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❤28 Tips from My 28 Years as standards are fine, as long as you know that the other go after what you want in life and love. It won’t come to
person has to like YOU back!
you. Go get it! #NoGutsNoGlory
THE Florida Matchmaker❤ 12. Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t 27. Love is the answer. Don’t be so tough on others
abuse this and use them for a free meal! Always be or yourself. Together, we can conquer all. #Believe
By Kelly Leary, M.S., courteous and say thank you! 28. Be passionate about your beliefs, yet non-
Founder of Revolution 13. Online dating is a risky roll of the dice. You could judgemental towards others. In this last year, for the first
Dating lose your time, money, and soul (T.M.E.) in the same way time in history, clients have been consistently requesting to
1. Practice kindness. The people lose themselves in Vegas! date others with the same political beliefs. We will always
biggest turnoff is a person 14. Always maintain an attitude of gratitude. This do our best to meet your goals but remember—finding the
who walks into a date, room, applies to your love life and far beyond. right person is not like ordering a pizza. In most cases,
or party--with a bad attitude. 15. The 80/20 Rule. If your relationship/date is 80% when your new person has about 80% of what you seek—
It is imperative that we all good and 20% questionable, it’s time to do some serious go for it! The hardest people to match are the people who
practice kindness in life, love, soul searching. Is this the right fit for you? If you are have a list one mile long. Be flexible. Love will find you
work and play--single or not. dating a new person, I advise three dates before you can faster.
2. First impressions be sure you are not violating #11 above. In my matchmaking anniversary month (April), we
matter. I’ve learned that 16. The 50:50 Rule. This is about talking, not paying always celebrate at our annual Love-Fest Mixer. Our
your impression of a person is usually formed in the first the tab! While dating, keep an eye on your conversation & grand event will be held at a private venue and if you
60 seconds! So make sure that your “hello” is a good one... your listening skills. Take turns. Share the conversation. act now, you may be able to join us too. Come together
an honest, sincere hello! Don’t take it over. to celebrate love with us!
3. Love begets love. We have a rule in our office: “Only 17. When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break On a personal note, I would like to thank you for
Love is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind and up through an email or text. Be nice! following “THE Florida Matchmaker” for 28 years! I
I guarantee you will probably get a second one! 18. Grieving is tough, and everyone has their own hope to be helping all of you for another 28 years! It
4. Know thyself. The biggest challenge I often witness timeline. Juniors & seniors are dating after the loss of a would be my honor.
as a matchmaker is when I have a client who has unrealistic spouse and finding love again in this day and age. Since Much Love & Gratitude, Kelly
expectations, i.e. a “7” who wants to go for a “10”. To January 2017, we have had multiple engagements of
clarify--this is not just about looks--it’s about the overall people who happen to be widows and widowers. It can #LoveFest2019 #AnniversaryMonth #LoveMore
package each of us has to offer--inside and out! happen to you too. #TellYourFriends #RevolutionDating
5. You can buy love (sort of). Dinners, gifts, cards, 19. Love over 65 is easier than you think! I am not
flowers, vacations, rings, new outfits, hair salons, even intimidated by aging anymore, as I watch my clients Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and
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weddings…there is no avoiding the “cost” of dating. If have fun well into their 80’s. Just last month, we had a a Master’s degree in psychology. She’s been profiled
you don’t invest in you and your social life, you won’t wedding of a lovely couple in their 70’s. by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
progress. 20. Don’t delay real romance in your 30’s. Don’t wait Magazine, Stuart News & other media outlets. All
6. T.M.E. Rule: Dating is an investment of Time, until you’re 37 or 38 to get serious about your search for Revolution Dating clients are prescreened in person in
Money, and Emotion. Any date is an investment of all a life-long partner. Your thirties will turn into your 40’s their private offices. Professional photos are taken by
three. With our pre-screening of members, relationships sooner than you think. the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind
move along quicker and tend to be a better investment of 21. Cowards never start, winners never quit, and dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
T.M.E. at Revolution Dating. quitters never win. Don’t ever quit on love. When you that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
7. Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day side with fear, you are running from love. membership, Kelly also holds (optional) private singles
of the week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes 22. Join a love movement of some kind. Stand up events from golfing mixers to cocktail parties. Each
to success on The Singles Scene. Exterior beauty might for something in your life that is GOOD. Be part of the membership is custom made to suit you and your needs.
get you in the door, but can you get a second date? Inner solution to the problems of the world. We do background checks. All inquiries are confidential.
beauty rules. (Read #1 again.) 23. You catch more flies with honey than you do with Call to speak to a live matchmaker at 561-630-XOXO
8. Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will… vinegar. This is a law of life that is true in and out of my (9696) in the South Florida Area, (772) 932-HERE
including your date! club. (4373) on the Treasure Coast or (954) 420-XOXO (9696)
9. If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul 24. Connect with others. People who have good in the Lauderdale Area. You may also visit us at www.
search. Matchmaking is a collaboration. Connect, bond, relationships and friendships are the happiest people revolutiondating.com.
show your good side, listen to feedback, give feedback, alive. Togetherness is happiness. Our circle is large and
cooperate and be open to advice from the pros--we have our people are awesome. My cup runneth over with love Around Town April 2019
earned the respect of thousands. and so do my clients! Everyone has their turn!
10. Exercise! If you don’t MOVE, you won’t groove 25. Dating is a journey, not a destination. This This month, we are sharing
in any way in The Singles Scene. So don’t be lazy--shake rings true even after we find you the right one. There some of our favorite annual
it up shake--even if it’s a 15-minute walk a day. will be highs and there will be lows. Learn from these Love-Fest Mixer photos
11. Don’t be quick to reject a man or woman. I have experiences. Grow with your partner. We are all on a with you. The following
a female client who won’t date a man under 6’4”. He has journey...together. photographs are bound to
to be a blue-eyed tri-athlete with a high net worth! High 26. Life is not a dress rehearsal. Get out there and bring you a good feeling
about your April plans to join
our upscale club for selective
New Year, New Location! singles. Every April, we
celebrate the anniversary of
Bigger office with the same personal touch! our years in the matchmaking
world. This year marks
Kelly’s 28th year in the dating
industry. To honor this annual
celebration, we choose to Celebratory Ice Sculpture for
“give back” to a local charity our Love-Fest Mixer 2016,
in the name of love. As you which marked Kelly’s milestone
know, Revolution Dating 25th year in the dating industry.
has been part of the charity
community since day one. The names on the guest list are quite
impressive and this event in past years has raised thousands for
non-profits such as The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and
the #ParklandStrong/Stoneman Douglas Movement. When you
join forces with important people--miracles happen. Hence,
the revolution of love! It’s obvious--Revolution Dating is not
only big-hearted but well connected. This club knows all the
right people in all the right places and you can too! Please
New Address: RiveRPlace enjoy these photos below taken at Annual Love-Fest Mixers.

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