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The Singles Scene Column ©

What Type Of Single Are You?

By: Kelly Leary© M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating
Knowledge is power and YOU hold the key to your future exaggerates their bad attitude as they are never satisfied. The HopeFUL Romantic:
relationship. Only YOU have the power to navigate the change Likelihood of resuming a (healthy) relationship is slim to none. Luckily “most” of the people
needed on your personal road from SINGLE to TAKEN. If Open to change: minimal. This male or female may have been I meet are this type of person
you are in “relationship limbo” or “in between relationships” cheated on or took a large hit in life and never recovered. This (yeah). This male or female has
do identify what type of single you represent by choosing from person can be helped with some therapy or a complete change felt love in the most beautiful
the below categories. Do this today and take deliberate action of attitude. However, a “revolution” becomes less likely the sense of the word. They
toward change. Let’s figure this out, together. longer this person stays single. If this is you, get moving while have also felt heartache but
The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single, you’ve still got it. As it stands, with no therapy or mindset they continue to love more...
divorced or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, grouchy change this person is undateworthy. Many people online fall and they almost always do!
and in some ways even unlovable. There may be a sense of into this category. They are just no fun to be around, right? WHY? Because they believe
desire for another completely “out of their league” which You can make much better use of your time. in love AND they know they
are lovable. This person knows
the benefits of love will ALWAYS outweigh the risks. Single,
divorced, or widowed of ALL AGES this person has a high
success rate in my club and the odds are in their favor. This
person can be alone but their ultimate desire is to find their
forever/grand finale love.
The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in bars
or online dating sites and is rather desperate to find a partner.
Most divorced or never married and age 25 to 60. This single
jumps from date to date rapidly. They confuse the physical
aspects of intimacy with love and commitment and are often
left with feelings of rejection, insecurity, jealousy...because
she is rarely...if ever...the “chosen one.” She will date almost
“anyone” who pays attention to her. This person is, well,
desperate. I typically don’t meet this type of person in my office
and I would rather not work with this type--to be honest. It is
too unattractive--as a character trait--and they usually scare
people off after one date. They are tough to be with on any
level, frankly. I’m sure you know the type. In their book of
life it is never their fault. Blame games abound.
The Even Steven: He is a total mess. Commonly divorced
or never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male counterpart of
Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy but can’t seem to
shake his past failures. This man blames women for all his
failings and suffers from great insecurity in and out of the
bedroom. He may also over-compensate for his weakness by
seeking multiple notches in his head board...to get “EVEN”
with the opposite sex...trying to desperately make himself
“whole” again. He is rarely successful and noncommittal
when all is said and done. Most men like this prey in bars,
online dating sites or the social media area. Luckily again, I
don’t meet many of these social predators in my office. They
are too happy with the dark side of keyboard dating, which is
more ominous. Even Steven’s like to operate under the radar
of responsible authentic dating.
The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age,
although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female had
a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately and are
now ready to find new companionship (not marriage per se).
This group does very well in my club as long as they avoid
comparing their matches to their late husband or wife. I have
All Natural Pain Medicine seen many widows and widowers find love again in my club--
and it is SO REWARDING. My heart goes out to those who
Ask Us!!! have found the key to happy marriage...and I know...as with
the “HOPEFUL ROMANTICS” that there can be a chapter
after a loss of a spouse. This generation of seniors today (from
60s to the 80s), given the right circumstances and opportunity,
can really have a ball. I see it all the time! I am not even afraid
to age anymore! Thank you to all my seniors for being so cool
and open minded to love/kinship after loss of a spouse. It can
happen.
May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give you
• Compounded Medications exciting moments to look forward to this coming summer.
Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
made for you and your pets! Love, Kelly
#LoveFest2022 #AimTrueIn2022 #LoveOffline #WhyBeSingle
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• Wheelchairs, Walkers, Canes Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades
in the love business. In her 31 years of experience, she has
TequesTa Drugs anD watched the dating scene morph drastically with the onset
of online dating and she has witnessed a huge boom in her
longstanding private practice--especially post pandemic.
With her Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology, with
CompounDing a Forensic Concentration, she has revolutionized the
industry. She has been profiled by PalmBeacher Magazine,
Stuart News, Boca Magazine, The Palm Beach Post and
other publications. Kelly was also named “Florida Woman”
background checks. Professional client photos are taken
The Pharmacy With A in recent years. Her clients are prescreened first, including
in house. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind
dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services
that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
connections, Kelly is also involved in the charity community
sponsoring organizations like The Leukemia Lymphoma
Society, Furry Friends, and Chasin’ A Dream Foundation.
To get started, simply call (561) 630-XOXO (9696) or (772)
See answer in this paper. 932-HERE (4373) or register on her website at www.
revolutiondating.com.