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Ready. Reset. Get Lucky the doors of life open up to you. Consider the following the balance of your mind and body. Overindulging will
to be elixirs of luck and love. After reading, go live it up block your dreams of a life of love and happiness. If you
By Kelly Leary, M.S., and “be the change” you seek. A stable romance can alter find yourself to be overindulging and doing things you
Founder of Revolution the biology of your life and improve your overall sense should not be doing or dating people you should not be
Dating of well-being. dating, you are only destroying the chances of being the
“Your relationship begins 1. Stop Doubting Yourself. You’re either working best you and opening up your center for love. You are
and ends with you.” hard or have worked hard your whole life. I ask many essentially blocking yourself from love.
~~Yours Truly of my retired clients: “When is it YOUR turn?” Why 5. “Move!” Movement is key and is a cure for
Are you still hoping that did you wait so long to come see us? Go have some fun mild depression and/or anxiety. The next time you find
online dating will get better before you are too old to enjoy it! You are not a relic or yourself plopping down on the couch after dinner, go
for you? Are you dating anywhere close, but let’s face it; if we don’t change it up for a 30 minute walk instead. The rewards of action
the wrong person or telling now, that time will come. It’s inevitable. versus stillness are too profound to measure. Your mind
yourself you are “happy 2. Minimize Time Killers. Cease gossiping and will relax and create more space for loving people and
being single?” What have avoid those who gossip. Decrease your social media thoughts. This is medical science. You will sleep better
you done to improve your time. Who needs #FakeNews when you can live in the too.
social life so far in 2020? Most of us are primarily real world touching, hugging and laughing together? Get 6. Reconnect by Disconnecting. Instead of spending
dedicated to our work and home life which makes up off those time-wasting online dating sites. Stop dating time alone in front of the television (in fantasy land) or
80% of our waking hours, and in some cases (like single that man or woman that you know is just not the “one.” computer (online dating), make a date with someone you
parents or business owners who comprise a large part of Stop focusing your energy in a negative direction. Just would like to get to know better--or make an appointment
our client base) the percentages are higher. It’s easy to get say NO to anything that doesn’t add value to your life. with me. (Do call quickly as my schedule is already
stuck in a routine and forget that YOU deserve to enjoy Say NO to people and things that no longer serve your filling up for the month of March!) The point is: If you
YOUR life too. Falling back into your own Groundhog higher purpose (LOVE and HEALTH). don’t know anyone to connect with, we can help make
Day vortex (recall the Bill Murray movie)--is easier than 3. Fear of Rejection is Fool’s Gold. You will regret an introduction for you. We are named “THE Florida
you think. I bet many of you are already in your own the things you didn’t do way more than the things you Matchmakers” for a reason and introducing people is our
version of “wake up~repeat cycle” but there is hope for did. Think Vince Lombardi, Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey. skill. It is not what you know, it is who you know. It’s
you too. The good news is you already know you need Rejection didn’t imprison them, so why should it freeze simple. It’s math. It’s smart.
to change your ways. Now all you need to know is how you? Quitters never win and winners never quit. The YOU 7. Explore! Make new friends and see new places.
and find the who! of the past that loved life is still inside of you. Let’s find Challenge yourself. Awaken. It’s good for your brain...
This month I offer you a list of rules to live and love that person again. not to mention your love life and your body. Dare to do
by. In the next few weeks, try to balance familiarity with 4. Cool Down Urges to Overindulge. Overdoing in something out of your daily grind. Variety is the “spice
adventure...your duties with some rebellion...and watch food, drink, or any other vice is a surefire way to sabotage of life” and will compliment your life, your year, your
mind, heart and soul. You deserve it too. Refill that love
tank. You have waited long enough and missed out on
suit what is most important to you. We are celebrating our fourth enough. Keep calm and get lucky in love--it’s March!
decade of providing the highest level of care to our clients. You’re alive and the world is full of wonder this Spring.
Our advisors at AAS take the time to get to know you and your Stop the madness, chin up, chest out and go for the
family and take pride in the practice of ‘relationship investing’. connections you deserve!
Realizing that your needs and experiences will shift over the years Research shows that connecting to others is good for
from Accumulating your Wealth to De-cumulating your Wealth, your health, looks and stress level. It will slow the aging
our intention is to invest in you as a partner in your process.
The Retirement Planning Specialists Crafting Financial “Our approach gives us a unique perspective that allows us process. There is no time like the present to seize the day.
Solutions with Insight and Integrity since 1980 to create the right plan for you and your investments.” Happy St. Patricks Day to all of our readers, fans and
The experienced team at Asset Advisory Services brings couples! Thank you for spending your time with me
The Setting Every Community Up for Retirement strength of a unified team approach. Our ‘big-picture’ mindset once again! Much Love, Xoxo, Kelly
Enhancement (SECURE) Act was a bipartisan retirement to financial wholeness keeps us focused on actively retaining
bill that was included in a larger legislative package. It was ‘financial staying-power’ vs. passively pursuing simple ‘financial #BeLuckyInLove #MagicMarch #RevolutionDating
signed into law on December 20, 2019. management’. This care is what clients have come to count on # Sp ri n gI nt o L ov e # Jo i n T he L o ve Mov e m e nt
from us throughout the years. Our system of review meetings and #TellYourFriends #MarchMadness
What are some of the Act’s major Changes to Retirement meaningful updates helps us keep a pulse on what is happening Kelly Leary has 29 years in the dating industry and
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Planning? in your life, and assist you with mapping out new strategies as
Allows for Multiple employer sponsored retirement plans. you navigate each stage of life. a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
Moves the Required Minimum Distribution (RMD) starting age Is the financial planning process new to you, or are you simply by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
from 70½ to 72. in need of a second opinion? We are happy to help. Magazine, and other nationwide publications. All
Allows anyone with earned income the ability to contribute to an Revolution Dating clients are prescreened in person
IRA after age 70½. Managing your Wealth in Alignment with your Life - in their private offices. Professional photos are taken
In most instances, eliminates ‘Stretch’ IRAs and now mandates Our 5-Step Approach: by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
inherited IRAs with most non-spouse beneficiaries (i.e. kids or Discovery – Assessment – Evaluation – Implementation – Adaption blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking
grandkids) must be withdrawn within 10 years. services that make singles “UN-single” through their
Proactively managing the income tax consequences Our top goal is to exceed expectations with care. One way we exclusive membership, Kelly also holds private singles
of the ten-year Rule. accomplish this is by offering educational workshops to expand events from golfing mixers to cocktail parties. Each
As it relates to the new ten-year rule, the purpose of considering your knowledge and illuminate our wide array of services to you. membership is custom made to suit you and your needs.
ROTH Conversions can be to spread distributions over many At Asset Advisory Services, we lend our expertise in helping
years and lower brackets. you manage the many and complicated factors that contribute Revolution Dating will do a background check. For
to a stable and sustainable Financial Home. more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or
Our clients count on us to review market trends and current 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.
events, monitor and advise them on cash flow and performance, com. *All inquiries are confidential. *Representing
and to keep their portfolios on track to the highest consistent level Ages 21 to 81.
of performance possible. Throughout the year we review current
tax returns, and advise on strategies to secure better deductions,
to minimize your tax liability in conjunction with saving for your
retirement.
When questions about your investments, your tax planning,
your complex estate concerns, your retirement, planning and
maintaining proper levels of your insurance arise, think of Asset
Advisory Services – we are here to keep you on the path to
Financial Freedom.
We look forward to hearing from you at: 561.747.9550
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