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      Fuller Center from page 1                          Fuller Center campuses. Mentors focus on experiences,      • Increased social and academic confidence
                                                         interests, developing positive and mutually beneficial      • Empowerment to make decisions
      a background screening and commit to mentoring a   relationships, and assist with homework.             • Development of communication, study, and personal
      minimum of once per week for one year. Once matched,      Benefits to the mentee include:            skills
      mentors and mentees meet after school and in the      • Practical advice, encouragement and support     •  Development  of  strategies  for  dealing  with  both
      summer weekly for at least one hour at one of the two      • Experiences learned from others         personal and academic issues
                                                                                                              • Help in identifying goals and establishing a sense
                                                                                                           of direction
                                                                                                              • Valuable insight into the future
                                                                                                              • Opportunity to make new friends
                                                                                                              Most mentors have shared that the personal return
                                                                                                           they receive from this experience far exceeds what they
                                                                                                           put into it.
                                                                                                              Benefits of being a mentor:
                                                                                                              • Improvement of communication and personal skills
                                                                                                              • Development of leadership and management qualities
                                                                                                              • Reinforcement of study skills and knowledge of new
                                                                                                           subject(s)
                                                                                                              • Increased confidence and motivation
                                                                                                              • Enhanced résumé and life experiences
                                                                                                              • Increased circle of friends
                                                                                                              • Recognition for skills and experience
                                                                                                                • A sense of purpose, fulfillment and personal growth
                                                                                                             Mentors are trained to help build social skills and trust,
        The Singles Scene Column                                            ©                              work on relationship-building, and provide academic
                                                                                                           support, which are many of the soft skills that contribute
                                                                                                           to lifelong success. Mentors work with the same child or
        Gentlemen, Start Your                           of you. Never arrive at her house empty-handed. These   a small group of children for a one-year period, to further

        Engines!                                        signals will tell her you are into her! This is key to dating   ensure stability and success.
                                                                                                             “We  believe  it’s  critical  that  we  come  together  as

                                                        and courtship. Don’t hate the players, hate the game! It is
                                                        what it is, gentlemen. Don’t let your ego keep you single.”   a community to help one another, particularly as our
        By: Kelly Leary, M.S.,                          (Tina, 55-year-old School Principal)               students begin a new school year, after going through
        CEO/Head Matchmaker                                                                                such a challenging time,” said Ellyn Okrent, CEO of the
           Happy Mother’s Day                              9. “Be yourself. Don’t try to be someone else. Sooner   Fuller Center. “This is an opportunity for people to find a
        to all of our favorite                          or later, the real you is bound to come out, so aim true. If   meaningful sense of purpose and do something that will
        mothers, grandmothers,                          she is a keeper, and your “truths” collide, you will know   make a huge difference in the lives of our kids.”
                                                                                                             Those who want to contribute but may not have the

        fur moms, and soon-to-be                        it in your heart.” (Vera, 60-year-old Doctor)      time to dedicate to the mentorship program are welcome
        mothers! I am touched by                                                                           to participate in the Adopt-a-Class program with a $1,500
        all the amazing women                              10. “Chivalry is NOT dead. It’s alive and well, and men   contribution that will fund a classroom’s needs for the entire
        that I know  and admire                         need to accept this fact if they want a beautiful woman by   school year. Those who adopt a class may participate as
        in and out of this popular                      their side.” (Katie, 43-year-old Pharmaceutical Rep)  frequently as desired for a year to celebrate birthdays and
        dating club. With so many                                                                          holidays or visit at a scheduled time to interact with the
        of our clients and friends                         If these ten tips are followed in your budding courtships   children of their adopted class for a year.
        following this column, I feel compelled to make this  or relationships this month, you are destined to maintain a      To learn more, please contact Olga Bearhope at
        month wonderful for all--thus making it an extra win  happy month for yourself. Since so many of us are Mothers,   obearhope@fullercenterfl.org or at (561) 391-7274, Ext. 136.
        for us ladies! GENTLEMEN treat the ladies in your life  we deserve it too, so bend over backward (for us) and watch   About The Fuller Center
                                                                                                             For more than 50 years, the Fuller Center’s mission
        better than ever, and you will win too! As they say: “If  the world open up for you! Honor us. Show us how you     has been to embrace, educate, and empower hardworking,
        the woman in your life is happy, you are happy!” Whether  feel and pay attention to our needs. We all have needs, from   under-resourced families and children to reach their full
        she is your mother, wife, first date, girlfriend, or someone  the bedroom to the boardroom, but the needs of the heart   potential. We build a positive future through education for
        you have your eye on...treat her EXTRA special this May.  are the most precious. If you do not have a love interest   the more than 900 children (infants through teens) who we
                                                        this month, call the pros today...before the “Summer   serve annually, as well as 600 of their family members. The
           I’ve interviewed several of my favorite women in  of Love 2023” kicks off without you. Nothing is worse   Fuller Center reaches families of more than 40 zip codes
        the club and they have great advice for you handsome  than being single in the summer--especially in Florida!  throughout Palm Beach County.
        and smart men. Please enjoy and practice these top 10                                                 Almost all Fuller Center working parents – 92 percent –
        dating and relationship tips from the women clientele     In honor of Mother’s Day, I am giving all women   serve as essential or frontline workers, working in hospitals,
        of Revolution Dating:                           (and men) a $500 credit towards your membership at our   retail outlets, restaurants, and hotels. They are our bus
                                                        dating club--but do mention this when you reserve your   drivers, store clerks and cashiers, farmworkers, delivery
           1. “Many of us ladies just want the little things. For  appointment with your matchmaker. What a great time to   drivers, security guards, bank tellers, office workers,
        example, open the car door for us. Make sure our tires  get revolutionary...amidst a “man training” session! Enjoy   healthcare workers, home health aides, hospital orderlies
                                                                                                           and cafeteria workers, and childcare and eldercare workers.
        have air, gas in the tank, and our car windows are clean.”  the love around you and welcome more. I can’t wait to meet      Our programs help empower children to start
        (Ruth, 65-year-old Retired Business Woman)      you! Our hotlines are open seven days a week with expert   school prepared, succeed academically, and break the
                                                        pros that you can speak to LIVE! Just follow the prompts!   generational cycle of poverty through quality early
           2. “It is ALWAYS flattering when you compliment us.”  Ready. Set. Meow.                         childhood education, after-school and summer camp
        (Rebecca, 27-year-old Account Exec)                                                                programs, our new private elementary school, teen
                                                            XoXo, Kelly (aka THE Florida Matchmaker, Est. 1991)  leadership programs, and comprehensive, family-
           3. “Buy us something very expensive and totally                                                 centered support services. They also empower parents
        useless.” (Sarah, 31-year-old CEO)              P.S. Stay tuned for next month’s issue when MEN get the   who are essential to keeping our local economy open and
                                                        red carpet treatment from me. Have a blast, everyone. You   who provide the vital services we all count on.
           4. “Send flowers for Mother’s Day...especially if she  only live once.                             The Fuller Center also offers mentoring programs
        is YOUR romantic interest and she happens to be a Mom                                              and adult on-the-job training, coaching, and employment
        or Grandma for example! Also, send flowers to your mom  #FindSustainableLove #GetIntroduced #BeYourChange   support, and no-cost transportation from 12 area schools
                                                                                                           to our campus-based after-school programs. We serve more
        too.” (Kim, 41-year-old Business Owner)         #DateLocal #ThisIsOrganic #TellYourFriends         than 1,800 nutritious meals and snacks daily.
                                                                                                              In addition, Fuller Center provides opportunities for
           5. “Be confident, gutsy, and truthful. Take your guard     Kelly Leary© has 32 years in the dating industry and   local colleges and universities to place undergraduate and
        down. TAKE A RISK. What do you have to lose?” (Susan,  a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled   graduate students in internships and child development
        51-year-old Financial Advisor)                  by The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,      practicums.
                                                        Boca Magazine, The South Florida Business Journal,   East Campus: 200 N.E. 14th Street, Boca Raton
           6. “Chivalry is key to all women! Once a man loses  The Stuart News, and many other publications. All   West Campus: 10130 185th Street South, Boca Raton
        this ability, he loses everything, including his manhood.”  Revolution  Dating  members  are  prescreened  first,   Facebook: @fullercenterfl
        (Jennifer, 37-year-old Lawyer)                  including background checks. Professional member   Instagram: @fullercenterfl
                                                        photos are taken by in-house. Revolution Dating is not
           7. “Men chase women. It’s biblical...so chase her...  online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing
        pursue her...claim the one you want and let her know how  matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single”        Advertise,
        you feel. If she is interested, she is yours. If she is not, move  through their exclusive membership, this club provides
        on. This is more simple than you think.” (Yours Truly)   outstanding dating feedback which is essential in this    Check out our website!
                                                        wild world of dating today. For more information,    www.seabreezepublications.com
           8. “Make sure your girl knows you are into her,  please call (561) 630-XOXO (9696) or (772) 932-HERE
        especially when you are an “item.” Send her flowers  (4373). All inquiries are confidential.                or call (561) 746-3244
        (even if it’s not a holiday). Book a vacation for the two
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