Page 3 - The Shores of Jupiter - August '19

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The Singles Scene Column ©

How to Hire a Matchmaker disillusioned. Due to the nationwide risks of online dating,  Are there guarantees? Here is the tricky part. Is there a
thankfully for you, the word “MATCHMAKER” is now guarantee that marriage will last forever? I wish there was,
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE a household term, much like a doctor or lawyer. Hiring a but in life and love, the responsibility lies within us. We need
Florida Matchmaker matchmaker is trending and the more the merrier. People to co-create our future and set ourselves up for success, just
The sun is about to set on follow the crowd and luckily for us, all signs point to our like we do on the job. However, doing nothing will make
the summer of love 2019, and door, right above Rocco’s Tacos in a bustling business you older and less likely to venture out. Grab the bull by the
it did “happen so fast.” Our community. Since we know that you are interested in hiring horns, take a deep breath and thank me later.
children will be going back to a matchmaker, I have composed the following guidelines Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
school and that leaves more for you to use when you speak to a matchmaker. A face-to- Much Love and XoXo, Kelly
time for us parents! As I like to face meeting is key and you can ask her these questions in #DontLetTheSunGoDownOnY ou
say—“back to school, back to person. Thank you for sharing your time with me today and #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
you!” August is the sunset of do share this column with your single friends and family as #SunsetLove
summer. It marks the ending of always! #ShareTheLove
the season. It is an eye-opener Questions to ask your future matchmaker: Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and
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too, don’t you think? I love  Will I be able to see photos of my dates before we meet a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled
sunsets personally, in fact, our 70-year-old family business and who takes the photos? (Naturally, it is best if the photos by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
in Vermont carries the name “sunset” so the word resonates were taken by your matchmaking team to verify validity). Magazine, South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart
love for me. As I get a little older myself (which does happen If there are no photos offered, I would run. News, and other publications. All Revolution Dating
to the best of us), I have learned to appreciate the passage  What is your matchmaker’s education level? members are prescreened first, including background
of time. At a certain age, time becomes more precious and  How many years has he or she been a recognized checks. Professional member photos are taken by the
it certainly moves quickly! That being said—in the blink of matchmaker? staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind
an eye—it will be Halloween, then Thanksgiving, and then  Where is the office located? How long has he or she dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
the BIG Holy Holidays. Another year will have come and been in that location? Is it a respectable, upbeat office and that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
gone. The bells of 2020 will be ringing, and all of us will environment or a temporary suite? After all, location is membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For
be wondering about our future and how we want to live and everything. The more visible a matchmaker is, the more more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in
love more. clients she is destined to attract. If it is an out of state the South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
Singles who have been sitting on the bench are likely to headquarters, it is NOT a good option for you. You will be Treasure Coast or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com.
be thinking about their romantic future. The summer love disappointed and they will not have enough members for All inquiries are confidential.
possibilities are fading and hopefully, you will feel the urge you in the local area. This is just common sense.
to springboard into action. He or she is not going to come  Does he or she offer private events? Are they connected We See You!
knocking on your door. If you are lonely--or feeling a little in the charity community? If he or she does not have parties #LocalLoveSightings.
blue--do something about it. You do have control over as an add-on option—it is likely because they don’t have
your romantic odds. If you have been online dating for a enough members and can’t put them all under one roof. August 2019.
period of time, and it’s not working, it is time for a change.  Do they meet with all of their clients in person, or do
Don’t let another season go by alone. The world is really in they sign-up clients over the phone? If it is only a phone Summer love is all
your hands more than you know. You have control. You’ve interview, I would opt-out. This is not a good sign. If it’s a around town thanks to the
got this! I know you don’t want to spend the holiday season skype interview, I would also opt-out. Revolution Dating Club!
solo, so get moving and leave your comfort zone! It’s that  Do they check identification in person and run The attached photos tell a
simple. background checks? true story about summer
If you are reading this column, you are definitely thinking  How often will you get a possible introduction? If it is love powered by this epic
about change, either for yourself or a friend. In an age super limited, like one every month or a total of 5 dates in X club. Follow the signs, and
of “online dating-itis” and “textual relationships,” single amount of time, those are low odds and I would recommend stop wasting your time and
people have become more and more guarded, skeptical and finding a matchmaker with ample resources. money dating “stranger
things” on a website or
chasing kisses on your cell
phone. Meet new people
the old fashioned way, #RDcouples do Boating!
through introductions by a
friend (aka: THE Florida
Matchmakers). Society is
tired of online dating, and
it is likely you are too. In a
world of social media, many
people are living in fantasy
land and it is just not fun,
right? It is not real. Follow
your heart and step up your
odds by meeting screened
people face to face--just #RDcouples do Mountains!
like these people did below!
Isn’t it time you get excited about your future again? The
hotlines are open seven days a week and a LIVE team
member will be happy to assist you confidentially. For
more information on how you can find REAL love with
REAL people, call 561-630-XOXO (9696). #CallStartDate
#SummerLove #SexySummerSoiree #RevolutionDating
#TellYourFriends
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