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The Singles Scene Column ©
Holiday Love Secrets! and only you know what you need to do next and you should
By Kelly Leary , Founder make a move now because you can. Why? No one else is
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of Revolution Dating running the show, Captain!
“A Very Merry Season, 3. You will have no one to kiss on New Year’s Eve
and a Happy New Year. (the most important kiss of the year). This is the biggest
Let’s hope it’s a good one, bummer of all, so hopefully you will call us when you read
without any fear.” this column and we can preempt the issue for you! Call it
As I sit at my desk,
Damage Control.
Attention: writing the December issue 4. You will be sleeping alone every night, even on the
of The Singles Scene for the
most romantic nights of the year. No matching couples
PGA Residents thirteenth year in a row, I am jammies for you this year, but let’s aim for next year, right?
(There’s the attitude so just play it forward and don’t wait
filled with sense of gratitude
and wait on the fence like you sometimes do. COVID is not
and nostalgia. We have
Of Mellowing Years changed the way Florida an excuse. Where there is a will there is a way.)
singles find love, one date at a time, which is what my team THE GRAND SOLUTION: Dodge the single bullet
A single phone number may help you to live and I dreamed of years ago. Dreams really do come true (as offline! (No matter what your age is--30 or 80--this can
confidently and gracefully in your own home. you have seen week to week in my column, in the press, and be done!) As you know, THE Florida Matchmakers can
in our multiple success stories). This is our busiest season and increase your odds of finding authentic and attractive
Now there is a volunteer senior ambassador rightfully so, people fall in love during the holidays more than people to date with one simple phone call...the same way
within PGA community who is well-schooled any other time of year. It is the season of magic and miracles. we have changed tens of thousands of lives over the last
in resources available to help with problems It is the season to love and be loved--more so this year than 29 years! It’s tough being single, newly single, or a widow/
any year before. Twenty-twenty has been a wild ride for all widower this time of year. Just flip the coin over and get
of elders. The Alpert family and Children’s of us. I hope you come out of 2020 with a renewed position proactive. The BEST gift you can give yourself this month
Services has been helping seniors do just that of priorities and beliefs, like I have done. does not come in a box. The gift of love (from YOU to
for many years. Let’s face it though, this time of year can bring on the YOU) will lift your spirits instantly. When your relatives
• You have questions? We may have answers. Holiday Blues, ESPECIALLY now if you don’t set your and friends say “You are still single?”...You can confidently
intentions and stick with them. We may think of loved ones say “Not for long!” and leave it at that. Nothing more needs
• You don’t know where to go? We can guide that are no longer with us and we may also be paralyzed to be said and the action of doing something about it will
you. by fear of going to a party “single” while everyone else is change your whole month. Period.
• You don’t know what you need? We’re well- paired off. We may be afraid to go anywhere at all because Pity many of your married friends that are faking it
versed in that problem. of COVID...even to family gatherings...and where does this through the holiday “as if they were happy.” YOU are in
leave single people? It is a couples world, but not everyone a great situation. YOU are the designer of your love life
• Do you know a neighbor who needs help? is a part of a duo now for whatever reason. Please read on and you will choose who to kiss on when the clock strikes
Don’t wait. Call now. Dorothy Weiss, 624- to learn how to navigate the holiday season and end the year midnight for 2021, with our help, of course. So let’s get
4035. Let’s keep connected with each other as strong with ease and elegance! By following my advice going. Your future match is waiting for you to register in
today, you just might have a “Plus One” by the time the my club and they are likely reading this same column at this
a community. All you need is the desire to live ball drops--in person or via zoom--there will be and can be very moment. Birds of a feather flock together.
comfortably in your own home. a sense of connectedness this quickly in our club. To close, one more time: “So this is Christmas, and what
If you find yourself single, divorced or widowed this have you done? Another year older and a new one just begun.
month, this is your wake-up call. You don’t have to go it And so this is Christmas, I hope you have fun.” I wish you
alone. You don’t have to dwell on your sad moments and happiness. This is our birthright. Go out there and make this
memories. You can make new ones. This is my gift to you! a memorable holiday season! Keep love and hope as your
Season Is Here! Now it is your turn, friend. Give yourself the gift of LOVE guiding light, and you won’t go wrong. Let LOVE guide you.
Still stuck between fear and love? Choose love, silly goose.
this year. For this gift shall last a lifetime.
The UPSIDE of Being Single in December:
Let’s unite, bond, love, and connect. December holds
1. You don’t have to buy your romantic partner a mirror up to you and asks, “What do you want?” I know
Along with season comes the increased something you don’t like as a gift. This long list includes what you want because you are reading this column. The
temptation to utilize the golf courses as a park/ but is not limited to a third drill to add to his tool collection next step is your responsibility (make your appointment to
playground, but we must ask you to refrain from or ANOTHER bracelet for her? She has enough jewelry, meet us) and we will take care of the rest.
right? By the way, gentlemen, most women will not decline Wishing you an extraordinary Holiday Season and a
any non-golf related access. jewelry. It is what it is. Most men in love, enjoy making their Happy New Year 2021! Let the good times roll!
Maintenance is performed on all the courses lady happy. If you don’t enjoy making your woman happy Thank you for sharing your year with me once again. We
during the year, so there is equipment and work in December, maybe you should be doing some thinking. Is are all in this together! XoXo, Kelly
it you? Maybe you are S.O.L. in the love area because you
being done. In addition, it is a time when there are are stingy? I.E. Don’t be a Grinch. Any. Time. Of. Year. #BeatTheHolidayRush #JoinTheLoveMovementToday
more golfers on the course enjoying our beautiful 2. You can pick and choose where you want to go for #HolidayLove #JoinUs #GetConnected #LoveOffline
weather. holiday gatherings. Yeah! No more long drives to the in- #TellYourFriends
Thank you laws! Double-yeah! Kelly Leary© has 29 years in the dating industry and
3. You have more time for you and your family since you a Master’s Degree in Psychology. ABC News, The Palm
no longer have to split your time between families. Do things Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News,
and celebrate the way you want to and the way you always etc. have profiled her. Revolution Dating members are
did prior to your last relationship. Find your inner child again! prescreened including background checks. Professional
How did you celebrate as a young person? Do more of this for photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not
you. You may not have another single status holiday season, online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing
so take advantage of this freedom now. What fun! matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single”
The DOWNSIDE of Being Single in December: through their exclusive club membership, Kelly also holds
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or think. services all adults regardless of preference, by request.
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make your skin crawl: “Why are you still single? You are 932-HERE (4373), or 954-420-XOXO (9696) to speak
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