Page 14 - The Jewsish Voice - August '20
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Page 14, The Jewish Voice


          WE BELiEvE iN long-                                                             LiFestyLes



        term relationships                              What Does Faith Mean to You?                         caught the virus while at a small tournament held at a bridge
                                                                                                             In late February/early March dozens of bridge players
                                                        By Rebbetzin Chana Vigler                          club in Colorado Springs, four people passed away, and 25
                                                           To many, faith is a distant,                    were hospitalized with serious complications. When the
           You show your commitment                     incomprehensible concept                           news began to spread, bridge club directors everywhere
                                                        — one that is wrought with
                                                                                                           had the startling realization that they were taking the same
         to those you love by anticipating              challenge and discomfort. It                       precautions in Colorado that we were at our clubs; it could
                                                        is borne out of the struggles
         their needs and fulfilling their               of life. When things get way                       have happened anywhere. In mid-March it wasn’t just bridge
                                                                                                           clubs that were faced with closures, but all non-essential
         dreams.  At Stoever Glass &                    too hard to deal with, faith                       businesses. We were thinking in terms of weeks, but now
                                                        enters. Almost as a crutch to
                                                                                                           here we are four months later with no clear reopening date
         Co., we craft a plan that helps                lean on when all else fails.                       in sight. In the meantime, the game of bridge has changed
                                                        To others it’s simply been
                                                                                                           to become almost completely unrecognizable.
         you achieve your goals and                     fed from the moment they                              Walking into a room filled with card tables and other bridge
                                                        were born. A way of life. Religion was placed on them like
         create a legacy that you and                   a cloak fitted with heavy weights that thrust their shoulders   players feels like coming home for many of us. Bridge players
                                                                                                           are known for being quick thinking, social, and competitive.
         your heirs will be proud of.                   so far down they nearly reach their knees. To them, faith is   Many players have been playing at the same club with and
                                                        but obsolete. They hear it, they speak it, but their hearts are
                                                                                                           against the same people for years. We all love the game, some
           Gary        Rosenberg            works       empty and in constant search to be filled with something more   may even call it an obsession, and because of that there are
                                                        to complete them, to fill them, to be content.
                                                                                                           some new adjectives to add to the list: tenacious and adaptable.
         comprehensively with his clients                 purpose. It has made that line in the sand differentiating from      Once it was clear there would be no face-to-face bridge in
                                                           To me, faith is a gift. It has guided me and given me
         investment goals. He specializes               right and wrong so that I don’t need to debate it and wonder.   the near future, the American Contract Bridge League hastily
                                                                                                           partnered with the largest online bridge website, Bridge Base
         in setting up portfolios using                 It has shown me that we are all here for a reason and one day   Online (BBO), to form virtual versions of existing bridge clubs.
                                                        we will report back to see how well we fared.
                                                                                                           There was a steep learning curve for both directors and players
                                                           Many people walk the road of life questioning if there is a
         municipal,         corporate          and        G-d. We, however, are privileged to know that what we see is   who wanted to take their games online, and everyone agreed
                                                                                                           that the biggest challenge would be convincing players to make
         preferred securities to help                   not what we get. That every human body has been bestowed   the switch to online. Those big open rooms full of tables and
                                                        with a G-dly soul and is thus perfect, holy, and pure. That
         create a steady stream of                      every existence and every encounter is purposeful and meant   people were about to be replaced by each player sitting alone
                                                                                                           in their own home while staring at a screen. The bridge players,
         income for you.                                to be. We are here to connect to others, to G-d, and to self. To   however, seemed to collectively decide that online bridge was
                                                        learn lessons we couldn’t otherwise learn. That the physical
                                                                                                           better than nothing and they flocked to learn the ins-and-outs
                                                        is intrinsically connected to the spiritual. It is knowing that   of the new virtual games.
                                                        death is a part of life.                              For both directors and players this meant spending hours
                                                           I know that many may separate religion and faith. To me   working through the convoluted process of learning their way
                                                        it is one and the same. To have faith is to have religion and   around the BBO site. Even some of the fundamental rules of
                                                        to have religion is to have faith. If you believe in the Torah   the game had to be changed to accommodate online play. I lost
                                                        you must believe in G-d and if you believe in G-d you must   track of the number of phone calls that started with “I’m the
                                                        believe in the Torah. They are indivisible.        only one who can’t figure this out!”, but it was all of us having
                                                           I choose to have faith. It enriches my life in more ways   to learn the ins-and-outs of this new kind of bridge. One player
                                                        than I realize and I am blessed by it every single day.   confided in me that they had never been to a website before.
                                                        Choosing to have faith is a reminder that I have in fact been   I have to admit I wasn’t sure we could get there, but within a
                                                        chosen. Hand picked to accomplish very important tasks only   couple of weeks they were playing bridge online right along
                                                        I could fulfill. Why else would I be on this earth?  with everyone else. No matter how frustrating and confusing
                                                           Rebbetzin Chana Vigler is co-founder of Chabad of Palm   it was, they just wouldn’t give up.
                                                        Beach Gardens and Ladies in Leadership Initiative (LiLi)      I’ve never seen a group of people so willing to step out of
                                                        and co-host of The Sunday Schmooze. Email her at chana@  their comfort zone. They were using technology they weren’t
                                                        jewishgardens.com.                                 comfortable with to play a game in a whole new way. It is truly
                                                                                                           inspiring and it’s happening everywhere in almost every aspect
                                                        Bridge Goes Virtual                                of life. We are all having to adjust to the “new normal” and
                                                                                                           learn different ways to do what we do. It’s daunting, but there
                                                        at Mandel JCC                                      are creative problem solvers everywhere and people from all
                                                                                                           walks of life are proving to be tenacious and adaptable. Never
                                                        By Chris Van Leeuwen                               let it be said that you can’t teach an old bridge player new tricks.
                                                           It is difficult to overstate the impact the Covid-19 crisis has      The Mandel JCC offers daily virtual bridge games
                                                        had on our everyday lives, and especially our social outlets   Sunday through Friday at 12:30 p.m. If you are interested in
                                                        and recreational activities. South Florida bridge clubs were   participating in an online bridge game, join us at JCConline.
                                                        early adopters of safety measures, implementing changes   com/bridge or contact Chris at 561-712-5276.
                                                        starting in February by putting away the buffet-style food      Christina van Leeuwen is an ACBL Gold Life Master, part-
                                                        in favor of individual packaging, disinfecting everything   time tournament director, and Bridge Director at the Mandel
                                                        from tables to bidding boxes, and scrounging up as much   JCC in Palm Beach Gardens, where she teaches classes and
                                                        hand-sanitizer as we could, well, get our hands on. Bridge   hosts daily bridge play and tournaments year-round. For the
                                                        is sort of a worst case scenario for this virus given that it   Mandel JCC Bridge schedule, go to JCConline.com/bridge.
                                                        is played sitting only two or three feet apart, everyone is   Chris may be reached at Bridge@JCConline.com.
                                                        handling playing cards, and the average age of the players
                                                        is somewhere in the low 70s.                       Lifestyles on page 16

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