Page 7 - Talk of Tequesta - September '19

The Talk Of Tequesta, Page 7

daTiNG

The Singles Scene Column ©

FOUR MONTHS TO 2020~~Time to Change Your Status!

By Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

In four months, we will all texting). All signs scream: counterproductive! #FallInLove #PlayItForward #RevolutionDating
experience a once in a lifetime Statistic: 40 million Americans have tried online dating #OneTwoThree #CallStartLove #TellYourFriends
evening and I am glad we will and the majority report negative experiences ESPECIALLY
enjoy it together. The world in Florida. Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and
has been getting increasingly My team and I are wired to help but we can’t do it alone. You a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
disconnected for many people need to join us and live a real-life off-line as well. Data shows by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
(especially single people stuck that the positive effects of the “next chance” in 2020 will be felt Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating
in a rut) while hope and love are most strongly in the next four months; however it will continue members are pre-screened including background checks.
long overdue. The signs have to work its magic into our future if we cut back on our “social” Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution
been everywhere--nationally and screen life now. Why wait? Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition
internationally. Even on a local This all points back to the saying “timing is everything!” Strike to providing matchmaking services that make singles
level, I was noticing how caught while the iron is hot. Our phones have been ringing off the hook “UN-single” through their exclusive club membership,
up and confused people have been behaving and it really bothered this year and your connection awaits. Don’t be the last in line Kelly also holds private singles events. For information
me. Many have been literally trapped in their own world, often to make a positive change. Connecting with others spiritually, on how you can reset your love life please call 561-
behind screens, isolated, and it has been sad to observe as a emotionally, and in-person is, in fact, the beauty of life at any 630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit
woman, mother, and matchmaker who is connected to love and age. I’m happy to be in the center of so much love. This is what us at www.revolutiondating.com. All inquiries are
positivity. How could a New Year marked 2020 not bring glorious the world needs--more love--true love--authentic love. confidential.
energy and excitement to all of us? Let’s think about this now--in If you are on the fence about making a change, and I think
advance. You have time now. A lot can happen in FOUR months. you are, then isn’t the last quarter of 2019 a perfect time to start? Around Town September 2019
There are multiple reasons for this disconnection within How do you want to spend the holidays? Who do you want by
ourselves and as a group in general. I believe, along with many your side? If you have been unsuccessful online dating and T he foll owing
Evolutionary Psychologists, that too much time on screens spending more than 10 hours per week online dating meeting p h o t o s r e v e a l a
is leading to an increased feeling of desperation and often flat tires (which is the national average), then take a step away sneak-peek into the
hopelessness. People are hiding behind their computers and and ask yourself: “How’s it working?” notorious “Fall In
smartphones. Look around you. This phenomenon is everywhere Our parents and their parents did NOT have this many Love Season” hosted
from the ball field to a popular restaurant. Do people know how options. This is why people stayed together longer. They by Revolution Dating.
to communicate in person anymore? These days, if you make endured. They tried. They found the best in their partner and As you can see, the
a phone call, instead of texting, you may be deemed a nuisance did not disengage just because someone “better” was messaging RD Cupids have been
or worse--strange! them or because their mate checklist wasn’t complete. This working overtime
People hiding behind social media and dating apps “think” wasn’t possible back in their day. Sociologists claim that in the preparing for some
they have very little risk of getting hurt and more options, but over past, people encountered only two to three potential mates in fantastic one-on-one
the course of time they are actually hurting their self-worth. This a lifetime. Can you imagine how the thousands of options at matches and mixers.
is convoluted logic. Single people (half of the adult population) once is eroding the very foundation of love and connection? Too You can’t go wrong
are afraid to risk rejection and ask someone out in person. What much. Too soon. Too easy. Too fast. Too sad. Realize it once and when you follow THE
they don’t realize is that they are actually destroying their self- for all and know there is a way to fix this dilemma. Florida Matchmakers.
esteem by comparing themselves to ostensibly “perfect” people Shut down your screen after work hours and return to love Join the crowd and This epic kiss says it all! This
online. The focus is on looks, selfies, and swiping left. There is off-line. I’ve been writing this column for 10 years now and kickstart your own couple is still together--and
intense competition to be intimate too soon (for women) and matchmaking for over 28 years. Some of you are reading this for season of love too. now--she has a ring on it!
there are too many options (for men) which trigger short term the first time and some of you have read my column for YEARS Leave your comfort #HalloweenGalaComingSoon
commitment and even divorce. It’s like the online wild west-- and thank you! Either way, waste no more time and energy (and zone--just like these
total chaos and VERY dangerous emotionally and physically. money). Let’s get it right together. Happy last quarter of 2019! people of all ages
Ask anyone recently divorced at any age--I bet there was an Happy September! I can’t wait to meet you in my office (finally). below! The hotlines
extra-marital online affair involved. The odds reveal the phone XOXO are open seven days
was involved too. It may have been a full-blown affair in-person Love, Kelly a week and a LIVE
or it may have been a micro-affair (not in-person via video or THE Florida Matchmaker matchmaker will
be happy to assist
you. All calls are
confidential. We offer
options from parties
to one-on-one setups
and dating advice/
feedback! For more
information on how
you can find REAL
love with REAL Congratulations to Marney &
people, call 561-630- Justin on your engagement!
9696 (XOXO). #ItsAMatch

Southern Exposure Technologies
Computer Install/Setup/Repair
(561) 315-0144
getsetgo.annie@gmail.com
* DSL, Broadband,Wireless Install
* Networking, Troubleshooting
* Instruction
* Hardware/Software Installation
* Virus/Spyware/Adware Fix
* Cleanup/Maintenance/Backup
* Business Consult/Startup/Move
* Website Design/Maintenance
Call S.E.T. to install your “new computer, printer
and wireless network”!
GET S.E.T. GO!
REASONABLE HOURLY, WEEKLY, MONTHLY RATES
FOR SMALL BUSINESSES FOR AS LOW AS $50.00 AN HOUR,
WITH A MINIMUM OF 6 HOURS A MONTH,
OR 2 HOURS A WEEK, OR ON AN AS-NEEDED
BASIS RATE OF $75.00 P/HOUR.
START YOUR NEW YEAR WITH SECURE BACKUPS,
QUALITY MAINTENANCE, ATTENTION TO DETAIL AND
PERSONABLE ON-SITE SUPPORT!
(561) 315-0144
CALL S.E.T. TODAY FOR YOUR COMPUTER NEEDS!