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                                                                         Dating




                                             The Singles Scene Column                                            ©


                                                          Spend Money to Find Love?


                                                             By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE Florida Matchmaker
        The answer is simple: We                          Look up documentaries like Dirty John who met an upscale   started this July by the time the holidays roll around! It is
      have always invested money to                     woman on OurTime.com. He pretended to be a doctor but he   a couples world! Our matchmakers are standing by 7 days
      find love regardless of our gender.               was a very BAD guy. Predators love online dating! You can see   a week if you have more questions for us. We are happy to
      We pay for dates, we pay to look                  online dating disasters on Date Line, 20/20, or any news channel.   oblige.
      good, and we pay in the form of                   Online dating is dangerous and quality people either don’t like it   Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
      time and emotional investments                    or cannot be seen online for privacy reasons. It’s embarrassing.                 Much Love and XoXo,
      too. We pay for our wins to                         Enter Modern Matchmaking: My business was designed                                          Kelly
      celebrate love in the form of a                   as an online dating remedy and for those who simply can’t or     #CallForMoreScoop #SummerLoveIsHappeningNow
      wedding and sadly, sometimes, we                  won’t go online looking for love (like a doctor, judge, or CEO).   #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
      pay for divorce when love ends.                   We are private, friendly, and local. We serve South Florida and     Kelly Leary  has 28 years in the dating industry and a
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      We always pay for love one way                    the Treasure Coast. I, personally, have 28 years of experience   Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled by
      or the other BUT the payoff is the                and a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology specializing in   ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
      best feeling in the world. We all want and need love. Yet now,   Forensic Studies (profiling). During my graduate studies, I was   South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart News, and other
      more than ever, we have been forced to get smarter because of   lucky enough to find my calling by happenstance in 1991 in   publications. All Revolution Dating members are prescreened
      our potential losses. Dating is riskier today--and sometimes even   Boca Raton. I worked at other dating services over the years   first, including background checks. Professional member
      scary! The times have changed and we must change too. As much   and quickly noted what they were doing wrong and what they   photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online
      good as the Internet has brought us--it has come with a VERY high   were doing right. I kept the best and forgot the rest. I still cringe   dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking
      price. People are so programmed to look down (at their screens)   when I recall what other bosses of mine had done in the past.   services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
      and communicate via social media and texting that many have   Many of them still exist but they have changed their business   membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For more
      lost the art of socializing in person. Just look around at the beach   name multiple times.          information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in the South
      or at a restaurant. People are obsessed with their smartphones.    To save you time and money, I have also included a price   Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast
        Enter online dating: Being an encyclopedia on this industry,   list of random options. We researched many of these prices to   or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com. All inquiries are
      I remember when online dating first hit the circuits. Not everyone   double check...all in the name of love and all for YOU. Since   confidential.
      had a computer and there were no smartphones. And so it began--  “matchmaker” is now a household term like doctor or lawyer, I   Summer Love is all
      the evolution of dating went from a kind introduction or set-up   thought I would bring you up to speed! Thank me later!
      like our grandparents and parents to everyone jumping on the     What Finding Love Could Cost in Dollars:  Around Town. July 2019
      alternate bus of online dating, which began around 1995. The     $0 Free dating sites or sit home alone with no one.
      theory seemed sensible, but there has been a big trade-off in recent     $25+ Some online dating sites. Ex: Bumble, Match, OurTime.     Summer love is all around town thanks to the Revolution
      years. It is now super easy to cheat or “next.” The divorce rate is   See above article for your odds.  Dating Club! These photos are worth 1000 words and tell the
      up. What started as a way to increase your options has become     $449+ Per month/3 month minimum -- for one date per   whole matchmaking story! This July, you should change your
      completely corrupt since its inception. Too much. Too fast. Too   month. No local office/often in temporary or virtual offices.   future too--by dating in REAL LIFE and finding love off-line.
      easy. Now, it’s too hard. The online dating system has been   Often no photos. Ex: Tawkify (California Address).   Follow the love, and stop wasting time and money chasing fake
      severely handicapped and there is no fixing this inherent fatal     $5000+ Sometimes per month, per year, or per number of   people on a website. Meet new people the old fashioned way,
      flaw. Online dating will only get worse--especially in Florida.  dates. Sometimes no photos. Ex: Three Date Rule (no Florida   through introductions by a friend (that friend would be THE
        Was there a time when online dating had better odds?   location) and many others.                  Florida Matchmakers of Revolution Dating). Society is tired
      Sure. My cousin met her husband online in Maine 12 years ago.     $25K to $45K+ Per year -- to work with a representative at a   of online dating, and it is likely you are too if you are reading
      Get it? In Maine and 12 years ago. Online dating hit an all-time   “elite” service that may or may not have a rooted local office in   this issue. Follow your heart and step up your odds by meeting
      low in 2009 in Florida, which is when the local daily newspaper   Florida. Matches could be national. Ex: Kelleher International.  screened people face to face! The following photos are bound
      did a very positive story on my work. Off-line dating services hit     (Reference for price section and amounts: Cosmopolitan,   to bring you a good feeling about your July plans to join the
      the maps BIG at that moment and so did I. We were presented as   June 2019)                          club, so get excited about your future again. The hotlines are
      an alternative to online dating. Take it from someone who is an     Here is the bottom line: When you find your dream man   open seven days a week and a LIVE team member will be
      expert. It is an enormous gamble and you will risk losing time,   or woman you will be glad you took the plunge and you chose   happy to assist you on your journey. All calls are confidential.
      money, headache and heartache--not to mention your safety--men   the best service available to you. Upon enrollment (hopefully   Parties are optional and many opt for one-on-one setups.
      or women--when you look for love online. Men can be hurt too--  in person in a real office), consider your investment a down   For more information on how you can find REAL love with
      and definitely in the wallet. It is a gamble just like in Vegas, and   payment on your wedding or on your dream vacation and   REAL people, call 561-630-XOXO (9696). #CallStartDate
      you can lose EVERYTHING.                          just live it up with your new love life! You will be glad you   #SummerLove #Fireworks  #AdultSummerCamp2019
                                                                                                           #RevolutionDating #TellYourFriends


















                                                                                                           This Revolution Dating   Revolution Dating introduced
                                                                                                           couple loves boating    John to Christine in the Fall
                                                                                                           together!               and now they travel as a couple!














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