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      Wine Lockers                                       also offer a discount on wine                       If you want to save money, get great advice on wine
                                                         purchased for the locker and                      selection, and feel special and pampered when you go out,
      Just For VIPs? Not So Fast!                        don’t charge a corkage fee. If                    wine lockers may be for you.
      By Laura Berrio,                                   you plan business outings or                        You are a VIP!
      Freelance Writer/Blogger                           big family events regularly                         ~Cheers
        If you are passionate                            this can offer a large savings.                     ~Keep the conversation going and the wine flowing!
      about wine and like the idea                       Some restaurants offer locker
      of having a supply of your                         owners special invite-only
      favorite wine on hand when                         events during the year, such
      dining out, wine lockers may                       as reserve wine tastings.                                      eState
      be for you.                                          Another benefit to locker
        There are some additional                        owners is the ability to
      be ne fi ts, othe r tha n                          customize a brass nameplate                               plannIng
      convenience, in having a                           on the front of the locker. This can serve as great advertising
      locker. Restaurants offer                          for your business. Some restaurants charge a flat leasing fee
      locker owners assistance with wine selection from in-house   for the year, while others just require a minimum spend on
      sommeliers, bartenders, and managers. Most restaurants   wine housed in the locker.                   Grief: A Broken Heart May
                                                                                                            Lead To Real Health Issues
                    library FouNDatioN                                                                      By Carrie Lavarnga

                                                                                                              Grief, especially due to
                                                                                                            the sudden loss of a loved
      Engaging Readers And                               Walder present on a “Spy and Espionage” panel before April   one, can cause physical
      Writers For 26 Years                               Henry, Paul Doiron, Peter Swanson, and Shari Lapena intrigue   pain and for some real heart
                                                         us with a “Mystery and Thriller” discussion. April Henry will
                                                                                                            attacks or strokes according
                                                         also visit the students at Jensen Beach High School on the   to recent medical studies.
        BookMania! remains a                             preceding Friday. In addition to the Barnes & Noble cafe for   This knowledge makes it
      favorite destination for a                         snacks and coffee, hamburgers and hotdogs from the Martin   essential to obtain medical
      wide and diverse audience of                       County Sheriff’s Office Barbecue Grill Team are available   attention when grief
      savvy South Florida readers                        for cash-only at the event. The afternoon panels include “A   causes that overwhelming
      and writers. During the one-                       Dog’s Perspective” with Clive Wynne and Spencer Quinn,   physical pain in the chest.
      day festival on Saturday,                          followed by a “Larger Than Life” biography discussion with     The “broken heart
      March 28 at Jensen Beach                           the authors of Becoming Dr. Seuss and The Life and Afterlife of   syndrome” is a real, life-threatening condition according to
      High School, prominent and                         Harry Houdini. The festival ends with the popular “Historical   the National Heart Association.
      emerging writers participate                       Fiction” panel with Allison Pataki, Martha Hall Kelly, and     The age-old expressions, heartbroken and heartache,
      in themed panel discussions                        Mary Doria Russell.                                have been in use for over a thousand years to describe
      before Barnes & Noble                                BookMania! is sponsored by The Library Foundation of   the overpowering emotional stress of grief. Aristotle and
      book signings. Presented by                        Martin County to inspire our community through the humanities   Shakespeare were not wrong. If you have experienced the
      the Martin County Library                          and literacy. It proves to be so inspirational that previous authors   chest pain of grief, you know that it is real and feels like
      System, the event has been  J. Salas               encourage their publishers and peers to experience BookMania!   physical pounding or weight on your chest.
      delightful for both authors and                    “I am still glowing in the aftermath of your wonderful event,”     Medical and scientific communities are only beginning
      attendees. Hank Phillippi Ryan says, “This was one of the best   writes author Anne Hillerman. Paul Kix continues, “I loved   to recognize that grief can cause heart attacks or strokes,
      events I’ve ever been to in my entire life. Thank you thank you   BookMania!, and truly appreciated the hospitality ... You guys   especially immediately following the death of a loved one.
      thank you, it was perfection in every way.” New and seasoned   have a great thing going.” Susan Wiggs, author of Between   Last February, the Harvard Health Letter stated: Grieving
      attendees love the event too saying, “Twenty-five years and   You & Me wraps up nicely, “I had the best time! Wow, what a   affects the whole body and all organ systems, and especially
      better each year! This is a blessing to our community!”, “I have   fantastic event and group of people. The venue was great, too,   the immune system, and with immunities compromised,
      never been before and now I am hooked!,” and “Fabulous tribute   and many thanks to the bookseller. Thank you so much for   people get sick more often as well.
      to reading and the authors we admire.”             including me. It was an honor, and the weather was a treat!”    The link between grief and heart attacks was strongest for
        This year, authors Don Bentley, Sonia Purnell, and Tracy                                            those with preexisting risk factors for heart disease, such as
                                                                                                            high blood pressure or unhealthy cholesterol levels.
                                                                                                              Doctors also recognize a temporary “broken heart
                                                                                                            syndrome” which is a heart condition brought on by the stress
                                                                                                            of loss. According to the Mayo Clinic, people with broken
                                                                                                            heart syndrome may have sudden chest pain or think they’re
                                                                                                            having a heart attack because a part of the heart temporarily
                                                                                                            enlarges and doesn’t pump well. These symptoms are treatable
                           You Deserve The                                                                  and this condition usually reverses itself in about a week.
                                                                                                              Persons feeling like they are having a heart attack following
                                                                                                            the death of a loved one should seek medical advice because it
                   Best Flowers In Town!                                                                    could be a temporary condition or one leading to real, serious
                                                                                                            heart attack or stroke.
                                                                                                              Each person relates to grief in his or her own fashion,
           Geraniums                                                                                        others get overly busy to distract themselves from the pain.
                                                                                                            some isolate themselves or find it hard to do anything, while
                                                                                                            We need to provide support for ourselves or our loved ones
                                                                                                            when suffering with and through grief.
                                                                                                              Do seek obtain medical attention if you are feeling ill after

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                                                                                                              Do talk about your grief – talk to your friends and to your
                                                                                                            faith leaders. Consider joining a grief support group.
                                                                                                              Do seek counseling. Grief counselors help people
                                                                         CLASSES                            understand that there are many ways to express and come to
                                                                                                            terms with grief and recognize common reactions, such as
                                                                                                            physical and emotional pain and cognitive loss.
                                                                            Complete List Of                  Treasure Coast Hospice offers counseling services for
                                                                                                            anyone in our community who has experienced the loss of a
                                                                             All Classes At                 loved one. They offer adult and youth counseling and have
                                                                       www.pindersnursery.com               support programs. Their phone number is (772) 403-4500.
                                                                          Must Register Online                Carrie Lavargna is an attorney practicing law in Stuart,
                                                                                                            Fla. Her practice focuses on estate planning, probate and
                                                               Mon-Sat 9am - 5pm • Sun 10am - 4pm           real estate law. She is certified by the Florida Supreme Court
                                                                                                            in real estate law, accredited as an Estate Planner by the
                                                                Since 1975, Locally Owned & Operated        National Association of Estate Planners and Councils, and an
                                                                  5500 SW Martin Hwy., Palm City            appointed member of Florida’s Department of Elder Affairs
                                                               772-781-8085                                 Advisory Council. This is an overview of the subject matter
                                                                                                            and not intended as legal advice.
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