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      Boca Public Library Invites All Players



      To Enter Annual Mayor’s Chess Challenge


      At Spanish River Branch, March 25




         Join the Boca                                   to highlight the wonderful game of chess to our   “passport”  to  log  all  the  local  events  they  attend.
      Raton Public Library                               community and our children. Interest in chess has only   Instructors will be on hand to help those new to the game.
      for the annual Mayor’s                             risen over the past few years, and the Boca Raton Public      “The Boca Raton Public Library is excited to host
      Chess Challenge in                                 Library is again looking forward to joining with other   the third annual Mayor’s Chess Challenge,” notes Lisa
      Boca Raton. Players                                cities and hosting some great, young chess players.”  Testa, Public Services librarian. “The event draws elected
      of all ages, beginner or                              The Mayor’s Chess Challenge started in south Florida   officials, community leaders and people of all ages.
      expert, are invited to                             in 2014 to draw attention to the benefits of chess, one   Whether you are a beginner or skilled chess player, don’t
      play chess with other                              of the oldest and most intriguing of games, and is now   miss out on the opportunity to watch or play a thrilling
      community members at the Spanish River Library branch on   hosted by 20 cities throughout the year. Players of all   game of chess with others from ages 5 to 95!”
      March 25 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. City Council Member Fran   ages and abilities learn critical-thinking skills, improve      Bring the whole family for an exciting morning of
      Nachlas will be a special guest.                   concentration and discipline, develop problem-solving   chess and community engagement. Enrollment is not
         Mayor Scott Singer says, “I’ve been honored to   skills, and build self-esteem and good sportsmanship.   required. The Spanish River Library is located at 1501
      participate in past years of the Mayor’s Chess Challenge   Plus, chess is fun! Participants can pick up a special   N.W. Spanish River Blvd. in Boca.

        The Singles Scene Column                                            ©                               Loving Life After



        Contents Inside May Cause Happiness!               We have also noticed that our clients are falling in love
                                                        quicker than in years prior. The “L-word” comes easier these   The Move
        By: Kelly Leary, M.S.,                          days. Exclusivity is making a comeback. Traditional one-on-
        CEO/Head Matchmaker                             one dating is on the rise leading to sustainable courtships and/or
           “Life moves pretty fast. If                  forever love. This is just the happiest news ever, right?      Gloria Fettes on living in paradise: “It’s a big relief
        you don’t stop and look around                     Thanks for spending your time with me again today. I am   to leave all your responsibilities.”
        once in a while, you could miss                 looking forward to catching up with you soon. Please mention
        it.” ~~Ferris Bueller                           this article for priority booking when you are on the phone with       “I just love this community; it has something for
           Happy March to all of our                    one of my matchmakers! Our schedules are filling up quickly this   everyone,” Gloria Fettes said. “Everyone is so friendly. I
        clients, friends, and couples.                  year (lucky you...the more the merrier).            felt welcomed right away.”
        Spring is days away. This is a                     Happy Saint Patrick’s Day to all! Let’s celebrate together!      Gloria and her husband John moved into their Boca
        time for new beginnings and                                                          XOXO, Kelly    Raton senior living community in 2021. With its serene
        refreshing. Spring cleaning                        #LuckyInLove #RevolutionDating #SpringIntoLove
        is not only for the home.                       #JoinTheMovement #TellYourFriends                   landscaping, lakes, walking trails, birds and wildlife, St.
        It’s for the soul. If you find                     Kelly Leary  has 32 years in the dating          Andrews Estates stood out from other retirement and 55-
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        yourself nesting and making                     industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology.       plus communities.
        your surroundings even more                     She’s been profiled by  Florida Woman                  “I’ve lived overseas most of my life, working in the
        beautiful this time of year, remember to prioritize your personal life   Magazine, The Palm Beach Post, Stuart   federal government and growing up as a Foreign Service
        too. There is no better anti-aging phenomenon than falling in love.   Magazine, and other local publications. All
        You are never too old and it is never too late! In the here and now,   Revolution Dating clients are prescreened   family. I always wanted to have a European lifestyle and
        calm your heart and light up your soul. Positive things are about to   in person in their private corporate office.   being able to walk everywhere,” she said.
        happen for you! Ready. Set. Go.                 Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating      “At St. Andrews, I can walk to the grocery store, a
                 1. Believe In Yourself. What do you love about YOU?   is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing   zillion restaurants, and the best mall practically in South
        Regardless of your age, clothing size, or status—know that you   matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their   Florida, certainly in Boca Raton,” Gloria added.
        have a lot to offer. Your future guy or girl (who is right around the   exclusive membership, each membership is custom made to suit you
        corner) will feel the same way too. Banish self-doubt. Confidence   and your needs. For more information, please call 561-630-XOXO      “My husband loves to golf; we traveled the whole
        mixed with kindness is appealing. Don’t let the noise between   (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.  coastline and wanted to live near Palm Beach,” she said.
        your ears talk you out of dating. All of the good ones are not   com. *All inquiries are confidential. *Representing Ages 21 to 81.   While her husband John hits the golf course three days a
        taken~~just look in the mirror!                                                                     week, Gloria enjoys meeting up with friends, taking up
                 2. Minimize Time Killers. Decrease your time on social   Local Revolutionary Hot Shots:
        media sites. Intentionally change your patterns this March and      The following photos were taken at the corporate headquarters   fitness classes, clubs, and activities. She also coordinates
        socialize IRL (in real life). Walk away from the dating app trap and   of Revolution Dating located in PGA Commons. Revolution   resident happy hour social events.
        hire a professional to do the work for you. Stop dating that man or   Dating has been shining like a star over PGA Boulevard for      “The social scene is what everybody makes of it.
        woman that you know is not the one. Focus your energy in a positive   almost ten years and counting. LOCATION is KEY when you   You can do everything, or nothing at all,” she said.
        direction. If someone or something is not serving you--cut the ties.   want the best clients in South Florida and the Treasure Coast.   Transportation is never an issue if you need a ride. “I can
                 3. Be Vulnerable. Fear of rejection should not govern you.   Please note, the following clients enjoy the extra exposure as   go to plays, the gardens, the beach. Our drivers can even
        If you sense that this is your problem, talk to a trusted friend or a   an add-on bonus--and they have agreed to go public. If you are
        therapist. My team and I are always available for questions too, if   interested in any of our amazing clients here, please mention it   take you to doctor’s appointments.”
        you need a neutral and honest opinion. When you date with intention,   when you call. Know that the majority of our database wishes      Being so active at her community, she spends time
        the dating process will be much more fun than you think. Half of this   to remain confidential and you can too. Obviously, these clients   doing what she loves, stress-free without the constant
        is who we date, but the other half is how we date. So many people   will be swept away soon so do act before they become TAKEN.   maintenance that comes from owning a home. “It’s
        find the right one who has everything they are looking for and they   Timing is everything. Many of them are already on their first dates   actually a big relief, really, because when we left our
        are so afraid of rejection that they either self-sabotage or freeze.   and second dates. We move quickly and so should you. We look
                 4. Cool Down Urges. Overdoing food, drink, or any other vice   forward to collaborating with you too! This is clearly not blind   house, we left all those responsibilities with it,” she said.
        is a surefire way to sabotage the balance of your romantic future.   dating or online dating. This is matchmaking the best of the best      St. Andrews Estates, part of Acts Retirement-Life
        If you find yourself overindulging and doing things you should not   singles in our local communities. This firm does not enroll people   Communities, is not your typical 55-plus community.
        be doing or dating people you should not be dating, you are only   over the phone or on a video chat. *If someone is pre-qualified   By moving in, the Fettes have access to Acts Life Care,
        destroying the chances of living your best life. You are essentially   we will make an exception and do the first interview via video   allowing them to prearrange for their future healthcare
        blocking yourself from love. I.E. Thwart your own escape tendencies   chat but the goal is to meet all clients at least twice in-person in
        and face the mystical music of love that you yearn for deep down.   our office. This is a good thing in this day and age. What’s not to   needs with one predictable monthly fee, which is also tax
                 5. Walk It Off. Movement is key and is a cure for mild   love? My clients love their life (as you can tell in these photos)   deductible. If Gloria or her husband ever have additional
        depression and/or anxiety. The next time you find yourself plopping   but there is one thing missing...could it be YOU?   needs, like assisted living or skilled care, it’s conveniently
        down on the couch after dinner, go for a 30-minute walk instead.      Let the good times roll!      accessible on the same campus.
        The rewards of action versus stillness are too profound to measure.                                    “I’m the planner of the family,” Gloria said, “Since we
        Your mind will relax and create more space for loving people and
        thoughts. This is medical science. You will sleep better too. Your                                  don’t have children close by, I think if anything should
        future companion will appreciate your extra beauty sleep!                                           happen to my husband or I, it’s comforting to know that
                 6. Reconnect by Disconnecting. Instead of spending time                                    there’s a lot of support here.”
        alone in front of the television or on social media, make a date                                       “One of us will be taken care of, and the other one
        with someone you would like to get to know better--or make an                                       can stay in the apartment where we live now, and we
        appointment with me. The point is: If you don’t know anyone
        to connect with, we can help make an introduction for you. It is                                    absolutely love our apartment,” she added.
        not what you know, it is who you know. It’s simple. It’s math.                                         To learn more about living at St. Andrews Estates in
        It’s smart. Life is all about connecting.                                                           Boca Raton, join our introductory event on March 16 at
                 7. Expand Your Circle. Make new friends and see new places.   Meet Jason...  Meet Corrina...  Meet Liz...  10:30 a.m. on our beautiful campus, next to the Town
        Challenge yourself. Awaken. It’s good for your brain...not to mention   Managing   Retired and   Registered Nurse   Center Mall. Call (561) 363-0604 to R.S.V.P. today!
        your love life and your health. Dare to do something out of your daily   Partner/CEO  Loving Life   and Wellness Coach
        grind. Do it today. Variety is the “spice of life:” and will compliment
        your life, year, mind, heart, and soul. You deserve it too. Refill that
        love tank. You have waited long enough and missed out on enough
        this past twelve months. So, keep calm and go for it! You’re alive
        and the world is full of wonder this Spring of 2023.
           We have always had an impressive draw of people in this club,
        but I have to say that the clientele we are meeting this year and last
        year is different and even more impressive than in prior years. With
        the online dating nose dive gone rampant in Florida, quality singles
        are more likely to hire a verified matchmaker (with a physical local
        office). I’ve also noticed that people that would usually not commit are
        committing. Exclusivity is on the rise. Pairing Off is trending. These   Meet Kristy...  Meet David...  Meet Jason...
        facts make online dating and the bar scene even more undesirable for   Nurse Anesthetist   Medical Doctor  CEO and Director
        Florida singles. So where do the good ones go? HERE, my friend.
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