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                                             The Singles Scene Column                                            ©

                                                         What Type Of Single Are You?

                                                          By: Kelly Leary© M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating

         Knowledge is power and                         the odds are in their favor. This person can be alone but their   seen many widows and widowers find love again in my
      YOU hold the key to your future                   ultimate desire is to find their forever/grand finale love.   club--and it is SO REWARDING. My heart goes out to those
      relationship. Only YOU have                          The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in bars or   who have found the key to happy marriage...and I know...
      the power to navigate the change                  online dating sites and is rather desperate to find a partner. Most   as with the “HOPEFUL ROMANTICS” that there can be a
      needed on your personal road                      divorced or never married and age 25 to 60. This single jumps   chapter after a loss of a spouse. This generation of seniors
      from SINGLE to TAKEN. If                          from date to date rapidly. They confuse the physical aspects   today (from 60s to the 80s), given the right circumstances
      you are in “relationship limbo”                   of intimacy with love and commitment and are often left with   and opportunity, can really have a ball. I see it all the time!
      or “in between relationships”                     feelings of rejection, insecurity, jealousy...because she is rarely...  I am not even afraid to age anymore! Thank you to all my
      do identify what type of single                   if ever...the “chosen one.” She will date almost “anyone” who   seniors for being so cool and open minded to love/kinship
      you represent by choosing from                    pays attention to her. This person is, well, desperate. I typically   after loss of a spouse. It can happen.
      the below categories. Do this                     don’t meet this type of person in my office and I would rather      May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give you
      today and take deliberate action                  not work with this type--to be honest. It is too unattractive--as a   exciting moments to look forward to this coming summer.
      toward change. Let’s figure this out, together.   character trait--and they usually scare people off after one date.   Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
         The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single, divorced   They are tough to be with on any level, frankly. I’m sure you                Love, Kelly
      or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, grouchy and in some   know the type. In their book of life it is never their fault. Blame   #LoveFest2022 #AimTrueIn2022 #LoveOffline #WhyBeSingle
      ways even unlovable. There may be a sense of desire for another   games abound.                      #TellYourFriends #SheConnects
      completely “out of their league” which exaggerates their bad      The Even Steven: He is a total mess. Commonly divorced or
      attitude as they are never satisfied. Likelihood of resuming a   never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male counterpart of Lucy      Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades in the
      (healthy) relationship is slim to none. Open to change: minimal.   Goosey. He wants love and intimacy but can’t seem to shake   love business. In her 31 years of experience, she has watched
      This male or female may have been cheated on or took a large   his past failures. This man blames women for all his failings   the dating scene morph drastically with the onset of online
      hit in life and never recovered. This person can be helped with   and suffers from great insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He   dating and she has witnessed a huge boom in her longstanding
      some therapy or a complete change of attitude. However, a   may also over-compensate for his weakness by seeking multiple   private practice--especially post pandemic. With her Master’s
      “revolution” becomes less likely the longer this person stays   notches in his head get “EVEN” with the opposite   Degree in Clinical Psychology, with a Forensic Concentration,
      single. If this is you, get moving while you’ve still got it. As   sex...trying to desperately make himself “whole” again. He is   she has revolutionized the industry. She has been profiled by
      it stands, with no therapy or mindset change this person is   rarely successful and noncommittal when all is said and done.   PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Boca Magazine, The
      undateworthy. Many people online fall into this category. They   Most men like this prey in bars, online dating sites or the social   Palm Beach Post and other publications. Kelly was also named
      are just no fun to be around, right? You can make much better   media area. Luckily again, I don’t meet many of these social   “Florida Woman” in recent years. Her clients are prescreened
      use of your time.                                 predators in my office. They are too happy with the dark side of   first, including background checks. Professional client photos
         The HopeFUL Romantic: Luckily “most” of the people   keyboard dating, which is more ominous. Even Steven’s like to   are taken in house. Revolution Dating is not online dating or
      I meet are this type of person (yeah). This male or female has   operate under the radar of responsible authentic dating.   blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that
      felt love in the most beautiful sense of the word. They have also      The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age,   make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive connections,
      felt heartache but they continue to love more...and they almost   although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female had   Kelly is also involved in the charity community sponsoring
      always do! WHY? Because they believe in love AND they know   a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately and are   organizations like The Leukemia Lymphoma Society, Furry
      they are lovable. This person knows the benefits of love will   now ready to find new companionship (not marriage per se).   Friends, and Chasin’ A Dream Foundation. To get started,
      ALWAYS outweigh the risks. Single, divorced, or widowed of   This group does very well in my club as long as they avoid   simply call (561) 630-XOXO (9696) or (772) 932-HERE (4373)
      ALL AGES this person has a high success rate in my club and   comparing their matches to their late husband or wife. I have   or register on her website at

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