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                       Estate Planning Is Like Building A Snowman



                                                             Submitted by Anné Desormier-Cartwright, Esq.
        A c om pl e t e  e st a t e                     look a little odd! The consequences of an incomplete   keeping you alive artificially when your body is dying is
      plan must include certain                         estate plan are much more serious, however. If you leave   huge. A living will does just that.
      essential parts. In fact, it                      out important documents when you create your estate   Step 5: Extend A Hand – The Funeral Instructions For
      is similar to building a                          plan, it is unlikely to accomplish all of your goals, and the   Your Loved Ones
      snowman in some respects.                         benefits you thought you were gaining could melt away.     Also part of the branches are the funeral instructions.
      The traditional snowman                             The last article we discussed the trust, the health care   You can give your family one last hug by making your
      has several critical                              power of attorney and the financial power of attorney. This   wishes for your funeral or memorial service known using
      components: bottom,                               time we are addressing the living will, funeral instructions   a remembrance and services memorandum. Most people
      middle, and top snowballs,                        and ethical will or letter of instruction.         would  rather avoid  thinking about their own funeral,
      as well as “arms” and a                           Step 4: Living Will                                but if you don’t make these plans and arrangements in
      “face.” If any of these are                         Next, the branches are inserted to act as the snowman’s   advance, the burden will fall on your grieving family after
      left  out, the snowman can                        “arms.” The relief one feels when the family knows that   you pass away. You can use a remembrance and services
                                                                                                           memorandum to list people who should be notified after
               LET US HELP YOU                                                                             included in your obituary, give instructions for handling
                                                                                                           you pass away, provide information you would like to be

                                                                                                           your remains, and specify what you would like to be

                                                                                                           indicate that you prefer that no service be held. Don’t
         Ship Your Valuable Packages & Furniture                                                           included in  your funeral or memorial  service  – or to
                                                                                                           just assume your family knows what you want, as there
                                                                                                           is a good chance they do not. If several family members
                                                                                                           have conflicting opinions about what you would have
         •  CLOTHING          •  SCULPTURES                  •  CUSTOM PACKING AND CRATING                 wanted, avoidable disputes could arise, causing additional
         •  DISHES            •  ARTWORK                     •  ESTATES PACKING AND                        heartache, delay and potential expense. Taking the time
                                                                                                           to write down your wishes can be one of the most caring
         •  ANTIQUES          •  COMPUTERS                       SHIPPING                                  things you can do for your loved ones.
         •  FURNISHINGS •  FURNITURE SHIPPING                •  BOXES AND PACKING SUPPLIES                 Step 6: Add Some Personality – The Ethical Will Or
                                                                                                           Letter Of Instruction
                                                                                                             No snowman is complete without the coals and carrot
                               WE PACK AND                                    FREE                         used to create its “face” and add a little personality.
                                                                                                           You can use an  ethical will, sometimes called a letter
                              SHIP WITH TLC                             PICK UP AT YOUR                    of instruction or legacy letter, to infuse your estate plan
                                                                             LOCATION                      with your personality. An ethical will provides a way to
                                                                                                           communicate important knowledge, experiences, and
                                                                                                           values you have acquired over the course of your life to
                                                                                                           your family and loved ones. The contents of the ethical
                                                                                                           will are likely to vary widely from individual to individual
                                                                                                           because each of us is unique and has lived a life unlike
                                                                                                           anyone else, so the wisdom each person finds valuable
                                                                                                           and wants to pass on to his or her loved ones is different.
                                                                                                           The ethical will is not a legally binding document, but
                                                                                                           it may be one of the most precious gifts you can give to
                                                                                                           those you will eventually leave behind—as well as future
                                                                                                           generations of your family who otherwise would not have
                                                                                                           a chance to know you.
                               Dishes, Glasses, Furniture                                                  Don’t Give Us The Cold Shoulder – Call Us Today
                                                                                                             Without a complete estate plan, you are skating on thin
          Copies, Fax Service, Notary, US Mail, Stamps                                                     ice. Make sure your estate plan has more than a snowball’s
                                                                                                           chance in the tropics of accomplishing your wishes. As
                                                                                                           experienced estate planning attorneys, we can help you
                                                                                                           create a comprehensive plan without being snowed under
                                                                                                           by all of the details necessary to address your unique
                                                                                                           circumstances. Don’t wait for a cold day in July—call
                                                                                                           us today to set up a meeting!
                                                                                                             If you have questions about this article or your estate
                                                                                                           plan  and  what  documents  are  necessary  schedule  a
                                                                                                           consultation  today  by calling  our office at  (561)  694-
                                                                       Phone: 561-799-3900                 7827, Anné Desormier-Cartwright, Esq., Elder & Estate
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          West Palm Beach, FL. 33412                                   Fax: 561-799-3905                   Jupiter, FL 33458.
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                                                                                                           by competent legal counsel. Reliance on the information
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