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      Palm Beach County                                                                                     Book Review from page 16



      Property Appraiser Accepting                                                                          Paddy Chayefsky, David Sarnoff and William Paley.
                                                                                                            Although instructed to keep the news confidential until
      Scholarship Applications                                                                              the official announcement is made, Lear decides to call
                                                                                                            his mother in the hope that perhaps, for the first time in his
                                                                                                            life, she will acknowledge him as worthy and deserving.
                                                                                                            (We have learned earlier of his difficult childhood: His
          The office of Palm Beach County Property Appraiser   and multifaceted field of property valuation.”   father, a crook, but whom he worshipped, was sent to jail
       Dorothy Jacks, CFA, AAS, is now accepting applications      To be eligible for a scholarship award, a student must   for three years when Norman was 9 years old; his mother
       for  the  28th Annual  Palm  Beach  County  Property   be a resident of Palm Beach County, have a minimum   left with the daughter, leaving Norman with relatives and
       Appraiser’s Scholarships.                         of 3.0 GPA, and plan to attend an accredited higher-  neighbors until his father was released.)
          Six  college  scholarships  of  $1,500  each  will  be   education institution. The deadline to apply is March 31.     When his mother hears the news of her son’s induction
       awarded  to  graduating  high  school  seniors  who  plan      “This program is particularly special to my office,”   into the TV Academy’s Hall of Fame, she replies, “Listen,
       to attend a higher education institution full-time. Each   said Jacks. “These scholarships are completely funded   if that’s what they want to do, who am I to say?”
       recipient will also be offered an opportunity for a paid   by employee donations.”                      (Having strived for more than half a century to earn
       summer internship in the Property Appraiser’s Office.     Since  1994,  the  Palm  Beach  County  Property   an expression of pride from his mother – in vain – Lear
          “Regardless of interest or major, all college-bound   Appraiser’s  Office  has  awarded  nearly  $150,000  in   finally describes her as a “farbissiner ... another Yiddish
       Palm Beach County students are eligible to apply,” said   college scholarships.                      word, which is most easily translated as ‘sourpuss.’ But a
       Jacks. “Of course, with the paid internship opportunity, we      For more information, call (561) 355-3230 or visit   sourpuss is a farbissiner in the face only. A true farbissiner
       might hope that students would discover the fascinating   pbcgov.org/papa/scholarship-awards.htm.    is a sour soul. Sour souls stain the company they keep.
                                                                                                            They wake up to piss on the day, and not just their day.
                                                                                                            A farbissiner doesn’t earn the title until she is pissing on
                                                                                                            your day, too.”)
                                                                                                                Despite his many successes, all has not been a bed
                                                                                                            of roses in Lear’s life. It’s been a roller coaster that
                                                                                                            includes two divorces – the first from a suicidal wife,
                                                                                                            the second from a woman who felt her own feeling
                                                                                                            of self-worth decline with each of her husband’s new
                                                                                                            successes. However, marriage number three, in 1987, has
                                                                                                            been magic – a deliriously happy one. But he doesn’t
                                                                                                            flinch from his own faults and covers them with as
                                                                                                            much honesty, both positive and sharply negative, as he
                                                                                                            describes the many famous people he has worked with
                                                                                                            over the decades.
                                                                                                               This book really takes you behind the scenes in the
                                                                                                            world of big-time television and films, from frustrating
                                                                                                            conferences at network and studio headquarters where
                                                                                                            new show ideas are proposed and pitched, to the on-set
                                                                                                            rehearsals – sometimes, most shockingly in the case of
                                                                                                            the enormously successful All in the Family, when there
                                                                                                            was constant fighting. Lear offers magnanimous praise for
                                                                                                            Carroll O’Connor, whom he calls a brilliant actor without
                                                                                                            whom there would have been no Archie Bunker. But he
                                                                                                            points out that O’Connor had an unusual problem with
                                                                                                            fright at rehearsals, wanting to change the script almost
                                                                                                            every week for nine years, and threatening to quit over and
                                                                                                            over again. Lear’s years as writer, producer, creator and/
                                                                                                            or director for such hits as the early Dean Martin & Jerry
                                                                                                            Lewis shows; George Gobel; Andy Williams; Maude; The
                                                                                                            Jeffersons; Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman; Good Times;
                                                                                                            Sanford and Son; One Day at a Time; Fernwood 2 Night,
                                                                                                            as well as such movies as Come Blow Your Horn; Divorce
                                                                                                            American Style; Cold Turkey, and others, provide many
                                                                                                            interesting anecdotes.
                                                                                                               Lear takes his love of country very seriously. When he
                                                                                                            learned that the Declaration of Independence document
                                                                                                            that he had seen on display in Washington, D.C., was not
                                                                                                            the only original of its kind, but that several copies had
                                                                                                            been printed in 1776 because not all of those who were
                                                                                                            to sign it could be present at the same time to examine
                                                                                                            it – and that the only copy in private hands was going
                                                                                                            to be on auction – he arranged to bid on it. He won the
                                                                                                            bid at $8 million, had a major architect/designer create a
                                                                                                            mobile exhibit, and took the Declaration through all 50
                                                                                                            states for ten years on what became a major celebratory
                                                                                                            tour so that millions of Americans could see an original
                                                                                                            copy of their beloved document.
                                                                                                               There are many hilarious moments in the book, as
                                                                                                            Lear describes his close, endearing friendships with
                                                                                                            Mel Brooks, Carl and Rob Reiner, Dom DeLuise, and
                                                                                                            so very many others. He has especially kind words for
                                                                                                            Frank Sinatra’s generosity. Sinatra had long admired the
                                                                                                            great actor Lee J. Cobb for his classic performance in the
                                                                                                            Broadway play, Death of a Salesman. Later in his life,
                                                                                                            Cobb was very ill and bedridden. When Sinatra learned
                                                                                                            of it, he sent a nurse to Cobb’s home with a message that
                                                                                                            Sinatra would be going on tour for almost a year, and
                                                                                                            insisting that Cobb be moved to the singer’s Palm Springs
                                                                                                            lavish home, where he had arranged, and paid for, a staff
                                                                                                            of full-time nurses.
                                                                                                               Family plays a very big part in Lear’s life. His
                                                                                                            descriptions of travels with Lyn, his present wife of 30
                                                                                                            years, are rapturous. He is very close to his five daughters
                                                                                                            and one son, two of those daughters (twins) decided upon
                                                                                                            when he was 70.
                                                                                                               Even This I Get to Experience offers little-known
                                                                                                            facts and entertainment on every page. There is also a
                                                                                                            16-page section of photographs covering Norman Lear’s
                                                                                                            life, from childhood through the war years to the present
                                                                                                            day, including many of his TV and movie friends. Even
                                                                                                            this you can experience for yourself. Do it. You will feel
                                                                                                            as though you just received an award.
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