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The Singles Scene Column © Money, and Emotion. Any date is an investment of all ♥ 50:50. This is about talking, not paying the tab!

LOVE AFTER LOCKDOWN SPECIAL three. With our pre-screening of members, relationships While dating, keep an eye on your conversation and your
listening skills. Take turns. Your conversation should be
move along quicker and tend to be a better investment of
EDITION TME at Revolution Dating. shared equally. If someone is doing 90% of the talking,
♥ Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day there is a problem.
Pearls of Wisdom from THE Florida Matchmaker
of the week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to ♥ When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break
By Kelly Leary, M.S., success in date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the up through an email or text. Be forthright but humble.
Founder of Revolution door, but can you get a second date? Inner beauty rules. ♥ Grieving is tough, and everyone has their own
Dating ♥ Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will… timeline. You will know when you are ready to get back
♥ Practice kindness. including your date! in the game. In this day and age, seniors are dating after
There is nothing that’s a ♥ If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul the loss of a spouse, and they are finding love again. But
bigger turnoff than when a search. Are you doing everything you can to find love? Or always avoid comparisons. You are looking for someone
person comes into the gate are you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your new who will be a good companion in the here and now.
– or a date, or a room, or a doorstep like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration. ♥ Cowards never start, winners never quit, and
party – with a bad attitude. If Connect, bond, show your good side, listen to feedback, quitters never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember,
you don’t practice kindness give feedback, cooperate and be open to advice. If you go fear is the opposite of love.
in life, love, work and play, to your doctor and don’t listen to one word of his advice, ♥ Join a love movement just for YOU. Stand up for
you will reap what you sow. fail to take your medicine, and remain sick, is it your something that you want in your life moving forward. Be
♥ First impressions matter. I’ve learned that your doctor’s fault? No. part of your own solution, not your own problem. Get
impression of a person is usually formed in the first 60 ♥ Don’t be too picky. I have a female client who won’t out of your own way, in other words, when it comes to
seconds! So make sure that your “hello” is a good one. date a man under 6’4”, literally. He has to be a tri-athlete, has romance.
♥ Love over 65 is easier than you think! I am not a high net worth, and must have blue eyes! If your criteria ♥ You catch more flies with honey than you do with
even intimidated by aging anymore, as I watch my clients are this strict, be prepared to wait quite a bit longer than vinegar. This rings true in and out of my club.
have fun well into their 80s. Age is just a number and someone who is more open-minded. High standards are ♥ CONNECT. CONNECT. CONNECT. People who
romance happens at all ages. I see it every day. fine, as long as you know that the other person has to like have good relationships and friendships of any form are
♥ Don’t delay real romance in your 30s. Don’t wait YOU back! Be realistic and self-aware. (Example: avoid the happiest people alive. Togetherness is happiness.
until you’re 37 or 38 to get serious about your search for requesting a Blake Shelton look alike if you are not a Gwen ♥ Dating is a journey. This rings true even after we
a life-long partner. Women shouldn’t do this for obvious Stefani look-alike--this has actually happened to me.) find you the right one. There will be highs and there will
reasons, but men shouldn’t either. When men wait too ♥ Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t be lows. Learn from these experiences. Grow with your
long to start the process, I have noticed they become too abuse this and use them for a free meal! Always be partner.
picky, jaded, and can be labeled negatively. courteous and say thank you! Thank you so much for “Following the Matchmaker”
♥ Love begets love. We have a rule in our office: “Only ♥ Online dating is a risky roll of the dice. You could for three decades! WOW! We are celebrating 30 years
Love is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind and lose your time, money, and soul (T.M.E.) in the same way in the biz and hope to meet you soon too! Our schedule
I guarantee you will probably get a second one! people lose themselves in Las Vegas! Stay too long, and is filling up quickly so don’t hesitate to take the plunge.
♥ You can buy love (sort of). Dates, dinners, gifts, you may never come back. Your timing is PERFECT!
cards, flowers, vacations, rings, weddings…there is no ♥ Always maintain an attitude of gratitude. This I hope you join us on our mission to LOVE AFTER
avoiding the “cost” of dating. A man may splurge for the applies to your love life and far beyond. LOCKDOWN. There is no better time in history to begin.
first few dates, and a woman may get her hair done and ♥ 80/20. If your relationship/date is 80% good and Celebrations abound and we are expanding by leaps and
buy a few new outfits and a new shade of lipstick. If you 20% questionable, give it the green light and continue. bounds in the coming months! Beat the rush and register
don’t invest, you won’t progress. Otherwise, it’s time to do some serious soul searching. today!
♥ T.M.E. Facts: Dating is an investment of Time, Is this the right fit for you? Much Love & Gratitude,
Kelly
Kelly Leary has 30 years in the dating industry and
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a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled
by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher
Magazine, and other nationwide publications. All
Revolution Dating clients are prescreened in person in
their private offices. Professional photos are taken by
the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind
dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
membership. Each membership is custom made to suit
you and your needs. For more information, please
call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373)
or visit www.revolutiondating.com. *All inquiries are
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