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                From The Professionals’ Desks



      Healthy Answers–A Guide To Healthy Living:



      “What’s So Funny?”



      By Dale Brown, B.S., M.A., C.E.C.                 sense of humor to be one of the most important qualities   between people and create a more lighthearted environment.
      Dale is a motivational speaker who                for choosing a partner (just a few minutes with my husband   It shows that we are willing to be vulnerable, which can help
      has spent many years as a Certified               and I was hooked).                                 build trust and strengthen relationships. Most importantly,
      Life Coach and has written numerous                  We sometimes wonder why some  people are  more   laughing with friends and family creates shared memories
      articles and e-books relating to self-            inclined to grasp the essence of a joke or pick up on   that can be recalled for years to come. To this day my
      improvement and ways to build a                   innuendos. You’ve heard the expression, “It went over   siblings and I still laugh when we repeat the jokes and funny
      high-performance team. She is the                 his head.” This is a way of saying that the person missed   stories my father used to share with us.
      author of the recently published book,            the meaning of the punch line. This does not always point      Want to learn to laugh more? Here are a few strategies
      “Small Steps...Big Changes:  The                  to their lack of understanding, however. Not everyone   to help you develop or improve your sense of humor:
      Personal Stories of a Life Coach.” Her education and years   is predisposed to finding things funny or having a quick      Surround yourself with people who are funny and have
      of experience in physical fitness and training of elite athletes   wit. The importance of humor can vary from person to   a good sense of humor. You may find that just being with
      has enabled her to sharpen her knowledge in many health-  person, depending on their individual preferences and   people who love to laugh can be contagious. If you feel you
      related areas. The following introduces a new approach to   circumstances.                           might be missing something, go ahead and ask, “What’s
      Ms. Brown’s series of columns devoted to many topics that      It’s hard to define humor, and what may evoke a smile   so funny?” It can help improve your understanding of the
      deal with the mind/body connection and the importance of   or explosive laughter. It could be due to a reaction to   subject matter and bring a little levity into your life as well.
      living a healthy lifestyle. Dale, a Bocaire resident, can be   words, images or actions, films, skits or plays. It can come      Enroll in laugh therapy, also known as laughter yoga,
      reached at dalebrown@lovingmondays.com.           from a wide range of forms, from innocent jokes to harsh   which is a form of therapy that involves intentional laughter
         Healthy living is not only about diet and exercise, it’s   sarcasm or slapstick.                  exercises. Laughter yoga involves group laughter exercises,
      also about our mental health. It’s about how we view life      Do people with a sense of humor have a more fun-filled   deep breathing, and relaxation techniques. It has been shown
      and react to situations that can make a difference in your   life?                                   to improve mood, reduce stress, and improve overall well-
      happiness level. For instance, when you’re laughing at a      In some ways the answer is yes. People with a good   being.
      friend’s joke or kidding around with co-workers, you’re   sense of humor seem to have more fun in certain situations      Watch more comedy movies or  TV shows, read
      actually improving your health. A sense of humor is a   because they’re often able to find the comedy in everyday   humorous books, go to a stand-up comedy show or join an
      powerful tool to cheer you up and get you through the worse   life and enjoy making others laugh. In addition, they may   improvisation comedy club. Rekindle the child in you by
      moments, or ease tensions in any situation.       be more likely to have positive relationships and feel   approaching life with a more playful attitude. Try to see the
         This  topic  came  to  mind  when  I  realized  that  after   more comfortable in social situations. The key factor is   humor in situations rather than taking things too seriously.
      watching a tense cable TV series (HBO’s “The Last of Us”),   the ability to laugh at themselves.        Experiment with different types of humor, such as
      both my husband and I had to lighten our mood before going      Comedians are masters at finding some vulnerable trait   sarcasm, puns or observational humor. Whichever type
      to bed. Nothing worked better than watching Larry David in   about themselves and making it funny. We love to laugh   resonates with you and what makes you giggle.
      an episode of “Curb Your Enthusiasm” to get us laughing.   at things we see in ourselves that might seem stupid, yet      Remember that developing a sense of humor takes time
         I grew up in a household where jokes and laughter were   something we do all the time. It helps to lighten our mood   and practice, and everyone’s sense of humor is unique. Be
      an everyday occurrence. My Dad always had a funny story   and reduce feelings of stress and anxiety. When we laugh   patient with yourself and don’t be afraid to experiment with
      to tell, or he could twist his facial expressions to make us   at ourselves it stops us from taking life too seriously.   different approaches to humor.
      laugh. You never knew what he might say or do, but the   We’re more likely to see our mistakes and shortcomings
      one thing you could expect was something silly. It’s not   in a more objective light.
      surprising that over 80% of men and women consider a      Laughing at ourselves may also help break down barriers

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