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      Mental Health – Entirety And Simplicity



       By Sheila M. Cooperman,                              I am positive ADDitude editors would not be thrilled to      There is no comparison to the therapist who studied and is
       Licensed Psychotherapist                          learn this.                                       conveying or counseling a client from the knowledge learned
                                                            Oh and regarding the list above, therapists could break   in a book, and the person who had to save their own life when
          Sure it is holiday time,                       down these topics even further. For my purpose and audience   they frightfully recognized that the academic lessons and the
       and  most  would  expect  a                       I think I have gotten my point across.            content available fell short.
       light fluffy article. But,                           I keep all these articles for my blog, or someday to write a      So, when people want to call me Narcissistic, because
       unfortunately holiday time                        book, about them. After all, with 200 + articles about mental   of my different theory about mental health and the etiology,
       is when there are the most                        health and mood disorders, there is plenty of literary fodder   it just shows me besides everything else they have no idea
       issues with mental health                         to spread around.                                 what narcissistic actually means.
       and suicide. So, my gift                             Well, Psychology Today would like you to believe that,      Along this path, I was privy to something that only my
       for the readers in 2020 is                        since they have been spreading it for decades.    clients and customers are also now aware of. All those 200+
       “awareness and knowledge.”                           But, the reality is my book would be very short. Maybe,   articles are actually describing the same impetus and yet they
       They can finally become “aware” and “knowledgeable” about   it would be more like an e-book.        are clueless.
       how to feel mentally better.                         Unlike most of the therapists that are asked for their      Were these writers, blind, unaware, or just wasting your
          For past decades, and more prevalent today, Mental   opinions at times, my words are far superior.   time? Honestly, to date, I have never seen the most important
       Health conditions aka mental health illness has become one      I do not include myself into that same framework as the   connected word of causation included in any of them.
       of the most endemic issues in this country.       therapist or psychologist, who attended school, sat hours and      Like the magic key to open the door, and to actually
          Why? This is my explanation.                   hours listening to different professors, taking notes, writing   explain why people are feeling the way they do. Why is this
          Most that know me, know full-well I do not conform to   papers and then finally taking exams before they could be   piece always missing from every article?
       PC and I don’t spew clinical nonsense. In my mind, there is   awarded a license from their state of residence.      What is the repeated need to break things down to so
       an element of confusion, purposely indoctrinated on all and      Some might say I am narcissistic, but they would be   many connected yet to the novice unconnected moving parts.
       everyone that will allow themselves to be sucked in.   incorrect. I consider myself in a complete different playing   Again, is this due to ignorance, a lack of awareness and or a
          For years, I have been collecting articles regarding all the   field, the difference from the player and the person who   private agenda? Why else do some companies exist by the
       different topics and subjects that are potentially involved or   watches the sports.                constant belaboring of the same topics written and discussed
       affected where mental health is concerned. This is why there      There is a saying “they are not in the trenches.” When   in a million ways?
       are countless articles that breakdown every single emotion   it comes to mental health, and therapists, psychologists and      Then there are all the other media sources that don’t
       and mood symptom.                                 psychiatrists, never would be a truer statement be heard.   stay in their lane, but instead find the need to just fill their
          These are the articles that I have been collecting; 200+      They were not in the “trenches” so social media has   pages with nonsense, and antiquated, useless dribble. For
       articles and stories, testimonials and reports written about   coined a bunch of acronyms, and in this case STFU would   some reason, find the need to publish another subpar article,
       the following subjects. These breakdown to memory,   be more than appropriate.                      erecting more questions, and providing no solutions about
       ADHD, ADD, grief, addiction, stress, anger, gun violence,      There is no comparison to the person who learned all their   one of the many 25+ different slices of mental health.
       anxiety, sleep, insomnia, depression, suicide, SAD, sadness,   knowledge about mental health from textbooks, and those
       OCD, PTSD, self-esteem, dependency on medication, rape,   that learned it in their own personal quagmire of a trench.   Mental Health – Entirety And Simplicity on page 15
       abuse, mood changes, obsessive behavior, violent thoughts,
       rumination, focus,
          I do this to pretty much debunk the content that is                                                                                    B’H
       contained within. This is not done out of malice, but instead                          Sabra Wall Decor
       to give people the gift of simplicity.
          It is more than evident to anyone alive today, that hyper-
       complexity has taken over our lives when it comes to most   EstimatEs
       topics. Just deciding which toilet paper to purchase is a huge
       brain exercise. I am not speaking about which brand, no that
       is just the tip of the iceberg. Now, brands have more than   Painting & More ...
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          If that is the case, what are they actually saying about
       any one of their products? It says, they do not care, and they
       know none of their products actually work.
          This should be the first light-bulb moment for anyone
       shopping a company that is selling so many products for the
       same purpose. It is also this income-gutting event that gives
       supplement such a bad image.
          Simplicity, simplicity, seems to be the nemesis of our
       routine complexity cerebral syndrome. It appears that unless
       things are made complicated, and difficult to understand, it
       has no value.
          Almost every article that I have in my collection focuses
       on just one emotion or mood symptom. For some companies,
       their continuous writing about the same topic keeps their
       income flowing. Seriously how much can you actually write             Jeffrey S. Fromowitz, M.D., F.A.A.D.
       about ADHD. I don’t know but, a magazine like ADDitude
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