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The Singles Scene © PHOBIA freeze you up. We are here to help you over the for your first date it’s far better to be overdressed rather

How to CRUSH that First Date! hump. We want you on that first date, second date, third than underdressed. Remember we are putting our best foot
date--and ultimately TAKEN. forward. Moreover, make sure your inner glow shines too!
By: Kelly Leary, M.S., When you do find someone interested in you and vice 3. Practice Kindness. The biggest turnoff is a person
Founder of Revolution versa, please follow these simple steps to land a second who walks into a date, room, or party – with a negative
Dating date. It’s easy to forget “first date etiquette” after a long attitude. It is imperative that we all practice kindness in
“Do not anticipate time-out (either due to the pandemic, a break-up or loss life, love, work, and play – single or not. Speak positive
trouble or worry about what of spouse). It doesn’t matter what your age is--just get words. Eliminate ANY preconceived notions and ideas
may never happen. Keep in out there again and enjoy the romance that is bound to you may have about your date. Be open minded.
the sunlight.~~Benjamin follow with these simple steps! 4. Play It Cool. Don’t go overboard on the compliments,
Franklin 1. You like each other. So, make that date right away! it’s hard to be attracted to a person who is practically
Summer is a great season Don’t drag out the first date commitment with too many drooling over you. Perhaps that seems strange, and in a
for budding romance and phone calls and time delays. You will seem fearful or way it is flattering, but it makes you come across as too
commitments that stick for disinterested. Once made, be on time and don’t cancel pushy. Don’t overdo it and don’t under do it!
years to come. This July, we or reschedule. This is not a good way to start a first date. 5. While on the date: No Texting. No exceptions.
want you to leave your comfort zone and enjoy dating You don’t want to start your date with an apology. Leave your phone in the car if you can.
again. It is possible. Most of all, don’t let FIRST DATE 2. Your appearance is important. Dress to impress – 6. Be Real. A first date is about being real and
authentic. No wacky outfits. No “over the top” jewelry
BE A PART OF SOMETHING FRESH! or makeup. No dirty jokes. Mind your manners and be
nice to the wait staff! Be polite to those around and speak
highly on life whenever possible...especially on a first
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7. Ask Questions on your date and listen. What’s

your date’s favorite topic of conversation? We all love
date feel these things, chances are he/she will be more
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attracted to you. It’s human nature.
8. Let Your Date Know You’re Having a Good Time!
LIVE MUSIC If you’re having a good time, let it show. Smile. Laugh.
A well placed, “I’m having a great time” is good. We
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him/her know and thank them for it too. This eliminates
guessing games!
9. Be Passionate. When your date asks you about
yourself be passionate about the information you choose
to share. Be decisive in your answers, and don’t wallow
back and forth. However, avoid talking too much about
yourself and don’t bring up past relationships...for as long
as humanly possible.
10. Keep It Light and Be Positive. Also, please
eliminate ALL talk of medical conditions, politics, and
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favorite books or ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS LIGHT
AND FUN. Don’t be so serious; very few people want to
sit through a detailed explanation of your difficulties at
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11. Conduct Yourself With Dignity. When you find
yourself attracted to a person, sometimes you can get
carried away. If you want to talk for six hours, go for
it. If you want to share another bottle of wine do it...but
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to be the best version of you. Don’t screw it up.
12. Watch What You Say in Cyberspace. You’d
be surprised how transparent social media can be. So
if you decided to document your date on Facebook, it
Early Voting importantly, this person may not want to be with someone
can be pretty easy for your date to find that post. Most
who posts every thought on social media.
XOXO, Kelly

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Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and
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a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by
Election Center | Elisabeth Lahti Library | Hobe Sound Library The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart
News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened
Votación anticipada del 13 al 20 de agosto | 8AM-5PM
Centro Electoral, Biblioteca Elisabeth Lahti, Biblioteca de sonido Hobe including background checks. Professional photos are
taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club
membership, Kelly also provides feedback from your dates
when appropriate. All inquiries are confidential.

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