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                                                       From the rabbis



      How to Bless Your Kids                            kingdom to those that love His children. When a person   Financing the Revolution
                                                        truly loves his fellow, the blessing he wishes upon another
      By Rabbi Dovid Vigler                             has a far higher chance of being fulfilled.        By Rabbi Paul Arberman
         It’s quite an emotional                           An old saying states that “love laughs at locksmiths.”      As  part  of  the  normal
      moment to watch your kids                         This truth lies at the foundation of Hollywood blockbusters,   Torah reading cycle
      mature into adulthood. For                        bestselling novels, and Shakespeare plays. As it is below   every summer we hear of
      the first two years of life,                      on Earth, so it is above in Heaven: Love from below   Korach’s rebellion against
      we  are  eager  to  see  them                     arouses love from on high.                         Moses. Spoiler alert:
      walk and talk, and then we                           When we can summon a feeling of genuine love upon   The revolution fails and
      spend the next eight years                        those whom we are blessing, we are able to access the   he and his followers are
      telling them to shut up and                       skeleton key that opens all locks up in Heaven.    punished.  We read  that
      sit down! In all seriousness,                        You may recall the very beautiful and sacred moments   ”the earth opened its mouth
      raising children is anything                      when the Kohanim bless the congregation on the Jewish   and swallowed them up
      but child’s play and when                         holidays with the Kohanim Blessing:                with their households,  all
      you get a chance to kvell, you had better take full   May G-d bless you and guard you.               Korach’s  people,  and  all  their  possessions”  (Numbers
      advantage of the moment!                          May G-d shine His countenance upon you and be gracious   16:32).
         As our eldest daughter Moussia celebrated her bat   to you.                                          The next verse seems to repeat or emphasize: “They
      mitzvah in June, we think of all the hopes and dreams   May G-d turn His countenance toward you and grant   went down…with all that belonged to them.” What was
      with which we have blessed her and of the strength and   you peace.                                  Korach carrying with him in the desert? In the Talmud,
      courage we have wished upon her over the past twelve      Before the Kohanim actually bless the congregation,   Masechet Sanhedrin, page 110a, Rabbi Levi tells us: “The
      years. And we wish we could do more to help her through   they declare that they are preparing to undertake the   keys  alone  to  Korach’s  treasure  houses  required  three
      life’s inevitable challenges.                     mitzvah of blessing G-d’s children “with love.” In no other   hundred strong mules to carry them…” Korach was rich
         How do you bless your kids?                    mitzvah do we find a requirement for it to be fulfilled   and he carried with him an enormous amount of wealth!
         In the days of the holy Baal Shem Tov, word spread   with love. Only when blessing another is love absolutely   How did he get so rich? Dry goods?
      about a simple tailor whose blessings all came true, even   necessary, because the key to a successful blessing is the      Rabbi Chama son of Rabbi Chanina says in the
      when he blessed people in truly dire circumstances. When   emotion with which it is given. In fact, a quarrelsome   Midrash: Three treasures did Joseph hide in Egypt: one
      the Baal Shem Tov went to visit him to inquire about his   Kohen is not allowed to bless the congregation, as the   was discovered by Korach; one by Antonius the son of
      secret, the tailor told him a fascinating personal story.  requirement of love is obviously lacking!  Severus, and the third is stored away for the righteous
         He had recently ventured out on a three-year business      It is precisely this blessing with which we bless our   in the World to Come. Evidently Korach found Joseph’s
      trip where he had been extremely successful. On his way   children each Friday Night and in the sacred moments   treasure. An  alternative  midrash  says  that  Korach  was
      home to bring his earnings to his wife and children, he   before Yom Kippur. I still call my father in Johannesburg   Pharaoh’s finance minister, “and he had in his hands the
      encountered a family whose patriarch had suddenly passed   each Friday morning to receive this blessing from him   keys to his treasures” (Bamidbar Rabba 18:15).
      away and was struggling with a future son-in-law who   before the onset of Shabbat. Sensing the love with which      Either way, why is Korach’s wealth important to the
      refused to marry the daughter unless he was assured of   my father blesses his nine children each Shabbos, has   rabbis and worthy of mention? One answer is given by the
      his dowry. Sensing their distress, he was overcome with   exposed me to the power of love as well.   Talmud (same page, Sanhedrin 101a). There are “stored
      empathy and handed the orphan bride his earnings to cover      An old Hasidic aphorism states that the blessing   treasures that bring evil to their owners” says Kohelet
      the cost of her dowry. The man concluded that “ever since,   that we impart upon each other at a Hasidic farbrengen   ([Ecclesiastes] 5:12). So the lesson is that too much wealth
      anytime I ask for something, it seems to come to fruition.   (gathering), when we are feeling unconditional love for   can make someone boastful and may lead that person to
      I don’t really understand what’s going on.”       each other, is more powerful even than the blessing of the   chase honor or to demand privilege that is not due them.
         Torah  reveals  to  us  that  G-d  gives  the  keys  to  his   archangel Michael! Indeed, nothing stands in the way of   Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish says this was “the wealth of
                                                        love.                                              Korach” — i.e., Korach’s wealth corrupted him.
                                                           Love is so much more than just an emotion. It is a      Rabbis  have  long  debated  the  nature  of  Korach’s
       Beth David’s Project from page 1                 powerful tool. Think of the people that you care about and   rebellion. Does he seek to depose Moses so that he might
                                                        conjure a feeling of genuine love towards them. Doing so   rule? Is he more broadly challenging the rule of Halakhah/
       called upon to join in a ceremonial groundbreaking.   will allow the blessings that you send their way to flow   Jewish law? Or does he think that everyone should be
       Hard hats were worn, shovels turned the dirt, and   freely.                                         equal, that there should be no authority over the Israelites
       everyone rejoiced as this new chapter in the temple’s      As we watch our  children blossom into  the  next   at all?
       history  officially  began.  Project  Imagine  Co-Chair   beautiful stage of their lives, we are brimming with pride      Based on the sources I mentioned above, maybe Korach
       Linda Fayne thanked all guests for coming and invited   and overflowing with gratitude. But most of all, we are   believed that his riches should give him greater say in the
       them inside for snacks and drinks. Mayor Marciano and   empowering them with the blessings of our love.  running of the community. Indeed, isn’t that something
       Councilmember Marino both spoke about the changes      Rabbi Dovid Vigler is spiritual leader at Chabad of   that happens in the modern world? Certainly someone who
       in Palm Beach Gardens in the almost 40 years of Temple   Palm Beach Gardens and host of the Jewish Schmooze   makes a fortune shouldn’t have less power than others to
       Beth David’s history, and also spoke about what the   Radio Show. Email him at gardensrabbi@gmail.com.
       future may hold for our fair city.                                                                  From the Rabbis on page 3
          Project Imagine, a renovation and reimagining
       of  Temple Beth David’s original building, will
       be completed in the fall. “Each generation of our
       leadership has built on the hard work and dedication
       of the leaders that came before,” said Larry Kushins.
       “We are proud to carry on this tradition.” Bobbi Sadow,
       Director of Administration, added, “We will be able to
       stream programming in on a large screen so that classes
       can interact easily and everyone will be able to view                               Welcomes
       anything we show. We’ll also be able to stream our
       services out so that congregants who can’t make it to
       the temple will still be able to join us for Shabbat and
       holidays.”
          The new lobby will create a bright, inviting, and
       professional  atmosphere  and  will  provide  increased
       security for the schools and main building.  Fayne
       added, “We built our original temple 36 years ago.
       About 18 years ago we added a large sanctuary, social
       hall, and kitchens. Now we are updating and revamping
       our original space. Eighteen has always been a lucky
       number for the Jewish people. It means life. And we
       are happy to bring new life to our original building
       through Project Imagine.”

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