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The Singles Scene Column ©

What Type Of Single Are You?

By: Kelly Leary© M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

Knowledge is power and the odds are in their favor. This person can be alone but their seen many widows and widowers find love again in my
YOU hold the key to your future ultimate desire is to find their forever/grand finale love. club--and it is SO REWARDING. My heart goes out to those
relationship. Only YOU have The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in bars or who have found the key to happy marriage...and I know...
the power to navigate the change online dating sites and is rather desperate to find a partner. Most as with the “HOPEFUL ROMANTICS” that there can be a
needed on your personal road divorced or never married and age 25 to 60. This single jumps chapter after a loss of a spouse. This generation of seniors
from SINGLE to TAKEN. If from date to date rapidly. They confuse the physical aspects today (from 60s to the 80s), given the right circumstances
you are in “relationship limbo” of intimacy with love and commitment and are often left with and opportunity, can really have a ball. I see it all the time!
or “in between relationships” feelings of rejection, insecurity, jealousy...because she is rarely... I am not even afraid to age anymore! Thank you to all my
do identify what type of single if ever...the “chosen one.” She will date almost “anyone” who seniors for being so cool and open minded to love/kinship
you represent by choosing from pays attention to her. This person is, well, desperate. I typically after loss of a spouse. It can happen.
the below categories. Do this don’t meet this type of person in my office and I would rather May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give you
today and take deliberate action not work with this type--to be honest. It is too unattractive--as a exciting moments to look forward to this coming summer.
toward change. Let’s figure this out, together. character trait--and they usually scare people off after one date. Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single, divorced They are tough to be with on any level, frankly. I’m sure you Love, Kelly
or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, grouchy and in some know the type. In their book of life it is never their fault. Blame #LoveFest2022 #AimTrueIn2022 #LoveOffline #WhyBeSingle
ways even unlovable. There may be a sense of desire for another games abound. #TellYourFriends #SheConnects
completely “out of their league” which exaggerates their bad The Even Steven: He is a total mess. Commonly divorced or
attitude as they are never satisfied. Likelihood of resuming a never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male counterpart of Lucy Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades in the
(healthy) relationship is slim to none. Open to change: minimal. Goosey. He wants love and intimacy but can’t seem to shake love business. In her 31 years of experience, she has watched
This male or female may have been cheated on or took a large his past failures. This man blames women for all his failings the dating scene morph drastically with the onset of online
hit in life and never recovered. This person can be helped with and suffers from great insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He dating and she has witnessed a huge boom in her longstanding
some therapy or a complete change of attitude. However, a may also over-compensate for his weakness by seeking multiple private practice--especially post pandemic. With her Master’s
“revolution” becomes less likely the longer this person stays notches in his head board...to get “EVEN” with the opposite Degree in Clinical Psychology, with a Forensic Concentration,
single. If this is you, get moving while you’ve still got it. As sex...trying to desperately make himself “whole” again. He is she has revolutionized the industry. She has been profiled by
it stands, with no therapy or mindset change this person is rarely successful and noncommittal when all is said and done. PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Boca Magazine, The
undateworthy. Many people online fall into this category. They Most men like this prey in bars, online dating sites or the social Palm Beach Post and other publications. Kelly was also named
are just no fun to be around, right? You can make much better media area. Luckily again, I don’t meet many of these social “Florida Woman” in recent years. Her clients are prescreened
use of your time. predators in my office. They are too happy with the dark side of first, including background checks. Professional client photos
The HopeFUL Romantic: Luckily “most” of the people keyboard dating, which is more ominous. Even Steven’s like to are taken in house. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
I meet are this type of person (yeah). This male or female has operate under the radar of responsible authentic dating. blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that
felt love in the most beautiful sense of the word. They have also The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age, make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive connections,
felt heartache but they continue to love more...and they almost although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female had Kelly is also involved in the charity community sponsoring
always do! WHY? Because they believe in love AND they know a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately and are organizations like The Leukemia Lymphoma Society, Furry
they are lovable. This person knows the benefits of love will now ready to find new companionship (not marriage per se). Friends, and Chasin’ A Dream Foundation. To get started,
ALWAYS outweigh the risks. Single, divorced, or widowed of This group does very well in my club as long as they avoid simply call (561) 630-XOXO (9696) or (772) 932-HERE (4373)
ALL AGES this person has a high success rate in my club and comparing their matches to their late husband or wife. I have or register on her website at www.revolutiondating.com.

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