Page 9 - Lifestyles in Palm Beach Gardens - July '22

Lifestyles in Palm Beach Gardens, Page 9
The Singles Scene © Historical Seeds

How to CRUSH that First nice to the wait staff! Be polite to those around and speak
highly on life whenever possible...especially on a first
Date! date. Don’t take over the conversation. There will be time Of The Gardens
to share your story but wait...ok?
By: Kelly Leary, M.S., 7. Ask Questions on your date and listen. What’s
Founder of Revolution your date’s favorite topic of conversation? We all love
Dating to feel important and interesting. If you can make your
“Do not anticipate date feel these things, chances are he/she will be more
trouble or worry about what attracted to you. It’s human nature.
may never happen. Keep in 8. Let Your Date Know You’re Having a Good Time!
the sunlight.~~Benjamin If you’re having a good time, let it show. Smile. Laugh.
Franklin A well placed, “I’m having a great time” is good. We
Summer is a great season all want to be with people that we can make happy. Let
for budding romance and him/her know and thank them for it too. This eliminates
commitments that stick for guessing games!
years to come. This July, 9. Be Passionate. When your date asks you about
we want you to leave your comfort zone and enjoy dating yourself be passionate about the information you choose
again. It is possible. Most of all, don’t let FIRST DATE to share. Be decisive in your answers, and don’t wallow Contiguous Currents by Greek-born artist Costas Varotsos
PHOBIA freeze you up. We are here to help you over the back and forth. However, avoid talking too much about is located in the municipal complex along North Military
hump. We want you on that first date, second date, third yourself and don’t bring up past relationships...for as long Trail. The turquoise sculpture is a twisting line of curved
date--and ultimately TAKEN. as humanly possible. metal with lower sections suggestive of pools of water.
When you do find someone interested in you and vice 10. Keep It Light and Be Positive. Also, please Despite the artist’s worldwide reputation, this untraditional
versa, please follow these simple steps to land a second eliminate ALL talk of medical conditions, politics, and sculpture is arguably the city’s most controversial artwork.
date. It’s easy to forget “first date etiquette” after a long religious ideas. Talk about your travels, your hobbies, While some residents appreciate it, others call it “the
time-out (either due to the pandemic, a break-up or loss your favorite books or ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS wave,” which is not a compliment, or worse—“snakes.”
of spouse). It doesn’t matter what your age is--just get LIGHT AND FUN. Don’t be so serious; very few
out there again and enjoy the romance that is bound to people want to sit through a detailed explanation of your For more seeds, see Images of America, Palm Beach
follow with these simple steps! difficulties at this stage. Gardens by Arcadia Publishing. The PBG Historical
1. You like each other. So, make that date right away! 11. Conduct Yourself With Dignity. When you find Society’s mission is to collect, preserve and share the rich
Don’t drag out the first date commitment with too many yourself attracted to a person, sometimes you can get history of the Gardens.
phone calls and time delays. You will seem fearful or carried away. If you want to talk for six hours, go for www.PBGHistoricalSociety.org
disinterested. Once made, be on time and don’t cancel it. If you want to share another bottle of wine do it...but
or reschedule. This is not a good way to start a first date. otherwise be aware that a first date is “a thing”. It’s a
You don’t want to start your date with an apology. time to be the best version of you. Don’t screw it up.
2. Your appearance is important. Dress to impress 12. Watch What You Say in Cyberspace. You’d Advertise,
– for your first date it’s far better to be overdressed be surprised how transparent social media can be. So
rather than underdressed. Remember we are putting our if you decided to document your date on Facebook, it Check out our website!
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3. Practice Kindness. The biggest turnoff is a person who posts every thought on social media.
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