Page 5 - Jupiter Spotlight - August '19

Jupiter Spotlight, Page 5
The Singles Scene Column ©

How to Hire a Matchmaker got this! I know you don’t want to spend the holiday season  Does he or she offer private events? Are they connected
solo, so get moving and leave your comfort zone! It’s that in the charity community? If he or she does not have parties
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE simple. as an add-on option—it is likely because they don’t have
Florida Matchmaker If you are reading this column, you are definitely thinking enough members and can’t put them all under one roof.
The sun is about to set on about change, either for yourself or a friend. In an age  Do they meet with all of their clients in person, or do
the summer of love 2019, and of “online dating-itis” and “textual relationships,” single they sign-up clients over the phone? If it is only a phone
it did “happen so fast.” Our people have become more and more guarded, skeptical and interview, I would opt-out. This is not a good sign. If it’s a
children will be going back to disillusioned. Due to the nationwide risks of online dating, skype interview, I would also opt-out.
school and that leaves more thankfully for you, the word “MATCHMAKER” is now  Do they check identification in person and run
time for us parents! As I like to a household term, much like a doctor or lawyer. Hiring a background checks?
say—“back to school, back to matchmaker is trending and the more the merrier. People  How often will you get a possible introduction? If it is
you!” August is the sunset of follow the crowd and luckily for us, all signs point to our super limited, like one every month or a total of 5 dates in X
summer. It marks the ending of door, right above Rocco’s Tacos in a bustling business amount of time, those are low odds and I would recommend
the season. It is an eye-opener community. Since we know that you are interested in hiring finding a matchmaker with ample resources.
too, don’t you think? I love a matchmaker, I have composed the following guidelines  Are there guarantees? Here is the tricky part. Is there a
sunsets personally, in fact, our 70-year-old family business for you to use when you speak to a matchmaker. A face-to- guarantee that marriage will last forever? I wish there was,
in Vermont carries the name “sunset” so the word resonates face meeting is key and you can ask her these questions in but in life and love, the responsibility lies within us. We need
love for me. As I get a little older myself (which does happen person. Thank you for sharing your time with me today and to co-create our future and set ourselves up for success, just
to the best of us), I have learned to appreciate the passage do share this column with your single friends and family as like we do on the job. However, doing nothing will make
of time. At a certain age, time becomes more precious and always! #ShareTheLove you older and less likely to venture out. Grab the bull by the
it certainly moves quickly! That being said—in the blink of Questions to ask your future matchmaker: horns, take a deep breath and thank me later.
an eye—it will be Halloween, then Thanksgiving, and then  Will I be able to see photos of my dates before we meet Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
the BIG Holy Holidays. Another year will have come and and who takes the photos? (Naturally, it is best if the photos Much Love and XoXo, Kelly
gone. The bells of 2020 will be ringing, and all of us will were taken by your matchmaking team to verify validity). #DontLetTheSunGoDownOnY ou
be wondering about our future and how we want to live and If there are no photos offered, I would run. #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
love more.  What is your matchmaker’s education level? #SunsetLove
Singles who have been sitting on the bench are likely to  How many years has he or she been a recognized
be thinking about their romantic future. The summer love matchmaker? Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and
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possibilities are fading and hopefully, you will feel the urge  Where is the office located? How long has he or she a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled
to springboard into action. He or she is not going to come been in that location? Is it a respectable, upbeat office and by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
knocking on your door. If you are lonely--or feeling a little environment or a temporary suite? After all, location is Magazine, South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart
blue--do something about it. You do have control over everything. The more visible a matchmaker is, the more News, and other publications. All Revolution Dating
your romantic odds. If you have been online dating for a clients she is destined to attract. If it is an out of state members are prescreened first, including background
period of time, and it’s not working, it is time for a change. headquarters, it is NOT a good option for you. You will be checks. Professional member photos are taken by the
Don’t let another season go by alone. The world is really in disappointed and they will not have enough members for staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind
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