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       From the Rabbis from page 3                                            LocaL happenings
        Change the World by                             Jewish Volunteer Center

        Changing Your Words                             Provides Vital Support,


        By Rabbi Dovid Vigler                           Opportunities for Acts of
           Quarantine is nothing
        new. It’s one of the                            Kindness
        subjects of the Torah. But,
        as opposed to Covid-19,                            To address the
        this one was self-inflicted.                    immediate and critical
           In biblical times, if                        needs of the community,
        someone spoke lashon                            Jewish Federation of
        hara, gossip or slander,                        Palm Beach County’s
        about other people, he                          Jewish Volunteer Center
        was afflicted with a skin                       (JVC)  has  been  at  the
        disease called tzaraas that                     forefront of creating
        would force him to be quarantined for up to three weeks.   opportunities for the
        This is probably the most humiliating consequence of all   community  to  share
        the sins in the Torah, and we wonder why. What’s the big   kindness and support,
        deal? After all, it’s just words!               all while observing
           But in reality, our power of speech is capable of creating   health  and  safety
        a more profound effect than we might ever imagine.   re c om m e nda t i ons.                      platforms — during National Teacher Appreciation Week.
           Did you know that “abra cadabra” originates in   Founded with the                               In a partnership with the Education Foundation of Palm
        Hebrew? It means, “I create through my speech,” playing   mission to demonstrate                   Beach County and Federation’s Anne and Sam Klein
        on the biblical account of Creation through G-d’s words.   the Jewish value of                     Literacy Program, nine educators received boxes filled
        Indeed, having been created in the image of G-d, we too are   tikkun olam (Hebrew                  with much-needed books and supplies to best serve their
        able to create through our speech. In fact, what defines us                                        students and their classrooms. JVC supported the effort,
        as humans, according to Jewish philosophy, is our ability                                          donating books to the schools and providing gift cards to
        to communicate verbally in ways that no other creature                                             each teacher.
        can. It’s no surprise that the very First Amendment of this                                           JVC also rallied the community to give back in various
        great country is our Freedom of Speech.                                                            and inspiring ways, often in partnership with Jewish
           Words are like seeds. You are where you are today                                               and secular organizations. Among the most successful,
        because of what you’ve been saying about yourself. Your                                            community members made videos sending well wishes to
        words become your reality.                                                                         the senior residents at MorseLife who had not had visitors
           The Torah tells us that “a covenant was made with                                               in months. JVC also led other coordinated check-in calls to
        our lips,” that our words will be self-fulfilling prophecies.                                      isolated older adults via the new Community Cares Phone
        Our words have the power to lift moods and change                                                  Tree; led a Pack a Wish challenge where people packed
        attitudes. We can see this clearly whenever we speak about                                         up clothing to donate along with messages of kindness
        something or someone; we tend to become more emotional                                             to the recipients; and JVC empowered local residents to
        about that person or idea, far more than if we would have                                          create and share acts of kindness across social media.
        simply thought about it. If you’re not sure, just ask any   for “repair the world”), the JVC also quickly created      “The response we have received during these trying
        Italian or Jewish mother.                       a comprehensive web presence with ways those of all   times has been extraordinary.  While it’s completely
           Our kabalists explain that most often we don’t see the   ages in the community could volunteer, spread kindness,   understandable to feel powerless during this pandemic,
        consequence of our speech, but on a spiritual level, the   and help the vulnerable in our community — all in in   I am incredibly proud how those of all ages have rallied
        words themselves have a profound impact on the subject   partnership with Jewish and secular organizations; the site   together to help members of our community who need
        discussed.                                      is located at jewishpalmbeach.org/volunteerprojects2020.   it most during such a challenging time,” shared Juliana
           When the saintly Baal Shem Tov once heard a Jew      Most recently, JVC brought the community together   Gendelman, chair of the JVC. “I couldn’t be more proud
        threatening to “flay his fellow like a fish,” he asked his   in partnership with Operation Gratitude over Memorial   of the work of the JVC and Federation who are helping
        holy disciples to close their eyes and form a circle. As they   Day weekend to thank our service men and women.   countless individuals and families in need.”
        closed the circle, they all started to scream as they saw this   Community members knit and crocheted scarves and      To become a volunteer or view a complete list of
        fellow actually flaying his fellow in a spiritual dimension.   hats, made paracord bracelets (also known as “survival   volunteer projects, activities, and community programs,
        Indeed, every word makes an impact, whether we see it in   bracelets”) and handmade cards for our troops, and more.   jewishvolunteer.org.
        this physical world or on a more spiritual plane.     To end the school year, JVC also helped to celebrate
           This idea is also known as “not opening one’s mouth to   nine local teachers for their stellar achievements — in the   Local Happenings on page 5
        Satan.” Jewish Law rules that a person should never speak   classroom and through all the newly introduced digital
        negatively about himself, as this can cause him harm. This
        is why your bubby would always say “pu pu pu” when she
        praised you. She wanted to mitigate the praise so that it
        wouldn’t arouse any unwelcome and unnecessary attention
        to her darling. She might have even adoringly called you a
        “miyuskeit,” which means “an abomination,” because she
        wanted to lead any envious influences away from you.
           With this in mind, we can understand the tremendous
        damage caused to others and more importantly to ourselves
        when we slander others or even gossip about them. The
        Torah’s quarantine is thus the perfect opportunity for the
        speaker of lashon hara to contemplate on the impact of
        their words and to speak more mindfully in future.
           I was surprised to hear that there is one country in
        Europe whose Jewish population actually increased during
        the Holocaust. Though Albania is the only majority Muslim
        country on the continent, it refused to turn over the lists
        of Jewish names to the Nazi occupiers and, in fact, forged
        documents to protect the Jews. The Jewish population
        went from 200 Jews to nearly 2,000 by the time the war
        was over!
           This remarkable feat was due to the fact that the highest
        ethical code in Albania is “besa,” which means, “honoring
        your word.” One who acts according to besa is someone
        who keeps his word, someone to whom one can trust one’s
        life and the lives of one’s family.
           During our quarantine, too, let us be mindful of our
        words and their awesome power to mold our future and
        destiny. Rather than utter some choice curse words when
        frustrated, let’s say something positive.
           Our words will change the world!
           Wishing you a month of besa!
           Rabbi Dovid Vigler is spiritual leader at Chabad of
        Palm Beach Gardens and host of the Jewish Schmooze
        Radio Show. Email him at rabbi@jewishgardens.com.
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