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                                                           The Singles Scene Column                                           ©



                                                           Holiday Love Secrets!                           and only you know what you need to do next and you should
                                                           By Kelly Leary , Founder                        make a move now because you can. Why? No one else is
                                                                       ©
                                                           of Revolution Dating                            running the show, Captain!
                                                           “A Very Merry Season,                             3. You will have no one to kiss on New Year’s Eve
                                                           and a Happy New Year.                           (the most important kiss of the year). This is the biggest
                                                           Let’s hope it’s a good one,                     bummer of all, so hopefully you will call us when you read
                                                           without any fear.”                              this column and we can preempt the issue for you! Call it
                                                             As I sit at my desk,
                                                                                                           Damage Control.
                Attention:                                 writing the December issue                        4. You will be sleeping alone every night, even on the
                                                           of The Singles Scene for the
                                                                                                           most romantic nights of the year. No matching couples
                  PGA Residents                            thirteenth year in a row, I am                  jammies for you this year, but let’s aim for next year, right?
                                                                                                           (There’s the attitude so just play it forward and don’t wait
                                                           filled with sense of gratitude
                                                                                                           and wait on the fence like you sometimes do. COVID is not
                                                           and nostalgia. We have
               Of Mellowing Years                          changed the way Florida                         an excuse. Where there is a will there is a way.)
                                                           singles find love, one date at a time, which is what my team    THE GRAND SOLUTION: Dodge the single bullet
          A single phone number may help you to live       and I dreamed of years ago. Dreams really do come true (as  offline! (No matter what your age is--30 or 80--this can
        confidently and gracefully in your own home.       you have seen week to week in my column, in the press, and  be done!) As you know, THE Florida Matchmakers can
                                                           in our multiple success stories). This is our busiest season and  increase your odds of finding authentic and attractive
          Now there is a volunteer senior ambassador       rightfully so, people fall in love during the holidays more than  people to date with one simple phone call...the same way
        within PGA community who is well-schooled          any other time of year. It is the season of magic and miracles.  we have changed tens of thousands of lives over the last
        in resources available to help with problems       It is the season to love and be loved--more so this year than  29 years! It’s tough being single, newly single, or a widow/
                                                           any year before. Twenty-twenty has been a wild ride for all  widower this time of year. Just flip the coin over and get
        of elders. The Alpert family and Children’s        of us. I hope you come out of 2020 with a renewed position  proactive. The BEST gift you can give yourself this month
        Services has been helping seniors do just that     of priorities and beliefs, like I have done.    does not come in a box. The gift of love (from YOU to
        for many years.                                      Let’s face it though, this time of year can bring on the  YOU) will lift your spirits instantly. When your relatives
          •  You have questions? We may have answers.      Holiday Blues, ESPECIALLY now if you don’t set your  and friends say “You are still single?”...You can confidently
                                                           intentions and stick with them. We may think of loved ones  say “Not for long!” and leave it at that. Nothing more needs
          •  You don’t know where to go? We can guide      that are no longer with us and we may also be paralyzed  to be said and the action of doing something about it will
             you.                                          by fear of going to a party “single” while everyone else is  change your whole month. Period.
          •  You don’t know what you need? We’re well-     paired off. We may be afraid to go anywhere at all because    Pity many of your married friends that are faking it
             versed in that problem.                       of COVID...even to family gatherings...and where does this  through the holiday “as if they were happy.” YOU are in
                                                           leave single people? It is a couples world, but not everyone  a great situation. YOU are the designer of your love life
          •  Do you know a neighbor who needs help?        is a part of a duo now for whatever reason. Please read on  and you will choose who to kiss on when the clock strikes
          Don’t wait. Call now. Dorothy Weiss, 624-        to learn how to navigate the holiday season and end the year  midnight for 2021, with our help, of course. So let’s get
        4035. Let’s keep connected with each other as      strong with ease and elegance! By following my advice  going. Your future match is waiting for you to register in
                                                           today, you just might have a “Plus One” by the time the  my club and they are likely reading this same column at this
        a community. All you need is the desire to live    ball drops--in person or via zoom--there will be and can be  very moment. Birds of a feather flock together.
        comfortably in your own home.                      a sense of connectedness this quickly in our club.    To close, one more time: “So this is Christmas, and what
                                                             If you find yourself single, divorced or widowed this  have you done? Another year older and a new one just begun.
                                                           month, this is your wake-up call. You don’t have to go it  And so this is Christmas, I hope you have fun.” I wish you
                                                           alone. You don’t have to dwell on your sad moments and  happiness. This is our birthright. Go out there and make this
                                                           memories. You can make new ones. This is my gift to you!  a memorable holiday season! Keep love and hope as your
          Season Is Here!                                  Now it is your turn, friend. Give yourself the gift of LOVE  guiding light, and you won’t go wrong. Let LOVE guide you.
                                                                                                           Still stuck between fear and love? Choose love, silly goose.
                                                           this year. For this gift shall last a lifetime.
                                                           The UPSIDE of Being Single in December:
                                                                                                             Let’s unite, bond, love, and connect. December holds
                                                             1. You don’t have to buy your romantic partner  a mirror up to you and asks, “What do you want?” I know
         Along with season comes the increased             something you don’t like as a gift. This long list includes  what you want because you are reading this column. The
       temptation to utilize the golf courses as a park/   but is not limited to a third drill to add to his tool collection  next step is your responsibility (make your appointment to
       playground, but we must ask you to refrain from     or ANOTHER bracelet for her? She has enough jewelry,  meet us) and we will take care of the rest.
                                                           right? By the way, gentlemen, most women will not decline    Wishing you an extraordinary Holiday Season and a
       any non-golf related access.                        jewelry. It is what it is. Most men in love, enjoy making their  Happy New Year 2021! Let the good times roll!
         Maintenance is performed on all the courses       lady happy. If you don’t enjoy making your woman happy    Thank you for sharing your year with me once again. We
       during the year, so there is equipment and work     in December, maybe you should be doing some thinking. Is  are all in this together!   XoXo, Kelly
                                                           it you? Maybe you are S.O.L. in the love area because you
       being done. In addition, it is a time when there are   are stingy? I.E. Don’t be a Grinch. Any. Time. Of. Year.   #BeatTheHolidayRush #JoinTheLoveMovementToday
       more golfers on the course enjoying our beautiful     2. You can pick and choose where you want to go for  #HolidayLove #JoinUs #GetConnected #LoveOffline
       weather.                                            holiday gatherings. Yeah! No more long drives to the in-  #TellYourFriends
                                          Thank you        laws! Double-yeah!                                Kelly Leary© has 29 years in the dating industry and
                                                             3. You have more time for you and your family since you  a Master’s Degree in Psychology. ABC News, The Palm
                                                           no longer have to split your time between families. Do things  Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News,
                                                           and celebrate the way you want to and the way you always  etc. have profiled her. Revolution Dating members are
                                                           did prior to your last relationship. Find your inner child again!  prescreened including background checks. Professional
                                                           How did you celebrate as a young person? Do more of this for  photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not
                                                           you. You may not have another single status holiday season,  online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing
                                                           so take advantage of this freedom now. What fun!   matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single”
                                                           The DOWNSIDE of Being Single in December:       through their exclusive club membership, Kelly also holds
                                                             1. People will feel sorry for you, no matter what you say  private zoom meetings by request. Revolution Dating
                                                           or think.                                       services all adults regardless of preference, by request.
                                                             2. You will be asked endless irritating questions that  Please call our Hotline at 561-630-XOXO (9696), 772-
                                                           make your skin crawl: “Why are you still single? You are  932-HERE (4373), or 954-420-XOXO (9696) to speak
                                                           so pretty.” or “Why don’t you try online dating?” Suddenly  to a LIVE matchmaker. You may also visit us at www.
                                                           everyone is an expert, right? No one walks in your shoes  revolutiondating.com. *All Inquiries are Confidential.
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