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The Singles Scene

HOW TO Restart Smart doubt, we are all feeling the change in our world. The end to connect is dominant in single adults. This is normal and
of summer marks the closure of a season like no other. now the most popular question I receive is: “How does
By Kelly Leary, M.S., August resurrects what we “didn’t do” over the summer your club work?” Do read on for my answer...
Founder of Revolution ...almost like New Year’s Resolutions. Did you find summer Step 1: Admit you are READY to find love and/or
Dating love? Did you hit the beach enough? Did you make the companionship. Our club helps men and women from their
“When everything positive changes you desired even amidst the COVID twenties well into their happy eighties. Romance is ageless.
changes, change crisis? Realize, despite all the change in our lives, the BIG Don’t limit yourself.
everything!” ~~ Neale holidays are still coming. Luckily, we have time to rise Step 2: Identify WHY you want to fall in love and find
Donald Walsch above the chaos of the year. We have FOUR more months companionship. Some people just want to have someone
Happy August to all of to get it right! We can and should end strong. We should to go out to dinner with, while others want to get married
our loyal readers. I look revisit our goals and create a new reality for the finale of and have children. Others are feeling lonely and tired of
forward to hearing from 2020. Wouldn’t it be nice to end this crazy year on high being the third or fifth wheel. These are all good reasons
all of you each month note? to make a change. Frankly, if you are reading this article,
and I thank you again for This is our plan for all of you. Let me help you to get you may need a change too. People are realizing that life is
spreading our message of inspired again. Where there is hope, there is love and vice passing them by, the bar scene is no longer an option and
love around town. It’s nice to be on the good side of the versa. Do follow these simple steps and get ahead of it all. online dating is more dangerous than ever. Procrastination
news, right? Keep on keeping on! NOTE: People that join in August are more likely to and excuses only kill time. He who hesitates is lost.
My message today is of one of hope. First of all, I find their match by the holidays. Step 3: Call us to get it right--finally! Is something
hope you all had a nice summer despite the pandemic. No Ironically, during this social distancing era, the desire holding you back? Nerves? Fear? COVID? Whatever your
issue is--let it go. No one ever progressed in life being
fearful. Stick to this plan. Wear a mask. Stay on point.
Don’t waiver.
Step 4: Schedule your appointment to meet with us. Go
through the enlightening screening process that I developed
over my 29 years in the love biz and if we like you and
you like us--join the club! We call this “The Enrollment
Phase.”
Step 5: Ready. Set. Enjoy. We create your club bio
collaboratively. Following this process, the matchmaking
will begin! It’s just like meeting through introduction by
a friend (only we know more candidates). Everything can
be done over the phone, in person, or through email/mail.
It’s your preference. How ideal—especially now!
Step 6: Trust your matchmakers. Let us take the lead
and shed light on things that may be holding you back
romantically. We are just working to get closer to the right
match by building a good rapport with you. We are truly
in this together!
Step 7: Collaborate with us! Call/text/email and share
your feedback. Some have success on the first date and
some on the tenth date--but no match will be a debacle
(like online dating) because we know everyone and have
validated them! There is a kinship within the club members.
Step 8: Know thyself and be accountable. If you are
only after “TENs” in the club and you are a “SEVEN” be
prepared for some letdowns. Ask us what you can do to
get that guy or girl. We will tell you honestly and advise
you. Remember we are “cupids” and not “unicorns”...we
have magic and love in us, but we can’t do the job alone.
Sadly, some people are unrealistic and this could lead to
frustration while dating. Don’t kill the messenger! Perhaps,
you are the problem? Be open minded. Listen. Don’t push
what doesn’t belong. There is someone for everyone (of
all ages). There is a pot for every lid.
Step 9: You found love! You listened. You took our
recommendations. So, welcome to final phase! You are
an #RDCouple! It is time to put your membership on
HOLD (I.E. freeze your membership). Why? Because you
followed these steps. It’s science. That’s why you called to
begin with, my friend. You are clearly date worthy and we
love you for it! At Revolution Dating, we do try to avoid
enrolling non-compliant/difficult people as a rule. They
are not that fun, right? Clearly, you are a catch. We knew
it and so did you!
Step 10: Share and tell all of your friends about the love
you have found and how you found it. This will bring more
love into your life. In other words, pass it on. Whether you
are single, divorced or widowed, we can help. Thank you
to our many clients who have been talking about us out
there and spreading the word! The more the merrier. Love
always wins. #TellYourFriends
Congratulations on completing the process. I can’t
wait to hear your love story too! The love in us honors
the love in you today and every day. I wish you and
yours so much health and happiness! #RestartSmart
#WhenInDoubtLoveMore #Crush2020 #KISS
XOXO, Kelly
Kelly Leary© has 29 years in the dating industry and
a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating
members are pre-screened including background checks.
Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution
Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition
to providing matchmaking services that make singles
“UN-single” through their exclusive club membership.
Please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in South Florida or
772-934-HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast or visit
www.revolutiondating.com for more information. All
inquiries are confidential.

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