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Dating

The Singles Scene Column ©

Three Tips to Find Love in February!

By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

Happy Valentine’s Day and as the saying goes in the famous Broadway musical/ nutshell, TIMING IS EVERYTHING. If the timing is
in advance to our readers, movie Fiddler on the Roof: “Matchmaker, matchmaker, not right, it will never work. Have you heard the saying:
clients, and couples. make me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch” “Right man, wrong time?” For example, a person that
Valentine’s Day is a day to appears to be another big quote in 2020. has just gone through a break-up and/or is in the throes
look forward to for many Hence, like Santa and his elves in December, my Cupids of financial stress is not ready for love. Do you have any
people but for some, it is an and I won’t be getting much rest this February, but we are idea how many people are online dating or in bars looking
opportunity to reflect, reset, happy to say, it’s for a good cause! Count on us to renew your for financial gains or to just simply “get over” an ex as
and resume your romantic lease on love and introduce you to your person in honor of their endgame? More and more men and women come
goals. Some may break up Valentine’s Day. All the stars are lining up and guiding you to me to protect themselves financially and emotionally.
and some may decide to get to the next level. So do level up and rub elbows with the Revolution Dating decreases the odds of such dating
out there again and leave best in the business. We are here for you--but we can’t do it disasters TREMENDOUSLY!
their comfort zone. YET, alone. No time like the present to give yourself a present. Once upon a time, people looking for love only had
it’s a scary dating world today with many pit falls centered Representing LOVE is an honor that my team and I do to worry about dating a “player.” Today, we have many
around online dating. Recent studies have coined terms not take lightly. Even if you feel you are “tough to match,” more hidden agendas to worry about and this affects men
from flea bagging, to ghosting to zombie-ing to describe we can help. No challenge is too big or too small when you just as much as women. Meeting quality single people
the many warnings online. So, let’s take advantage of this collaborate with the pros. Last year, we celebrated more who have “skin in the game” (like other RD clients)
New Year and spark a NEW romance offline. marriages and engagements than I can count and this year increase the odds of finding someone who is financially
Start fresh like many others have been doing with huge the predictions look even higher. People are weary of being and emotionally ready for the next chapter! Sincerity is
success! In fact, I am happy to announce that for this disconnected in an over techy world. Social skills are on key. At Revolution Dating, the men and the women have
year relationship and dating goals equaled weight-loss the decline and heartache is on the rise. People are tired an investment in the process and everyone is vetted.
and health goals as a top New Year’s Resolution for 2020 of online dating, swiping, and lost time, not to mention Enrolling someone who is “relationship ready” is
and doing it the more authentically. People of all ages are the Dirty John phenomenon. our goal for each new member. At the end of your first
shying away from living a life (or lie) online and they are These key points will be sure to tip the scales of love interview, my hope is to like you so much that I would
opting for dating the old-fashioned way -- by meeting via in your favor. Read on and make your move. introduce you to my own friend (which is how we feel
introduction through a friend. The problem here is always ♥ ~No matter what your age, there are incredible about our clients). I am looking for someone that has an
the same: “my friends don’t know anyone,” or “they are individuals who are seeking someone just like YOU. overall happy life, who I can feel good about representing.
too busy with their own lives,” or “my friends are not Whether, he or she is single, divorced, or widowed (like I don’t do well with grouchy types and they don’t do well
experts.” This is why people are embracing the thought of half the adult population), “All of the good ones are not dating in general, so I advise if this is you, you may not
a matchmaker now more than ever before in my 29 years taken!” Look in the mirror! You are available, right? be ready for a club like ours. You may have some work
of practice. The word “matchmaker” is now a household ♥ ~Dating is NOT a numbers game. There are powerful
term -- like doctor or dentist. What is old is new again forces that influence dating success or failure. In a Dating on page 12

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