Page 5 - Jupiter Spotlight - September '19

Jupiter Spotlight, Page 5
The Singles Scene Column ©

FOUR MONTHS TO (half of the adult population) are afraid to risk rejection and and did not disengage just because someone “better”
2020~~Time to Change Your ask someone out in person. What they don’t realize is that was messaging them or because their mate checklist
wasn’t complete. This wasn’t possible back in their day.
they are actually destroying their self-esteem by comparing
Status! themselves to ostensibly “perfect” people online. The Sociologists claim that in the past, people encountered only
focus is on looks, selfies, and swiping left. There is intense two to three potential mates in a lifetime. Can you imagine
By Kelly Leary, M.S., competition to be intimate too soon (for women) and there how the thousands of options at once is eroding the very
Founder of Revolution are too many options (for men) which trigger short term foundation of love and connection? Too much. Too soon.
Dating commitment and even divorce. It’s like the online wild Too easy. Too fast. Too sad. Realize it once and for all and
In four months, we will west--total chaos and VERY dangerous emotionally and know there is a way to fix this dilemma.
all experience a once in physically. Ask anyone recently divorced at any age--I Shut down your screen after work hours and return to love
a lifetime evening and I bet there was an extra-marital online affair involved. The off-line. I’ve been writing this column for 10 years now and
am glad we will enjoy it odds reveal the phone was involved too. It may have been matchmaking for over 28 years. Some of you are reading
together. The world has a full-blown affair in-person or it may have been a micro- this for the first time and some of you have read my column
been getting increasingly affair (not in-person via video or texting). All signs scream: for YEARS and thank you! Either way, waste no more time
disconnected for many counterproductive! and energy (and money). Let’s get it right together. Happy
people (especially single Statistic: 40 million Americans have tried online last quarter of 2019! Happy September! I can’t wait to meet
people stuck in a rut) while dating and the majority report negative experiences you in my office (finally).
hope and love are long ESPECIALLY in Florida. XOXO
overdue. The signs have been everywhere--nationally and My team and I are wired to help but we can’t do it alone. Love, Kelly
internationally. Even on a local level, I was noticing how You need to join us and live a real-life off-line as well. Data THE Florida Matchmaker
caught up and confused people have been behaving and it shows that the positive effects of the “next chance” in 2020 #FallInLove #PlayItForward #RevolutionDating
really bothered me. Many have been literally trapped in their will be felt most strongly in the next four months; however #OneTwoThree #CallStartLove #TellYourFriends
own world, often behind screens, isolated, and it has been it will continue to work its magic into our future if we cut
sad to observe as a woman, mother, and matchmaker who back on our “social” screen life now. Why wait? Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and a
is connected to love and positivity. How could a New Year This all points back to the saying “timing is everything!” Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
marked 2020 not bring glorious energy and excitement to Strike while the iron is hot. Our phones have been ringing News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
all of us? Let’s think about this now--in advance. You have off the hook this year and your connection awaits. Don’t be Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-
time now. A lot can happen in FOUR months. the last in line to make a positive change. Connecting with screened including background checks. Professional
There are multiple reasons for this disconnection within others spiritually, emotionally, and in-person is, in fact, the photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not
ourselves and as a group in general. I believe, along with beauty of life at any age. I’m happy to be in the center of so online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing
many Evolutionary Psychologists, that too much time on much love. This is what the world needs--more love--true matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single”
screens is leading to an increased feeling of desperation and love--authentic love. through their exclusive club membership, Kelly also holds
often hopelessness. People are hiding behind their computers If you are on the fence about making a change, and I think private singles events. For information on how you can
and smartphones. Look around you. This phenomenon is you are, then isn’t the last quarter of 2019 a perfect time to reset your love life please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or
everywhere from the ball field to a popular restaurant. Do start? How do you want to spend the holidays? Who do you 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit us at www.revolutiondating.
people know how to communicate in person anymore? These want by your side? If you have been unsuccessful online com. All inquiries are confidential.
days, if you make a phone call, instead of texting, you may dating and spending more than 10 hours per week online
be deemed a nuisance or worse--strange! dating meeting flat tires (which is the national average), then Around Town September
People hiding behind social media and dating apps take a step away and ask yourself: “How’s it working?”
“think” they have very little risk of getting hurt and more Our parents and their parents did NOT have this many 2019
options, but over the course of time they are actually hurting options. This is why people stayed together longer. They
their self-worth. This is convoluted logic. Single people endured. They tried. They found the best in their partner The following photos
reveal a sneak-peek into
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Love Season” hosted
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