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The Singles Scene Column ©

How to Hire a Matchmaker it is time for a change. Don’t let another season go by clients she is destined to attract. If it is an out of state
alone. The world is really in your hands more than you headquarters, it is NOT a good option for you. You will
By Kelly Leary, M.S., THE know. You have control. You’ve got this! I know you don’t be disappointed and they will not have enough members
Florida Matchmaker want to spend the holiday season solo, so get moving and for you in the local area. This is just common sense.
The sun is about to set leave your comfort zone! It’s that simple.  Does he or she offer private events? Are they
on the summer of love 2019, If you are reading this column, you are definitely connected in the charity community? If he or she does
and it did “happen so fast.” thinking about change, either for yourself or a friend. In not have parties as an add-on option—it is likely because
Our children will be going an age of “online dating-itis” and “textual relationships,” they don’t have enough members and can’t put them all
back to school and that leaves single people have become more and more guarded, under one roof.
more time for us parents! As I skeptical and disillusioned. Due to the nationwide  Do they meet with all of their clients in person,
like to say—“back to school, risks of online dating, thankfully for you, the word or do they sign-up clients over the phone? If it is only a
back to you!” August is the “MATCHMAKER” is now a household term, much like phone interview, I would opt-out. This is not a good sign.
sunset of summer. It marks a doctor or lawyer. Hiring a matchmaker is trending and If it’s a skype interview, I would also opt-out.
the ending of the season. It is the more the merrier. People follow the crowd and luckily  Do they check identification in person and run
an eye-opener too, don’t you for us, all signs point to our door, right above Rocco’s background checks?
think? I love sunsets personally, in fact, our 70-year-old Tacos in a bustling business community. Since we know  How often will you get a possible introduction? If
family business in Vermont carries the name “sunset” that you are interested in hiring a matchmaker, I have it is super limited, like one every month or a total of 5
so the word resonates love for me. As I get a little older composed the following guidelines for you to use when dates in X amount of time, those are low odds and I would
myself (which does happen to the best of us), I have you speak to a matchmaker. A face-to-face meeting is key recommend finding a matchmaker with ample resources.
learned to appreciate the passage of time. At a certain and you can ask her these questions in person. Thank you  Are there guarantees? Here is the tricky part. Is there
age, time becomes more precious and it certainly moves for sharing your time with me today and do share this a guarantee that marriage will last forever? I wish there
quickly! That being said—in the blink of an eye—it will column with your single friends and family as always! was, but in life and love, the responsibility lies within
be Halloween, then Thanksgiving, and then the BIG #ShareTheLove us. We need to co-create our future and set ourselves up
Holy Holidays. Another year will have come and gone. Questions to ask your future matchmaker: for success, just like we do on the job. However, doing
The bells of 2020 will be ringing, and all of us will be  Will I be able to see photos of my dates before we nothing will make you older and less likely to venture
wondering about our future and how we want to live and meet and who takes the photos? (Naturally, it is best if the out. Grab the bull by the horns, take a deep breath and
love more. photos were taken by your matchmaking team to verify thank me later.
Singles who have been sitting on the bench are likely validity). If there are no photos offered, I would run. Looking forward to meeting you soon in my office!
to be thinking about their romantic future. The summer  What is your matchmaker’s education level? Much Love and XoXo, Kelly
love possibilities are fading and hopefully, you will feel  How many years has he or she been a recognized # Do n t L e t T h e Su n Go Do wn On Y o u
the urge to springboard into action. He or she is not matchmaker? #LeaveYourComfortZone #Yolo #TellYourFriends
going to come knocking on your door. If you are lonely-  Where is the office located? How long has he or she #SunsetLove
-or feeling a little blue--do something about it. You do been in that location? Is it a respectable, upbeat office and
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have control over your romantic odds. If you have been environment or a temporary suite? After all, location is Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and
online dating for a period of time, and it’s not working, everything. The more visible a matchmaker is, the more a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled
by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
APOA UPdAte Magazine, South Florida Business Journal, The Stuart
News, and other publications. All Revolution Dating
members are prescreened first, including background
Abacoa POA Meeting Notices checks. Professional member photos are taken by the
staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind
dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
Official notification is posted via the bulletin board outside the Abacoa POA office as well as the www.Abacoa. that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
com Web site. Members may now download Abacoa POA agendas and minutes from our Web site. membership, Kelly also holds private singles mixers. For
Notice of Monthly Abacoa POA Board Meeting – Aug. 20, 2019 – 11:30 a.m. more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in
Notice of Monthly Abacoa POA Community Architect (CAC) Meeting – Fourth Tuesday – See agenda for the South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
posted time. Treasure Coast or visit us at www.revolutiondating.com.
All inquiries are confidential.
**All Abacoa POA meetings to be held at the offices of the Abacoa POA, 1200 University Blvd., Suite 102 unless
otherwise posted. All agendas, as well as approved minutes, will be available at www.abacoa.com. We See You!

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will not be responsible for errors contained in, or related to, articles. August 2019.
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