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Spend Money to Find Love? introduction or set-up like our grandparents and parents to Enter Modern Matchmaking: My business was
everyone jumping on the alternate bus of online dating, which designed as an online dating remedy and for those who
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE began around 1995. The theory seemed sensible, but there simply can’t or won’t go online looking for love (like a
Florida Matchmaker has been a big trade-off in recent years. It is now super easy doctor, judge, or CEO). We are private, friendly, and local.
The answer is simple: We to cheat or “next.” The divorce rate is up. What started as a We serve South Florida and the Treasure Coast. I, personally,
have always invested money way to increase your options has become completely corrupt have 28 years of experience and a master’s degree in Clinical
to find love regardless of our since its inception. Too much. Too fast. Too easy. Now, Psychology specializing in Forensic Studies (profiling).
gender. We pay for dates, we it’s too hard. The online dating system has been severely During my graduate studies, I was lucky enough to find my
pay to look good, and we pay in handicapped and there is no fixing this inherent fatal flaw. calling by happenstance in 1991 in Boca Raton. I worked at
the form of time and emotional Online dating will only get worse--especially in Florida. other dating services over the years and quickly noted what
investments too. We pay for our Was there a time when online dating had better odds? they were doing wrong and what they were doing right. I
wins to celebrate love in the Sure. My cousin met her husband online in Maine 12 years kept the best and forgot the rest. I still cringe when I recall
form of a wedding and sadly, ago. Get it? In Maine and 12 years ago. Online dating hit what other bosses of mine had done in the past. Many of
sometimes, we pay for divorce an all-time low in 2009 in Florida, which is when the local them still exist but they have changed their business name
when love ends. We always pay daily newspaper did a very positive story on my work. Off- multiple times.
for love one way or the other BUT the payoff is the best line dating services hit the maps BIG at that moment and so To save you time and money, I have also included a price
feeling in the world. We all want and need love. Yet now, did I. We were presented as an alternative to online dating. list of random options. We researched many of these prices to
more than ever, we have been forced to get smarter because of Take it from someone who is an expert. It is an enormous double check...all in the name of love and all for YOU. Since
our potential losses. Dating is riskier today--and sometimes gamble and you will risk losing time, money, headache and “matchmaker” is now a household term like doctor or lawyer,
even scary! The times have changed and we must change heartache--not to mention your safety--men or women--when I thought I would bring you up to speed! Thank me later!
too. As much good as the Internet has brought us--it has you look for love online. Men can be hurt too--and definitely What Finding Love Could Cost in Dollars:
come with a VERY high price. People are so programmed in the wallet. It is a gamble just like in Vegas, and you can $0 Free dating sites or sit home alone with no one.
to look down (at their screens) and communicate via social lose EVERYTHING. $25+ Some online dating sites. Ex: Bumble, Match,
media and texting that many have lost the art of socializing Look up documentaries like Dirty John who met an OurTime. See above article for your odds.
in person. Just look around at the beach or at a restaurant. upscale woman on OurTime.com. He pretended to be a doctor $449+ Per month/3 month minimum -- for one date per
People are obsessed with their smartphones. but he was a very BAD guy. Predators love online dating! month. No local office/often in temporary or virtual offices.
Enter online dating: Being an encyclopedia on this You can see online dating disasters on Date Line, 20/20, or Often no photos. Ex: Tawkify (California Address).
industry, I remember when online dating first hit the circuits. any news channel. Online dating is dangerous and quality $5000+ Sometimes per month, per year, or per number
Not everyone had a computer and there were no smartphones. people either don’t like it or cannot be seen online for privacy of dates. Sometimes no photos. Ex: Three Date Rule (no
And so it began--the evolution of dating went from a kind reasons. It’s embarrassing. Florida location) and many others.
$25K to $45K+ Per year -- to work with a representative at a
“elite” service that may or may not have a rooted local office in
Florida. Matches could be national. Ex: Kelleher International.
(Reference for price section and amounts: Cosmopolitan,
Dreaming Up the Ideal June 2019)
Here is the bottom line: When you find your dream
Retirement Is Your Job. man or woman you will be glad you took the plunge

Helping You Get There and you chose the best service available to you. Upon
enrollment (hopefully in person in a real office), consider
Is Ours. your investment a down payment on your wedding or on
your dream vacation and just live it up with your new
love life! You will be glad you started this July by the
To learn more about why Edward time the holidays roll around! It is a couples world! Our
Jones makes sense for you, call matchmakers are standing by 7 days a week if you have
more questions for us. We are happy to oblige.
or visit a financial advisor today. Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
Much Love and XoXo,
Kelly
#CallForMoreScoop #SummerLoveIsHappeningNow
Sally S Stahl, AAMS® www.edwardjones.com #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
Financial Advisor M e m b P I S r e C Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and
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1851 W Indiantown Rd Ste 106 a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled
Jupiter, FL 33458 by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
561-748-7600 Magazine, South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart
News, and other publications. All Revolution Dating
members are prescreened first, including background
checks. Professional member photos are taken by the
staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind
CAMPBELL AND KARLIK, P.A. dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
ATTORNEYS AT LAW membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For
more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in
the South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
Treasure Coast or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com.
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