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The Singles Scene Column © Questions to ask your future matchmaker: more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in
 Will I be able to see photos of my dates before we meet the South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
How to Hire a Matchmaker and who takes the photos? (Naturally, it is best if the photos Treasure Coast or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com.
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE were taken by your matchmaking team to verify validity). All inquiries are confidential.
Florida Matchmaker If there are no photos offered, I would run.
The sun is about to set on the  What is your matchmaker’s education level? We See You!
summer of love 2019, and it did  How many years has he or she been a recognized
“happen so fast.” Our children matchmaker? #LocalLoveSightings.
will be going back to school  Where is the office located? How long has he or she
and that leaves more time for us been in that location? Is it a respectable, upbeat office and August 2019.
parents! As I like to say—“back environment or a temporary suite? After all, location is
to school, back to you!” August everything. The more visible a matchmaker is, the more Summer love is all
is the sunset of summer. It marks clients she is destined to attract. If it is an out of state around town thanks to the
the ending of the season. It is an headquarters, it is NOT a good option for you. You will be Revolution Dating Club!
eye-opener too, don’t you think? disappointed and they will not have enough members for The attached photos tell a
I love sunsets personally, in fact, you in the local area. This is just common sense. true story about summer
our 70-year-old family business in Vermont carries the name  Does he or she offer private events? Are they connected love powered by this epic
“sunset” so the word resonates love for me. As I get a little in the charity community? If he or she does not have parties club. Follow the signs, and
older myself (which does happen to the best of us), I have as an add-on option—it is likely because they don’t have stop wasting your time and
learned to appreciate the passage of time. At a certain age, time enough members and can’t put them all under one roof. money dating “stranger
becomes more precious and it certainly moves quickly! That  Do they meet with all of their clients in person, or do things” on a website or
being said—in the blink of an eye—it will be Halloween, then they sign-up clients over the phone? If it is only a phone chasing kisses on your cell
Thanksgiving, and then the BIG Holy Holidays. Another year interview, I would opt-out. This is not a good sign. If it’s a phone. Meet new people
will have come and gone. The bells of 2020 will be ringing, skype interview, I would also opt-out. the old fashioned way, #RDcouples do Mountains!
and all of us will be wondering about our future and how we  Do they check identification in person and run through introductions by
want to live and love more. background checks? a friend (aka: THE Florida
Singles who have been sitting on the bench are likely to  How often will you get a possible introduction? If it is Matchmakers). Society is
be thinking about their romantic future. The summer love super limited, like one every month or a total of 5 dates in X tired of online dating, and
possibilities are fading and hopefully, you will feel the urge amount of time, those are low odds and I would recommend it is likely you are too. In
to springboard into action. He or she is not going to come finding a matchmaker with ample resources. a world of social media,
knocking on your door. If you are lonely--or feeling a little  Are there guarantees? Here is the tricky part. Is there a many people are living in
blue--do something about it. You do have control over your guarantee that marriage will last forever? I wish there was, fantasy land and it is just
romantic odds. If you have been online dating for a period but in life and love, the responsibility lies within us. We need not fun, right? It is not real.
of time, and it’s not working, it is time for a change. Don’t let to co-create our future and set ourselves up for success, just Follow your heart and step
another season go by alone. The world is really in your hands like we do on the job. However, doing nothing will make up your odds by meeting
more than you know. You have control. You’ve got this! I you older and less likely to venture out. Grab the bull by the screened people face to
know you don’t want to spend the holiday season solo, so get horns, take a deep breath and thank me later. face--just like these people
moving and leave your comfort zone! It’s that simple. Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office! did below! Isn’t it time #RDcouples do Boating!
If you are reading this column, you are definitely thinking Much Love and XoXo, Kelly you get excited about your
about change, either for yourself or a friend. In an age # Do n t L e t T h e Su n Go Do wn On Y o u future again? The hotlines are open seven days a week
of “online dating-itis” and “textual relationships,” single #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends and a LIVE team member will be happy to assist you
people have become more and more guarded, skeptical and #SunsetLove confidentially. For more information on how you can find
disillusioned. Due to the nationwide risks of online dating, REAL love with REAL people, call 561-630-XOXO (9696).
thankfully for you, the word “MATCHMAKER” is now Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and #CallStartDate #SummerLove #SexySummerSoiree
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a household term, much like a doctor or lawyer. Hiring a a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled #RevolutionDating #TellYourFriends
matchmaker is trending and the more the merrier. People by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
follow the crowd and luckily for us, all signs point to our door, Magazine, South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart
right above Rocco’s Tacos in a bustling business community. News, and other publications. All Revolution Dating
Since we know that you are interested in hiring a matchmaker, members are prescreened first, including background
I have composed the following guidelines for you to use when checks. Professional member photos are taken by the
you speak to a matchmaker. A face-to-face meeting is key staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind
and you can ask her these questions in person. Thank you for dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
sharing your time with me today and do share this column with that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
your single friends and family as always! #ShareTheLove membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For

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