Page 9 - Boca Exposure - April '21

Boca Exposure, Page 9
The Singles Scene Column ©

LOVE AFTER LOCKDOWN ♥ Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day of ♥ Grieving is tough, and everyone has their own timeline.

SPECIAL EDITION the week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to success You will know when you are ready to get back in the game. In
this day and age, seniors are dating after the loss of a spouse, and
in date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the door, but
can you get a second date? Inner beauty rules. they are finding love again. But always avoid comparisons. You
Pearls of Wisdom from THE Florida ♥ Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will… are looking for someone new who will be a good companion in
Matchmaker including your date! the here and now.
By Kelly Leary, M.S., ♥ If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul ♥ Cowards never start, winners never quit, and quitters
Founder of Revolution search. Are you doing everything you can to find love? Or never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember, fear is the
Dating are you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your opposite of love.
♥ Practice kindness. doorstep like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration. ♥ Join a love movement just for YOU. Stand up for
There is nothing that’s a bigger Connect, bond, show your good side, listen to feedback, give something that you want in your life moving forward. Be part
turnoff than when a person feedback, cooperate and be open to advice. If you go to your of your own solution, not your own problem. Get out of your
comes into the gate – or a date, doctor and don’t listen to one word of his advice, fail to take own way, in other words, when it comes to romance.
or a room, or a party – with your medicine, and remain sick, is it your doctor’s fault? No. ♥ You catch more flies with honey than you do with
a bad attitude. If you don’t ♥ Don’t be too picky. I have a female client who won’t vinegar. This rings true in and out of my club.
practice kindness in life, love, date a man under 6’4”, literally. He has to be a tri-athlete, has ♥ CONNECT. CONNECT. CONNECT. People who have
work and play, you will reap a high net worth, and must have blue eyes! If your criteria are good relationships and friendships of any form are the happiest
what you sow. this strict, be prepared to wait quite a bit longer than someone people alive. Togetherness is happiness.
♥ First impressions matter. I’ve learned that your who is more open-minded. High standards are fine, as long ♥ Dating is a journey. This rings true even after we find you
impression of a person is usually formed in the first 60 seconds! as you know that the other person has to like YOU back! Be the right one. There will be highs and there will be lows. Learn
So make sure that your “hello” is a good one. realistic and self-aware. (Example: avoid requesting a Blake from these experiences. Grow with your partner.
♥ Love over 65 is easier than you think! I am not even Shelton look alike if you are not a Gwen Stefani look-alike- Thank you so much for “Following the Matchmaker” for
intimidated by aging anymore, as I watch my clients have fun -this has actually happened to me.) three decades! WOW! We are celebrating 30 years in the biz and
well into their 80s. Age is just a number and romance happens ♥ Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t abuse hope to meet you soon too! Our schedule is filling up quickly so
at all ages. I see it every day. this and use them for a free meal! Always be courteous and don’t hesitate to take the plunge. Your timing is PERFECT!
♥ Don’t delay real romance in your 30s. Don’t wait until say thank you! I hope you join us on our mission to LOVE AFTER
you’re 37 or 38 to get serious about your search for a life-long ♥ Online dating is a risky roll of the dice. You could LOCKDOWN. There is no better time in history to begin.
partner. Women shouldn’t do this for obvious reasons, but men lose your time, money, and soul (T.M.E.) in the same way Celebrations abound and we are expanding by leaps and bounds
shouldn’t either. When men wait too long to start the process, I people lose themselves in Las Vegas! Stay too long, and you in the coming months! Beat the rush and register today!
have noticed they become too picky, jaded, and can be labeled may never come back. Much Love & Gratitude,
negatively. ♥ Always maintain an attitude of gratitude. This Kelly
♥ Love begets love. We have a rule in our office: “Only Love applies to your love life and far beyond. Kelly Leary has 30 years in the dating industry and a
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is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind and I guarantee ♥ 80/20. If your relationship/date is 80% good and 20% Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC
you will probably get a second one! questionable, give it the green light and continue. Otherwise, News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, and
♥ You can buy love (sort of). Dates, dinners, gifts, cards, it’s time to do some serious soul searching. Is this the right other nationwide publications. All Revolution Dating clients are
flowers, vacations, rings, weddings…there is no avoiding the fit for you? prescreened in person in their private offices. Professional photos
“cost” of dating. A man may splurge for the first few dates, and ♥ 50:50. This is about talking, not paying the tab! While are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
a woman may get her hair done and buy a few new outfits and dating, keep an eye on your conversation and your listening blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that
a new shade of lipstick. If you don’t invest, you won’t progress. skills. Take turns. Your conversation should be shared make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive membership.
♥ T.M.E. Facts: Dating is an investment of Time, Money, equally. If someone is doing 90% of the talking, there is a Each membership is custom made to suit you and your needs.
and Emotion. Any date is an investment of all three. With our problem. For more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or
pre-screening of members, relationships move along quicker and ♥ When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break up 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.com. *All
tend to be a better investment of TME at Revolution Dating. through an email or text. Be forthright but humble. inquiries are confidential. *Representing Ages 21 to 81.

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