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Page 2, Viewpointe July 2021
Trust Me

By Judith Levy who compliment you frequently to tell you how wonderful you your financial security or even your home. But, he promised,
are to take care of their Dad twenty four seven, now that he’s he said, “Trust me”, and you did. Mistake. Know your rights,
In a relationship or a gone, all bets are off. They can be in many cases like a pack know what your situation is and will be if and when. If he
second marriage it would of wolves gnarling at the door, squabbling over every dollar, really means what he says about trusting him, he won’t mind,
be wise, in fact imperative because “Blood is thicker than water, and money is thicker than however reluctantly, in spite of putting it off time and time
for the woman to clearly blood and you’re no blood anyway.” They no longer wish to again, seeing an attorney and getting his wishes down on paper
know her position should pay a toll on a bridge they don’t need to cross anymore. Your so you are protected. Then you can go on having a lovely
her partner pass on. She may value to them is at an end, their Dad is gone, so why should relationship with his children for years to come, not sullied
have brought up this delicate you get any of their father’s money, and they may fight you later by arguments over finances and he will have done right
situation to her partner, for every dime, tying up the estate legally, so you can’t even by you, just the way he says he wants to do. You would be
voicing her concerns about get money for your everyday needs. A fine mess you’re in. well advised to listen and act before the horse is out of the
the future in case she finds herself alone, and his response was This scenario may not be the situation in every case, but barn. I’ll bet you’ve heard some sad stories on this subject,
“Trust me”. Don’t. if it’s in yours, where does that leave you? Unless you have be smart, don’t be one of them. Trust me!
He may mean well, and probably does, but his children, everything down in writing, or the law in Florida is on your
side, you’re up a creek without a paddle. Don’t take my advice, GRANDMOTHER REMEMBERS, which has sold over four
Judith Levy is the New York Times best-selling author of
I’m not an attorney, but do get to see one, with your partner
Call For or without. It will be money well spent. If you don’t, later on, million copies and has been translated into five languages
and the mega best-seller GRANDFATHER REMEMBERS,
instead of having tears on your face, you’ll have egg on it.
Volunteers Now, instead of just losing your partner, you could have lost published by HarperCollins. 

Interested
in serving on a
committee?
The BPCA
hosts (3) three
long standing committees. Below is the name of the
committee and a brief description of its functions.
ARCHITECTURAL CONTROL/SITE
COMMITTEE: To monitor adherence to the
architectural control guidelines and minimum
standards of maintenance adopted by the BPCA, in
order to preserve and enhance the aesthetic qualities
of the Community.
A C C ESS C ON TR OL and S AFETY
COMMITTEE: The purpose of the committee is to
advise and assist the Board of Directors of Boca Pointe
Community Association in promoting and preserving
the safety and security of the community, its residents,
and its properties.
BUDGET & FINANCE COMMITTEE: The
purpose of the committee is to assist the Treasurer’s
review of the funds, assets, and financial records of
the Association. Service on the committee will be
a requirement for the position of Treasurer of the
Association.
Volunteers play a very important role by participating
on a committee; providing thoughtful input to
deliberations; and focusing on the best interests of
the BPCA while working toward accomplishing our
goals. The BPCA could not be such a success without
our great, dedicated volunteers.
Service as a committee member is a one-year
term and it requires participation on monthly
Zoom conference calls or in person meetings and
collaborative involvement on projects that the
committee mandates.
If you would like to be considered for one of the
committee positions in the upcoming year, please email
info@bocapointe.com to request an application. 

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