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The Singles Scene Column ©

Holiday Survival Secrets!

By Kelly Leary©, Founder of Revolution Dating
“A very merry season, and a Happy New Year. people fall in love during the holidays more than any other time “Plus One” by the time the ball
Let’s hope it’s a good one, without any fear.”--John Lennon of year. It is the season of magic and miracles. It is the season to drops!
As I sit at my desk, writing the December issue of The Singles love and be loved. If you are single this month,
Scene for the eleventh year in a row, I can’t help but feel a rush In stark contrast, this time of year can bring on the Holiday this is your wake-up call. You
of nostalgia and love in my heart. We have changed the way Blues. We may think of loved ones that are no longer with us and don’t have to be alone. You
Florida singles find love, one date at a time, which is what my we may also be paralyzed by fear of going to a party “single” don’t have to dwell on your
team and I dreamed of years ago. Dreams really do come true (as while everyone else is paired off. It is a couples world, right? Well, sad moments and memories.
you have seen week to week in my column, in the press, and in read on to learn how to navigate the holiday season with ease and You can make new ones. This
our success stories). This is our busiest season and rightfully so, elegance. Do follow my advice today, and you just might have a is my gift to you. Give your
inner child the gift of love and
we will wrap it up with a bow
(and arrow).
The UPSIDE of Being Single
in December:
PALM BEACH FRIENDS OF AFMDA 1. You don’t have to buy your romantic partner something
you don’t like as a gift. (A third drill to add to his drill collection
or ANOTHER bracelet for her! She has enough jewelry, right?).
2020 By the way, gentlemen, most women will not decline jewelry. It
is what it is. Most men in love, enjoy making their lady happy.
If you don’t, maybe you should be doing some thinking and stop
dating. Perhaps you are the problem...because you don’t spoil
Celeration your girl enough?)
2. You can pick and choose where you want to go for Holiday
gatherings.
3. You have more time for you and your family since you no
longer have to split your time between families.
The DOWNSIDE of Being Single in December:
OF 1. People will feel sorry for you, no matter what you say or
think. You look lonely and heartbroken. You don’t have to feel
Life that way with US in town.
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2. You will be asked irritating questions that make your skin
crawl: “Why are you still single? You are so pretty.” or “Why
don’t you try online dating?” Suddenly everyone is an expert,
right? No one walks in your shoes and only you know what you
need to do next, and you should make a move.
Hold the Date 3. You will have no one to kiss on New Year’s Eve 2020. (The
most important kiss of the CENTURY!)
Sunday, March 22, 2020 4. You will be sleeping alone every night, even on the most
romantic nights of the year--you will be alone.

The Breakers Palm Beach THE SOLUTION: Dodge the Single Bullet! (No matter
what your age is--this can be done!) As you know, THE
Florida Matchmaker can increase your odds of finding
sincere and attractive people to date with one simple phone
call...the same way we have changed tens of thousands of lives
over the last 28 years! It’s tough being single, newly single,
2020 HUMANITARIAN AWARD RECIPIENTS or a widow/widower this time of year. Just flip the coin over
and get proactive. The BEST gift you can give yourself this
month does not come in a box. The gift of love (from YOU
to YOU) will lift your spirits instantly. When your relatives
and friends say “You are still single?”...You can confidently
say “Not for long!” and leave it at there on the stage. Nothing
more needs to be said and the action of doing something about
it will change your whole month! You will have HOPE.
Pity many of your married friends that are faking it through
the holiday season “as if they were happy!” YOU are in a great
situation of opportunity. You have choices. YOU are the designer
Allen and Bonnie Sirkin of your love life and you will choose who to kiss on New Year’s
Eve 2020, with our help of course. So let’s get going...your match
is waiting for you.
To close, I quote John Lennon one more time: “So this is
Christmas, and what have you done? Another year older and a
new one just begun. And so this is Christmas, I hope you have
fun.” I wish you happiness. This is our birthright. Go out there
and make this a memorable holiday season! Keep love and hope
as your guiding light, and you won’t go wrong. Let love and light
guide you.
Let’s unite, bond, love, and connect. December holds a mirror
up to you and asks, “What do you want?” I know what you
Laurie and Kevin Luskin Gene and Karen Kroner want because you are reading this column. The next step is your
2020 Gala Chairs 2020 Gala Chairs responsibility (make your appointment to meet us today) and we
will take care of the rest.
Wishing you an extraordinary Holiday Season 2019 and a
All proceeds to support Magen David Adom, Israel’s ambulance, Happy New Year 2020!
blood-services, and disaster-relief organization. Thank You for Sharing Your YEAR with me once again.
XoXo, Kelly
#BeatTheHolidayRush #JoinTheLoveMovementToday
For more information on the Palm Beach Gala, #HolidayLove #JoinUs #TellYourFriends
email palmbeach@afmda.org or call 561.835.0510. Kelly Leary has 28 years in the dating industry and a
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Master’s Degree in Psychology. ABC News, The Palm Beach
Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, etc. have profiled
her. Revolution Dating members are prescreened including
background checks. Professional photos are taken by the
staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In
addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles
“UN-single” through their exclusive club membership, Kelly
afmda.org also holds private singles mixers. Please call our Hotline at 561-
630-XOXO (9696), 772-932-HERE (4373), or 954-420-XOXO
(9696) to speak to a LIVE team member. You may also visit us
at www.revolutiondating.com. *All Inquiries are Confidential.