time to share your person may not want to be with someone who posts every
time-out (either due to the pandemic, a break-up or loss story but wait...ok? thought on social media.
of spouse). It doesn’t matter what your age is--just get out 7. Ask Questions on your date and listen. What’s your XOXO, Kelly
there again and enjoy the romance that is bound to follow date’s favorite topic of conversation? We all love to feel #GetDatingAgain #LoveLocal #LoveOffline #LoveIRL
with these simple steps! important and interesting. If you can make your date feel #SummerLove22 #TellYourFriends
1. You like each other. So, make that date right away! these things, chances are he/she will be more attracted to Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and
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Don’t drag out the first date commitment with too many you. It’s human nature. a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by
phone calls and time delays. You will seem fearful or 8. Let Your Date Know You’re Having a Good Time! If The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart
disinterested. Once made, be on time and don’t cancel or you’re having a good time, let it show. Smile. Laugh. A well News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened
reschedule. This is not a good way to start a first date. You placed, “I’m having a great time” is good. We all want to be including background checks. Professional photos are
don’t want to start your date with an apology. with people that we can make happy. Let him/her know and taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
2. Your appearance is important. Dress to impress – thank them for it too. This eliminates guessing games! blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
for your first date it’s far better to be overdressed rather 9. Be Passionate. When your date asks you about yourself that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
than underdressed. Remember we are putting our best foot be passionate about the information you choose to share. Be membership, Kelly also provides feedback from your dates
forward. Moreover, make sure your inner glow shines too! decisive in your answers, and don’t wallow back and forth. when appropriate. All inquiries are confidential.

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